Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

I was supposed to sleep over my friends but decided to go home and when i arrived i didnt think anyone was there. I went up to my room to find my parents naked "doing it" on my bed. I dont know what to do or say to them. help?!

2007-12-26 18:31:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Should i revamp my style or is it not worth it??? Would you consider me an ugly guy??? Do i look better with long or short hair??? Honest answers thanks, dw about getting 10 points.

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2007-12-26 18:29:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im not sure if he is, but sometimes i get da feeling could u pls help. He did give me reason to believe in da past.

2007-12-26 18:27:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

would you hookup (sex) on the night you met her and if so how would you want the girl to let you know thats what she wanted, so that you knew it was ok to do it with her

2007-12-26 18:23:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i told my boyfriend of 1 month some nasty things like i hope the girl that is 2 months pregnant with your baby gets ran over by a truck.he stoped calling me that night,i txt that i was sorry 4 what i said but he didnt respond.the next day he responde with "u always talk **** & im tired of your comments".i called his phone after that message but he never picks up.so i thought he would never speak 2 me again. next day my friend calls,says she wants to go out, we go to this club, he was there.i went up 2 him & say y dont u respond to my txt,he says cause he was mad & he wasnt planning on talking 2 me 4 a while.later on he comes to hug me and then we ended up kissing and he tells me he missed me like crazy,i told him how sorry i was.i text him on chrismas eve 4 him 2 come over and get his gift.he comes gets his gift & then drops me off 2 my family.i txt him merrry xmas,he doesnt respond,boxing day i didnt bother 2 call him & he never. call me.help-do u think he is finnished with me or not

2007-12-26 18:22:23 · 6 answers · asked by kim27 2 in Singles & Dating

ive had my 2nd child 6wks ago.my partner feels that since the birth of our 2nd child that imno longer affectionect towards him.we no longer kiss or really have time 2 snuggle up.
i feel bad that we arent as afeectionet as we used 2 b but at the same time he doesnt understand that it s full on looking after 2 children especially when u havea baby that is only 6wks old and being breastfeed.he feels like im no longer interested in hi or attracted 2 him.
i am very much attracted 2 him but he doesnt listen 2 me when i tell him.how can i make him realise im being truthful.
also im afraid of being affectionect 2 him incase he leaves like he has several other times for other girls h hs gotten interested in.

2007-12-26 18:11:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so my girlfriend wants to try more things in the bedroom. any advice for me or her? positions or other things we could do? we're up for anything. thanks!

2007-12-26 18:01:03 · 24 answers · asked by lc.soccer13 1 in Singles & Dating

I'll get to the point... I was with this guy it was really late, we kissed and talked for a bout half hour then went to sleep. About 20 mins later we woke up and started fooling around and then ended up having sex. He was in me for about 5 seconds when he lost his erection (which i am completely fine with, not a big deal to me), so after about 2 mins of kissing and stuff I asked him if he wanted to go to bed. I said it in a very polite manner cuz i knew he was exhausted from work. THEN he randomly outta no where responds with: "Well I guess so, since you're just laying there ". ( i was very active on the bottom part btw, so i wasn't just laying there)
MY QUESTION: why did he just lash out at me for no reason??? Was he so embarrased by losing his erection that he tried to put the blame on me??
I would love to hear guys viewpoints on this matter.
We always have a lotta fun and have great sex, I said nothing mean to him and then BAM he just said that and never apologized for sayingit

2007-12-26 17:56:56 · 6 answers · asked by collegegurlumass 1 in Singles & Dating

I just dont feel anything anymore sometimes i think i do but i dont. i dont want to make love, i dont want him to touch me i am very jumpy with him. he has tried to choke me twice and i don't want to get him in trouble i want him to get help. and he has no where to live he has no job and no real family. he has nothing so i hate to have him leave. i don't know what to do anymore i am so lost and confused. he eats all my food leaves me nothing smokes all my cancer sticks, takes whatever i have that he doesn't off of me such as drinks or food or candy anything. sits on my computer all day, uses my phone for whatever he wants, watches porno consistently, tells me to shut up all the time when i try working things out, makes me have sex when i dont want to or dont feel well, oh my goodness the list goes on i just feel so bad for him i don't know what to do.

2007-12-26 17:53:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been apart since February and she has moved on, and although for the most part I have too, I still love her very deeply. I want to start the new year fresh and I feel that the only way to do that is to let go of the love that I have for her. So how do I do that? Telling her is not an option as I have not spoken to her since July and I don't think it would be healthy for me to anyways.

2007-12-26 17:50:22 · 37 answers · asked by Patrick E 6 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and i think he likes me because he makes laugh and is always a round me, but my enemy likes him to should i ask hi out or should i what for him to ask me out

2007-12-26 17:49:25 · 3 answers · asked by Rain G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend just proposed to me on Christmas eve! We're both very artistic people and are trying to think of some clever ideas for our wedding!! I think Im going to find a corset wedding dress, and he might wear a white tux. Most likely it will be a spring/summer wedding.
Anyway we're just sitting around, & i thought maybe someone out there in the web world would have some good ideas for us.
Any input would be greatly appreciated!!

2007-12-26 17:45:09 · 6 answers · asked by cilla z. 2 in Weddings

idk any other person besides my dad that has been adopted..i was when i was four years old, and i had this feeling last year it started, to find my bio parrents, and then out of the blue my friend calls me up and says she just met my bio parrents, i was speach less, i met up with them a few times...they arent doin so well in money standards, but their making it, but now i'm not allowed to see them until i turn 18....and now when ever me and my mom now, have fights or arguements she'll drag my bio parrents into it and say "DO YOU WANT TO GO LIVE WITH THEM?" and idk what to answer to her question, i mean after i read/heard the reason why i was put out for adoption, i dont wanna live with my bio family, so now i'm confused and lost and dnt know what to do... so please help me..thanx

2007-12-26 17:41:14 · 11 answers · asked by spikex02boy 1 in Family

My BF's family is rude and grouchy to me and just in general to everyone. I really hate being around them. How do I deal with them and still keep things going well with my BF.

2007-12-26 17:40:14 · 6 answers · asked by adobeprincess 6 in Family

I wanna hear from people who have been together a long time. How did you know this person was the right one for you. I don't know if I can believe in "the one" but I do believe in compatible people. And how did you work through your problems?

2007-12-26 17:37:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 17:37:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know... you're walking down the street, someone passes, you turn back to look... what is it that makes you do that?

2007-12-26 17:35:07 · 17 answers · asked by Pazit. 5 in Singles & Dating

Is it a good idea to get married a year before you finish college? me and my boyfriend are planning this and by that time he would already had finished college and i would only need 1 more year.

2007-12-26 17:33:30 · 18 answers · asked by cowgirl09 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was a virgin b4 my bf, but we have been together and sexually active for a while. He told me the other night that I was the best he has ever had... could this be true... he has been with other women before. Have you ever been with a relatively inexperienced woman who was great in bed?

2007-12-26 17:31:34 · 28 answers · asked by Missy C 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the sexiest thing about a girl? Is it looks, something she has done for you, or maybe something she has done to you?

2007-12-26 17:30:32 · 5 answers · asked by peacenlove22 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a question from a friend of mine. Any advise would be greatly appreciated.

Right now i am again facing troubles with ex husband in regards to my placement with my son. He is again attempting to deny my placement period, and threatening to with hold him. I am extremely stressed, if any one has any advice, please help. Ive already contacted my lawyer and the district attorneys in three counties. Any advice would help, my ex is extremely intimidating and this is the third time he has done this.
What do I do??

2007-12-26 17:30:29 · 7 answers · asked by Summertime 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I believe that people say that they love someone, they don't really mean it. Can you tell the apart?

2007-12-26 17:30:26 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Usually around this time of the year, he gets emotional because it brings back alot of controversial memories. He asked to go back to the way things were on the 23rd, and I know he really wants an answer soon. I feel bad because this is the first time he's had a nice Christmas since 2001, and I don't want to spoil it because of me not wanting to go out with him. He still loves me, and he's even told me this. But, I don't want to do it again because the last time we went out, he gave it 2 months, and said he didn't like the distance (we live 300+ miles apart) and said it wouldn't work. How would this time be different, I have no clue. He didn't really want to break up in the first place, but he didn't want to have the responsibilty of worrying about me that far away. Plus, the gas money to see me would be astronomical. He's a sweet guy, and he really really cares for me. I really don't want to spoil his holiday, but I want to decline the offer to go out again. Is this even possible?

2007-12-26 17:29:12 · 5 answers · asked by mcrwayperfect 2 in Singles & Dating

tonite i have showered, and wearing tight tshirt and pjs, but hubby doesn't get the hint or just isn't into me im tired of making the first move. what may be going on i guess he doesn't get turned on by me?

2007-12-26 17:27:30 · 15 answers · asked by coco1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering how to know if my boyfriend is gay... because i recently found naked pictures of asian men on his computer also i found a video of him kissing a guy on youtube... he says it was just for fun but im not sure... is this a sign he is gay? what are some ways i can find out... i ask him all the time and he swears he is not gay..

2007-12-26 17:26:55 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am of legal age and an older man has taken an interest in me, and I in him. When I say older I mean 12 years older, is that ok? I am sure there will come a point when it will not matter much and sure it's what you make it. I am mature and the guys my age are not up to par, and that is unfortunate for them, and it kind of leaves me in a pickle as well. So older guy? Do or don't?

2007-12-26 17:26:42 · 6 answers · asked by Mikey J 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i are now separated due to many issues he has done. well to try and get him back i decided not to do the traditional bringing the kids to his mothers and have christmas dinner instead i let him stay be their alone with none of us we have 4 kids, and we went somewhere else to my aunts i thought this would hurt him but he didnt seem to care oh i spent christmas alone, and my kids went to my aunts not me. No one seemed to care that we didnt come this year not even his mother no one said we missed u at the gathering and my husband still seemed happy and fine why didnt they care my plan really back fired.

2007-12-26 17:26:40 · 5 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My sis calls me names and stuff. I want to be close like sisters usually are... were both teens... thats prolly why but i want to be cclose. I cant even share her clothes anymore and were both the same size!! what do i do so that shell like me?? HELLLLLLLP!

2007-12-26 17:24:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I live in small town...and I consulted a legal assistant who gave me misinformation.

I think my spouse actually talked to her before I was able to go down to see her.

She made 2 comments that my husband is trying to use against me.

She told me that georgia is a "Community property state" which is false

And she made a comment about yelling as a parent...which is what my husband is trying to claim proves me a bad parent.

I think the legal assistant took my consultation to see what my arguement would be in the divorce. I disclosed some very hidden information and stuff my husband is doing.

Can this legal office be held accountable for taking my consultation after first hearing my wifes side?
Or is it just sneaky tactics that are inethical.

Hidden accounts hidden emails hidden money are what I told her I knew about.
Now my husband might know and adjust his secretive lifestyle.

What can I do?

2007-12-26 17:22:16 · 7 answers · asked by Back on the market 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is this strange thing? I just can't figure it out. Is it a disease that is easy to catch and hard to cure? Is it a malfunction of human emotions? Give me a definition of love from your perspective. Help me out here please.

2007-12-26 17:22:01 · 11 answers · asked by midnafanatic 3 in Other - Family & Relationships