Family & Relationships - 26 December 2007

not bandaids or a thong
or nothing please

and no cop out, whatever is fine, also!

2007-12-26 20:00:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl during like 3 months ago, and i liked her alot. So i handed her a note during one of our classes at school and i asked if she would like to go out because she is very nice and fun to talk to. She ended up telling me she would totally go out with me but shes talking to someone else right now, but she did give me her phone number. All the sudden two days later she texts me and we end up talking for hours. now we talk everyday, and i know she doesnt have a boyfriend, but i dont now if I should to ask her again?

2007-12-26 19:57:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel that I'm in love, and the person that I love claims to love me back. Although, he broke up with me about two weeks ago. He claims that he still loves me and nothing will change how he feels. Yet, I feel like we're drifting apart. I tried to bring it up with him, and he just says that we're not. I know that a lot of people like him, and recently I've found out that a lot of people like me. Though the guy I love promises everything will get back to normal; I don't want to leave him and him be sad, though I also don't want to wait for him and find out that he's moved on. What do I do? Just wait for him, or move on?

2007-12-26 19:51:51 · 2 answers · asked by Choni Harmony 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay whats her reeeaaalll name?

and who are her parents?

annnnnnnnnnnnnnndi think her show was kinda put on because she didnt pick danii?

oor...idk

2007-12-26 19:51:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for some reason, some guys ive never talked to hate me!
its really weird, im not a nasty person!!
how do i stop that?
and how do i get guys to fall in love with me?
thanks!

2007-12-26 19:50:46 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Amber is a New Momma 6 in Singles & Dating

sum one told me dis
"if u were a booger i'd pick u first"

2007-12-26 19:47:21 · 8 answers · asked by ♥iLY BOO 2 in Singles & Dating

I met my husband when I was 17 and we married 6 years later, I am now 31. I know relationships have there ups and downs and I guess you could call this a down moment or maybe I am making it into one. My husband does everything for everyone and sometimes I feel like I am taking the back seat at times. Over the last 2 years is parents (family) has been going through a hard time, with his parents getting divorced and I guess his sister is a whole different story, but the stresses have gotten to me a little too, I don't want to know about it now. We are also trying for a family, well we have been for 6 years and the stresses from that don't help matters. About 4 mths ago I had a panic attack and ever since then I am questioning my sexuality (who knows why) and I am also questioning my relationship. Crazy Times I love my husband and I want us to have a family and grow old together. I need to stress less and accept his family for who they are and take some pressure off us. Any advice

2007-12-26 19:46:40 · 5 answers · asked by mrsmacca22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I met this girl and she wanted to be friends. Honestly I'm cool with being friends. She actually called me her best friend. We hung out for 5 weeks and everything went great. We watched movies, she playfully hit me, joked with me and was kind of flirting with me. We became close friends, nothing like boyfriend and girlfriend but we shared secrets. Now something happend. She doesn't call me, we haven't hung out in over 3 weeks. My question is how can you tell why? I don't know if I said something wrong and she feels like she doesn't want to be good friends anymore. My friends said that she freaked herself out and got to close with me to fast. Now she needs a break, How can you tell if thats the problem? Now we are going to hang out and go someplace far with some friends. She doesn't want me in the same room, but she's comfy with her friend and her BF but she doesn't know this guy. She said she's more comfy with 2 girls & 1 guy in a room. Does she need space, startover or is it over?

2007-12-26 19:43:40 · 12 answers · asked by razor6x 1 in Friends

I was picking my nose and eating it at the time. Does this constitute verbal abuse?

2007-12-26 19:41:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this nice man for about 4 mos and his feelings seem to be getting deeper. We are both over 40 and not kids. I did make the mistake of getting cold feet a few times and thinking I should break up. Now, I see we have something good, but don't know when to ask him to stop keeping his options open and really get off the personals.

2007-12-26 19:33:40 · 4 answers · asked by Chantii 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad and I are emotionally distant and my family recognizes that, whenever he is insensitive and pisses me off I take my anger on my mom and brother of to which I realize.

Im tired of this repeating and ongoing chain and I want to end it. Is there a way you can improve an emotional realationship with a person no matter how incapable he or she may seem. I hope what I am trying to do isn't a lost cause.

2007-12-26 19:29:06 · 2 answers · asked by Ge1st 1 in Family

Iam a 32 year old male from Kerala, India. At fist I married a girl who is ignorant about what is life! She was a doll in the hands of her parents. I had to divorce her to keep my dignity. Then I married another one who is a saddist and sex maniac who gave me losing of peace of mind every day. She wanted only a “loving machine” for 24 hours, not a husband who has professional and personal commitments. I could not do my job in office while she made my home hell and I had to return home after her call. I got divorce after a long strike and I have lost peace of mind. Now I am abroad and working with a well-paid job. Now the pressure is upon me for another marriage, because there should be somebody to love and take care of my family (my aged mother) and me. Now I have to go on vacation soon back to my region. Nothing in my mind right now regarding marriage.Somebody warns me being old for marriage. How can I find the right one? pls give your opinions.

2007-12-26 19:28:39 · 9 answers · asked by Master 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The other day my buddy calls me on the phone. And we start talking about our day when he starts talking about sex. He says hey whats turns you on and i tell him ya know the stuff that turn me on . When I ask him the same question he tells me when he is having sex with his girlfriend. He likes to choke her until her eyes start to roll back into her head a little bit. In utter shock i say nothing but he says she taps him when she needs to breathe but i am still left speechless.

Is this something that I should be worried about that progress into something bigger or is it just some kind of fetish. (I know there are fetishes like this out there)

2007-12-26 19:22:58 · 10 answers · asked by Proximar 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 19:19:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-26 19:18:01 · 23 answers · asked by TT 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What does it take to be a man? What makes a man a MAN?

2007-12-26 19:10:29 · 6 answers · asked by MrKegs 2 in Singles & Dating

we are so different in alot of things like things we like to do

2007-12-26 19:04:44 · 18 answers · asked by bigballa8319 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to know what you would do.... If you had people close to you that were trying to get you killed / or frame you [and get you killed] including their many friends and you had no "evidence" whatsoever and the police took theese peoples sides [ and lets say they were popular and your name was slandered] Therefore you had no one on your side ---How would you handle this ?? -If you could not go to the police??

2007-12-26 19:01:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know a girl through a social networking site from past 2-3 months (we used to chat online at least once or twice a week). last week we met each other. After that she started saying that she love me n all that (on the same evening). She is the only child. She says she like my attitude, the way i speak n all..... Even i like her very much.....
She's studying n I'm working......

Is she in true love?
What made her to fall in love so fast? (in a day!!!)
What exactly she is looking for?

Please help me........ thanks in advance.....

2007-12-26 18:57:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone I know, when they have Surgery, their friends are there. I don't see anything innapropriate...

2007-12-26 18:54:57 · 5 answers · asked by And For A Moment I Am Happy 6 in Friends

My best friend has done this for years but I disagree with it

2007-12-26 18:54:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 18:51:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When u first meet a guy, in a roadside or in a common place which things attracts you most (in him), or .... like wat creates attraction in you, by jus seeing him

2007-12-26 18:49:49 · 9 answers · asked by shen_here 1 in Singles & Dating

Alrighty, so I recently started dating this guy. And well we were friends at first for the most part because he was still in love with his x-girl. Well I played the friend mode and eventually found a way to his heart. And now we are together. But what worries me is his X. Okay so she cut him out of her life and never talks to him but what if when she finds out about us she realizes she wants him back! She is so gorgeous and I'm afraid at the fact that I'm going to get left. We have exchanged I love yous already and I know I have fallen for him hard. But am I just a rebound and when or if she comes back will he go back with her? Please I need some words of advice or for someone to tell me what to do.......anything would help
thank you

2007-12-26 18:48:16 · 6 answers · asked by Cubsgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

how would u rate me

2007-12-26 18:46:29 · 12 answers · asked by ♥iLY BOO 2 in Singles & Dating

I want sex all the time (I would like it 6 days a week- I like one day of rest) which is in direct conflict with my husband who never wants sex - we've had sex a grand total of 3 times this year and only cause I begged for it. He even denies self gratification. He says people (I think he means me) think about sex all the time.

Guilty as charged ( I never tell him about my fantasies - I think he would die from shock)

My female friends seem to be more like my husband and they complain about their husbands wanting to much sex (I wish!) am I a freak because I'm not like them?

2007-12-26 18:46:27 · 20 answers · asked by beffie 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you get with a fat chick - who is really beautiful (flawless skin and beautiful hazel eyes), has goals in life, loves to have fun and wants to shower an man with love and affection?

2007-12-26 18:38:38 · 19 answers · asked by beffie 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't have a lot of money, no property. We have one child but I'm open to shared custody. How do I get a divorce that is fairly inexpensive?

2007-12-26 18:35:11 · 9 answers · asked by beffie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Serious..If not, where do these guys hide out...?
If you want to meet a guy your age (over 40) where DO you find them? Or should I just lay down and die with the fact that all "they" want is a 20 year old? And I know..because LONG ago I once too was 20, and was attracted to "older men" -now they are my peers! I feel too old to go on the "bar/club" prowl. (besides, the only thing that happens there is some young guy believing the "hipe" of the couger image!)
So just where are these guys???? There must be some men that want to have an adult conversation...OK maybe not.

2007-12-26 18:34:54 · 11 answers · asked by susie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-26 18:33:53 · 13 answers · asked by bjmookey_08 1 in Marriage & Divorce