ive had my 2nd child 6wks ago.my partner feels that since the birth of our 2nd child that imno longer affectionect towards him.we no longer kiss or really have time 2 snuggle up.
i feel bad that we arent as afeectionet as we used 2 b but at the same time he doesnt understand that it s full on looking after 2 children especially when u havea baby that is only 6wks old and being breastfeed.he feels like im no longer interested in hi or attracted 2 him.
i am very much attracted 2 him but he doesnt listen 2 me when i tell him.how can i make him realise im being truthful.
also im afraid of being affectionect 2 him incase he leaves like he has several other times for other girls h hs gotten interested in.
2007-12-26 18:11:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your partner is not an idiot,he is understanding everything but is pretending that he is not understanding your preoccupation with a very small child.I am sorry to feel that his behavior is not giving good signals for you.He appears trying to escape responsibilities of two kids on his head.To me it looks that he wants to put the blame on you that you have abandoned him after the birth of the second child.
2007-12-26 19:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you've really got no business having children with someone who leaves you for other women.
Am I the only one who watches Dr Phil?
Past behaviour is the best indicator of future behaviour.
It sounds to me like his blaming you for not giving him enough attention is just a set up to the fact that he is seeing someone else.
He doesn't feel affectionate towards you because he is getting it elsewhere.
Exactly how many children would you like to raise on your own when he leaves for good?
Poor bubz, can't you see through him?
You need a counselor to help you.
2007-12-27 06:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jesusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! He knows that what goes around, comes around. He remembers how he cheated on you for someone else and now he's afraid you're doing it too. Well, I wouldn't try to prove anything to him. He has all the assurance he needs. He should be the one assuring you that he won't cheat on you again.
2007-12-27 02:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by use 2 b lost 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋