I was wondering how to know if my boyfriend is gay... because i recently found naked pictures of asian men on his computer also i found a video of him kissing a guy on youtube... he says it was just for fun but im not sure... is this a sign he is gay? what are some ways i can find out... i ask him all the time and he swears he is not gay..
2007-12-26 17:26:55 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a girl.. i just dress up and live my life as a male.
2007-12-26 17:34:33 · update #1
feel free to do an edit to help me thanks
2007-12-26 17:35:07 · update #2
Yep...gay. Dump him.
2007-12-26 17:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by mmredick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL
SOrry I couldn't help it. When I saw the question I knew that this would be a good one.
Anyways, to answer your question, he could only be a bi-sexual or gay.
Is this a sign he is gay?
- YES! Kissing another guy is a definite no no for a straight guy. And he did it infront of a camera, and posted it on youtube. That has gay written all over it. And to top it all of, naked pictures of asian men. Yup, definitely gay. Or bisexual, since he's going out with you.
What are some ways to find out?
- I think you already know them xD
2007-12-26 17:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by DiCe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know your boyfriend is gay when you find naked pics of Asian men on his computer, see videos of him making out with other dudes and when confronted with the above, he claims it was just for fun. You know what? It WAS fun. BECAUSE HE'S GAY! I'm quite sure he had a blast, what with being a homosexual, and all...and another thing, when a person feels the need to constantly ask their SO whether or not they're gay, they're most likely gay. gay gay gay gay gay gay gay
Not that there's anything wrong with that...
2007-12-26 17:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Rachael1282 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're the gf or "the bf"?
Maybe the "bf" is bisexual. No guy would have stuff like those in their computer if they're not at least bi. So he is. Whether he's drunk or not, you don't kiss a guy or look at naked pics of men on the computer.
Well, good luck and I hope "the bf" opens up and admits he's bisexual.
If you are really the gf, well, if you like groups, I guess you can have two guys ;) with them being comfortable lol
2007-12-26 17:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you open a man's computer you will see naked pictures of hot women instead of pictures of naked asian men. Secondly, when men have fun they crack open bottles of beer, watch a ball game, or go to a strip joint. Last but definitely not the least, men kiss women NOT men. I mean he just gave it away when he said that kissing that guy on that video was for FUN. I mean, come on... Do I really have to say it..
2007-12-26 17:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by A.C.G. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight guys are different from straight girls. Where as straight girls "experiment" for fun and leave it at that, straight guys usually do not "experiment." They just don't and they wouldn't be caught dead with another guy "experimenting." I would take it as a sign that he's gay but he can't admit it to himself.
Its a tough road, but better safe than sorry. I still hear stories even now of how gay guys get married to chicks, and go on to have families to hide their gayness. You don't want a situation where you're embarrassed like that.
2007-12-26 17:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
At the VERY least, he's immature, and lying to you.
He's probably either flat out gay but won't admit it to himself, or he's very selfish and bi.
Ummm. Last I heard, it's fun to kiss someone that appeals to you sexually. So, yes, it was for fun.
I guess he likes you because he can be with a "guy" while still being socially acceptable.
A word to the wise: guys tend to get weirder as they get older, until they either die or grow up, which usually occurs sometime after they get impotent.
2007-12-26 17:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by Big Bruce 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have the question/suspicion then your intuition is working....
Many guys lead alternate lifestyles, one that is accepted (Heterosexual) and then one that is his true interest (Homosexual).... Unfortunatly this goes on more times than people care to admit, I've seen it so many times I can't count...
If you see pics of naked guys on his comp, thats a good indication, I'm gay and do not have pics of women on my comp....if you saw women on my comp you could assume I was Bi-Sexual, but I am Gay, so I do not have women.....
So if he has guys on his comp he has some degree of interest or they wouldn't be there...
Kissing another guy is definatly another indication, but depends on what the circumstances are...
I have straight guys that have kissed me and they arn't Gay ....so it's not a definitive indication...
Why not accept the fact that you have a Bi-sexual boyfriend....and in reality that's not such a bad thing is it?....
Sexual Orientation is just that....
2007-12-26 17:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a dood or a chick? Are you HOPING he's gay or hoping he's not?
Either way, I think two things: 1) asking is pretty direct. You did that, and, 2) gay asian hunks on his computer and videos showing him kissing a guy is pretty revealing, I'd say.
2007-12-26 17:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by David 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confused
2007-12-26 17:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by yourchamp23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think you might be the one who doesn't know if your gay or not. why are you asking this when u are a male dating another male ( HELLO ) GAY!!!!!! by the way were can I see the you tub site I need to see it for myself OK YOU JUST SAID YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE AS A GUY HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO YOU WANT A WOMAN , AND HE WANTS A MAN , WHY WOULDN'T HE JUST DATE A WOMAN THAT LOOKS LIKE A WOMAN. AND YOU NEED TO ADMIT YOUR GAY
2007-12-26 17:38:29 · answer #11 · answered by Home Is Where The Heart Is 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋