would you hookup (sex) on the night you met her and if so how would you want the girl to let you know thats what she wanted, so that you knew it was ok to do it with her
2007-12-26 18:23:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO...I like my life enough to want to stay healthy enough to live it. Besides, I have grown up enough to realize that sex without any kind relationship is just empty, meaningless,and leaves you feeling used later on. Even if that is all you want at the time.
2007-12-26 18:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by Typo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping with a guy the night you met him does not make you a whore, how is it ok for guys to do it. I am a guy and that double standard is BS, if its ok for me to do it its ok for you to do it. People who say otherwise are stuck in the past with negative stigmas and double standards. If you wanna have sex on the first night, what does waiting for the third date accomplish, besides 2 more meals? Anyways, you can have sex for a one nite stand or for a serious development, thats up to you. If a guy things your a whore because u slept with him the first night and doesnt wanna go on, but would have otherwise, why would u want to be with that sexist pig anyways? And just like its ok that the guy might be horny, its ok for you to just be horny and want some.... (with that off my chest)
If he goes for the kiss at the end of the night, go for a more intense kiss. and caress him too. You can also invite him in when he drops you off or ask if you can come in if he is the one dropped off. Suggest a playful game, or drinks...
However ALWAYS wear a condom if you guys arent i a relationship, that WILL get u a negative stigma...
so maybe drinks arent a good idea. And carry a condom with you, although its his job we wont think less of you for saving our asses... LoL
2007-12-27 03:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jason White 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not recommended. Sex on the first date isn't alright... it means you are just horny and haven't gotten any P for a while. Lol jk... but seriously, if you actually like the girl, and don't want her just for sex, you should wait for the right time... girls don't dig you taking advantage of them. Get to know her better, maybe after several dates if you know eachother really well and care for each other. Even then, you still might want to be careful and use a condom. The only real time to have real sex is if you're married.
2007-12-27 02:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you can have sex with someone on the night you meet them..dont do it alot or ull get the stigma of being a whor* . If u truly like the person go for it though, but dont just use them for sex as a one night stnad, continue the relationship until you dont like them anymore
2007-12-27 02:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by boyfriend in trouble 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If things start happening, I go until she says stop. I figure that if she doesn't want to do something, she'll tell me. If I didn't want to do something, I'd tell her.
1st date sex is a bad idea? Why? A person has no more STDs on the 3rd date than the 1st date. If the chemistry's there, there's no need to wait.
2007-12-27 02:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by Takfam 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to go somewhere you two can be alone. But if you want to date the guy, you should hold out for a little while, it adds to the tension and build-up, and will make it a better experience. If you just want some for the night, go with the forementioned.
2007-12-27 02:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by johnnyairport 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing, if you want anything more from this than just sex, hooking up on the first meet is not the way to go about it. That said, if you just want sex, tell him. Lean in real close, whisper in his ear exactly what you would like to do to him. He will respond!
2007-12-27 02:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by Scott V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like to get to know the girl first. It makes the experience more gratifying. Women are much more than their sex parts. I want to love all of them, including their mind.
2007-12-27 02:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wudn't do dat on da first nite. Datz goin 2 fast in a relationship. I wud drive 2 her/my house, chill at her/my house, n give da gurl a hug n a kiss at da end of the nite.
2007-12-27 02:28:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if your gonna do THAT, you need to make sure he wants it by being a little flirty, then things will go up from there. Remember that most guys would NEVER turn down that. Enjoy ^_^
2007-12-27 02:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by Chantz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋