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I'll get to the point... I was with this guy it was really late, we kissed and talked for a bout half hour then went to sleep. About 20 mins later we woke up and started fooling around and then ended up having sex. He was in me for about 5 seconds when he lost his erection (which i am completely fine with, not a big deal to me), so after about 2 mins of kissing and stuff I asked him if he wanted to go to bed. I said it in a very polite manner cuz i knew he was exhausted from work. THEN he randomly outta no where responds with: "Well I guess so, since you're just laying there ". ( i was very active on the bottom part btw, so i wasn't just laying there)
MY QUESTION: why did he just lash out at me for no reason??? Was he so embarrased by losing his erection that he tried to put the blame on me??
I would love to hear guys viewpoints on this matter.
We always have a lotta fun and have great sex, I said nothing mean to him and then BAM he just said that and never apologized for sayingit

2007-12-26 17:56:56 · 6 answers · asked by collegegurlumass 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

Yeah, sounds to me like he's blaming you for not keeping an erection up. I'd defend the guy but he sounds like a douchebag to me so I won't.

2007-12-26 18:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Yeah that's exactly what it is, he's taking his problem out on you. That's happened to me before, I was dating a really sweet guy for months, we were fooling around and things got heated and I said "make love to me" well, he got up and left like I had called his mother a name! Didn't speak to me for days, then I found out it later it was because he wasn't working with much down there. .and maybe by me asking him to do something he felt put on the spot. .

2007-12-27 02:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Cris 5 · 0 0

You answered your own question. If he did not apologize, I would confront him, and tell him that I did not appreciate the way he acted. Tell him that you understood that he was having a temporary problem, but that he had no business taking it out on you.

2007-12-27 02:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1 0

Sounds like he was embarrassed....he dealt with it the wrong way, by lashing out at you.

2007-12-27 02:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

some guys act like that after they get what they want.

2007-12-27 02:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0 0

he was probably embarrased. dont let it get to u

2007-12-27 02:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

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