Family & Relationships - 20 September 2007

1. I'm a sahm and homeschooler of 3.
2. Our family has fiscally and physically combined households with my SW/MIL. Who has helped tremendously with money, household duties, and childcare.
3. Transfer option available for husband. She can come with, but I'm saying she can't live with anymore.
4. Husband thinks I'm stepping on her generosity with selfishness.
5. I think I like having my own space, my own rules, and my own control over my own enviroment.
6. She's not controling, in general genial, and the kids love having her around, but she wants to buy.
7. I want her to go, but I want her to live seperately so her smoking and cooking do not adversely affect our health.
8. There are too many specifics to get a thorough answer on here.
9. I liked it better when we lived close by, but in two separate places.
10. Any insight great if you can put it all together amidst the 880 word limit. which I have completely filled up twice and revised. Your's truly. Me in BaltimoreMD

2007-09-20 19:09:43 · 2 answers · asked by lizzil32 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am wrong for something I did. A friend and I were down town and we were in a pawn shop looking for some bling to wear at school. There was a really nice watch that I was going to get for cheap. We left so I could go to the bank and withdraw $1,000. When we walked out the door I was so excited I screamed "Yeah *****!!!". We rounded a corner and there were 3 large black guys there and they asked which on of us said that. Calvin didn't see but I pointed at him. They started to beat him down and I ran away, got in my car and took off. I heard him screaming but I was afraid I might get hurt. I went down there about 2 hours later to get my watch and I didn't see my homeboy C-Note anywhere. I haven't heard from him. I keep trying to call his cell phone and there is no answer. 10 hours has gone by now and I am starting to get worried. What should I do? What if I don't see him in school tomarrow? I can't help but to feel partly responsible for this situation... :(

2007-09-20 19:07:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met a guy 2 months ago. he is a friend of my friend's bf. he is very good guy and very respectful. one day we 4 went out together and we had so much fun. We actually really like each other. I also met his mom and she really likes me, after that day we didn't hang out. and then i found out that the guy that i like and my friend's bf got into fight and after that we didn't have chance to talk to each other. he doesn't have my number and i don't have his number and he doesn't know where i am working to come and see me. i don't know what to do. i really like him and i know he likes me too and we two also are too shy . So, right now i don't know what to do. i'm confused. help me guys!!!!!!!!!!!!
what should i do?

2007-09-20 19:07:21 · 11 answers · asked by lovely l 1 in Singles & Dating

Its not a big deal but im curious as to others opinions. An associate of mine wakes me up on yahoo messenger at about 11 30 at night saying its very important. I told her it better be, because i clearly had my status set saying i was asleep. Her question was about her ex husbands new wife and if she was pretty or not. I said "this is what you disturbed me for?" She told me I wasnt being fair because she listened to my problems. I told her thats different, this is just you being immature. I mean they divorced a few years ago, who cares if he got married again, its not your problem, move on. So do you think i was too mean?

2007-09-20 19:05:13 · 9 answers · asked by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 in Friends

wish there was someone out there to talk to about anything and did't have a problem talking about something over and over. can anyone help me. someone to email questions to and talk about problems that happend in daily life. need someone I can lean on and talk to. thanks.

2007-09-20 19:04:57 · 37 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-20 19:03:38 · 10 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

25 yo female. OK, I dressed up extra nice today. Make-up, cute outfit, heels, etc. I was so cute. I'm the same person that I always am, but today, I noticed guys looking at me, and one came up to me. Maybe my confidence is a bit higher because I have recently lost 22 pounds. But, I"m still the same person. A guy hasn't show genuine, personal interest in me in a long time. I harassed this guy into dating me when I was in college, which was a catastrophe. So, other than him, no one has shown bonafide interest in me in about 6 years.

Why all the play today?
Also, even though I was cute, I wasn't comfortable. I'd much rather wear flats and be comfy. But, I was cute...

What do you all think?

2007-09-20 19:00:35 · 7 answers · asked by florita 4 in Singles & Dating

I know a couple that break up and always get back together. This has happened atleast 10 times in the past 3 years or so. She breaks up, then gets back with him. He always takes her back. What's up with that, I don't understand it!

2007-09-20 18:58:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you just do it if someone asked you to? (depending on hottess)

or do you think you should only have sex with the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with.

do you think you should practice it? before you do it with your lover?

is this too hard of a question? lol.

2007-09-20 18:57:05 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

whenever he gets home,he just relaxed a bit then go to his laptop and watch sexy pics and it sames he does it all the time,im afraid to argue with him i dont like troubles,

2007-09-20 18:54:18 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-20 18:53:25 · 7 answers · asked by renaeb70 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf has been in iraq for a yr and is finally coming home, but i will only get to see him for a weekend before he goes to where he is stationed. i am due for my period that wkend. i have an appointment for a pelvic exam a week before and plan to start birth control. i know you are suppose to wait til after you have your period to take it but i won't have time to do this. i want to make love to him so much. if i start taking the pill a week ahead of time, will i be able to prevent having my period?

2007-09-20 18:53:05 · 16 answers · asked by the w 1 in Singles & Dating

So yeah, I've got a pretty good idea what the general answers are going to look like, but what are the thoughts on a 23 year old guy and a 19 year old girl.

I mean 4 years isn't that big of an age gap is it?

2007-09-20 18:52:50 · 22 answers · asked by Xeno 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-20 18:49:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i hav this idea for asking a girl out to homecoming. at a football game u tell her that ur making a run to starbucks or some other coffee place. u get her something (hot chocolate if u dk if she like coffee or not), then on top of the lid in marker u right open lid, and then on the other side u write "Homecoming?"
lol....wat do u think??

2007-09-20 18:48:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are you just like me tired of hearing about crappy love..why can't people just f*** themselves with their love or maybe im just jeoleous>-

2007-09-20 18:46:57 · 26 answers · asked by lalalala! 1 in Singles & Dating