how can i make my first time special for her? need serious advise?

Question

me and my girlfriend decited to take ur relationship to next level i dont want to sound girlly or something she expects something from me she thinks im kinda of a stud i want it to be special for her i dont want her to think im not good at it. need advise from former virgins. P.S i also was wondering how to get girl to orgasm before you (just a thought)

Answer 1

rent a 4-5 star hotel room --- fill it full of flowers chocolates and scented candles ---- have a light meal from room service (if you are old enough) maybe some wine or champagne --- get in early and spend a LOT of time just talking and foreplay (guys usually need to look that up) --- if you do that then both of you will have a fabulous time --- if you say its too expensive then forget having the sex you do not have the correct priorities

Answer 2

Well does she know you are a virgin? if she does im sure she will take the lead. U should tell her. It will be special to her in that fact. But in terms of the act in general all girls are different. Listen to her breathing, thats a bit one. some girls like gentle, slow and soft, others hard and fast... and im talking about foreplay here not the sex itself! Kiss her for a long time.. dont rush it.. i once read that u should spend 15 mins on each part of the sex. 15 mins kissing... start off slowly building as the passion does. 15 mins foreplay.. fingers would be good for now as if u havent slept with her u may want to do that before going down on her. Usually that will make her orgasm. always go slow untill u know what she likes.. going to hard and fast is a major mood killer where going slowly her body will let u know if u should be going faster. Is she also a virgin??
Hmm thats bout all the help i can give u!! Not to sound rude but just try not to *** to fast.. when u start reaching that point, stop, and go back to kissing her and slow down!!! Goodluck..

Answer 3

depending on if she is experienced or not.
first timers seldom do it right and the act is usually over before she even starts to get turned on.

i suggest alot of passionate kissing and well, frankly its called the clitoris if you have never operated one then you need for her to show you how.
yep basically thats where the stimulation needs to be for her to have an orgasm
you cant go through life not knowing how to please your partner. might as well learn right off the bat.

Answer 4

rent American Pie. the book the kid finds explains how to do that for her. then, let her do what she wants to you. i bet she has ideas. should go smoothly from there.