THere is this Girl i asked to hang around with. When i asked she said ok. Later on about 3 days later I asked her is shes busy During lunch. She said sumthing Which i didnt really get because her voice was Low.
However it sounded like she was busy. She wasnt smiling or anything when said said it. I now feel like ive wasted 4 days thinking about her. I felt Like I was Rejected. I do really like her a lot.
So theres 2 more choices for me
She didnt smile when i asked to hang around during lunch
So Should I just give up and waste the 4 days thinking about her?
Or should I do sumthing about it?
Ill take Ur ppls OpionionsTy
2007-09-20 18:33:28 · 17 answers · asked by Din 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can't hear on first day I bet you will NEVER be able to hear her in your life. There is a problem with either you or her. Decide it for you self.
2007-09-20 18:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Flying Soldier 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well maybe she had a lot on her mind or something happened. It sounds desprate when you spend four days thinking about her. You got to get around more. If ur not boyfriend and girlfriend you are Not HERS. So you can have fun with other girls and not staying down because of one girl. You shouldnt give up yet tho. Just dont seem to desperate or interested, or she'll think shes got you wired. Try about another week but if the only reason you like her is because shes cute is not a good reason. There are more fish in the sea. fti there are more hot girls that you could be having a lot more fun with.
2007-09-21 23:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by Softball maniak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah u not being natural. yep u forcing the situation.
if u don't just click with a person or u don't just do thing spontaneously together that means u forcing it!!-LOL
I'm a person that dislikes people asking to hang out with me or sit lunch with me, if u wanna hang out, hang out if u wanna sit lunch with us ask once then cool don't ask again cause i already said yes.
its also like a guy asking to kiss u, i will say no cause if u can feel the vibe between us u should have risked taking a kiss if i didn't want it i will pull away...sometimes u must put ur balls out there, take the risk and the consequences
2007-09-21 01:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait and give it a try. maybe at the time when you were asking her she was actually busy and couldn't answer you at the time. its not that your wasting your time, she might just feels the same way about you but just to shy to show it. talk to her and communicate and tell her how you feel and see what you get out of it. if nothing then you will know what decision to make.
2007-09-21 01:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by charie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might have just been busy that day. Was she around anyone? If so wait till she is alone and talk to her to see if she can hang out some other time.
2007-09-21 01:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by loner8671 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young and inexperienced with girls! Don't worry, I have been around the world literaly and I still don't understand them! Follow this rule: If she is a special person, then give her another chance, she is worth it. If you get shot down, well then just keep looking, she would be the looser.
2007-09-21 01:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect her. I think you should ask her again. But this time, ask her what was going on that day. Maybe something happened and it was more important. Don't feel too bad about it. Four days is nothing compared to my months. Some people on this site wait for years. Everything takes time, and she needs time to herself too.
2007-09-21 01:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give up the fight yet...its just been 4 days...there may be other reasons why she didn't smile...she might just be tired or she might not be feeling well...you wouldn't know unless you ask...ask her if something is wrong or if there is something you can help her with...a girl wouldn't waste her time talking to a guy if she didn't like him back...she'd just say it right away...
2007-09-21 01:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by geisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should pull her aside and tell her that you like her and ask her out. That way you can be sure of what she says and know if you should feel rejected or she just had to do something else.
2007-09-21 01:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by good girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking her out again. It sounds like she was in a situation where she couldn't talk or may have been overwhelmed. If she keeps saying no, then you should move on.
2007-09-21 01:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋