would you just do it if someone asked you to? (depending on hottess)
or do you think you should only have sex with the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with.
do you think you should practice it? before you do it with your lover?
is this too hard of a question? lol.
2007-09-20 18:57:05 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe in the existence of casual sex, yes.
Isn't anyone who you sleep with technically a lover? Doesn't a random hookup deserve "good sex" the way a girlfriend/boyfriend would?
Also, wouldn't you rather learn how to have good sex with a regular partner than a bunch of random people? That's the best way to learn.
2007-09-20 19:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well this is totally up to you. Im the sort of girl that will only sleep with a person i care deeply about. I couldnt and wouldnt sleep with a stranger.
But i dont think badly of people that do the casual sex thing. As long as you dont hurt people and the girls you sleep with are not promised any sort of feeling. And you should tell them it is a no strings thing BEFORE you bed them not after. This way every one knows what they are getting themselves in for.
2007-09-21 02:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a very open-minded person, so I really feel that it is up to the individual person whether or not they want to only have sex with their life long partner, or have sex with many people. Personally I think that you should experiment a little before you settle down with that "special someone". Then you know that person is your "special someone" in every way, even sexually.
2007-09-21 02:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by megannjason305 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't have casual sex. I want my future husband to feel extra special, to know he's the only one who gets to have that. ;) Something to give him that you can't buy, you know?
And to me there's too much of a risk to have casual sex with someone you don't know. Even someone you do know. There's STDs, AIDS, risk of getting pregnant, etc. I'd rahter find something else to do.
As for practicing, haha, I wouldn't mind if my husband isn't so great at it at first--- to me that would be cute. I think it would be best to teach each *other*. As long as he does get better at some point. :p
Good question. :)
2007-09-21 02:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by avacado pie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sex is actually "casual" for women. It may start like that but after a few times women will develop feelings and eventually want a long term relationship.
2007-09-21 02:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL wait for the one??
well that's all cute and dandy but my thing is i wanna wait for the person i feel is right, and love, its the correct timing and we in a solid relationship at the time. its not necessarily the man I'm going to marry one day if i decide i wanna marry someday.
but as far as one night stands is concerned that is a huge no no in my books, friends with benefits well mmm i could negotiate that one but it depends on alot.
2007-09-21 02:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not if someone just asked, some random person walking up.
As for the rest of it, that's all personal decisions- who's to say what's right for everybody?
PERSONALLY-
I say practice is good.
EASY question.
2007-09-21 02:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Shank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Casual sex is great for a lot of reasons - it is practice, no strings attached (unless you get a clinger), it is fun, and it can happen over and over. Awesome!
2007-09-21 02:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sully 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do And Try To Practice It Whenever Possible.
2007-09-21 02:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by SWAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some situations you need a F buddy. I was divorced and I needed it so I had a buddy and if it is ok 2 with both people it is a great thing.
2007-09-21 02:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by Peanut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋