25 yo female. OK, I dressed up extra nice today. Make-up, cute outfit, heels, etc. I was so cute. I'm the same person that I always am, but today, I noticed guys looking at me, and one came up to me. Maybe my confidence is a bit higher because I have recently lost 22 pounds. But, I"m still the same person. A guy hasn't show genuine, personal interest in me in a long time. I harassed this guy into dating me when I was in college, which was a catastrophe. So, other than him, no one has shown bonafide interest in me in about 6 years.
Why all the play today?
Also, even though I was cute, I wasn't comfortable. I'd much rather wear flats and be comfy. But, I was cute...
What do you all think?
2007-09-20 19:00:35 · 7 answers · asked by florita 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confidence helps, people subconciously pick up on that. And as much as people say they dont judge on apperances, that is the first thing you see. You cant see a personality lol.
2007-09-20 19:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe You Appear More Available The Way You Looked. Most Of Us Guys Are Shallow Enough To Judge A Book By Its Cover. Me I Prefer People Be As They Are. So Id Go More For The Gal With The Flats And Casual look. Good Luck To You.
2007-09-21 02:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by SWAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl......... thats cuz u want them 2 pay attention LOL but seriously its the confidence thing u can be cute w/o wearin heels they r jus completely uncomfaortable i own a couple pair but rarely wear them u jus gotta find a stye that fits u and u jus gotta b comfortable n yo own skin and then the guys will b flockin LOL
2007-09-21 02:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have gone out in your flats and in your comfy cloths today hun but you should have kept on your boost of confidence. Guys are attracted to a girl who carries herself well and who is confident in who she is. hope this helps
2007-09-21 02:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by Ladybug355 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon, this isn't a serious question, is it? It's because you dolled yourself up after losing a quarter of a hundred pounds.
2007-09-21 02:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by damlovash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant judge a book by its cover, but the cover is what makes you want to read it.
2007-09-21 02:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't there but if you felt uncomfortable, your body language probably showed it.
2007-09-21 02:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by lone_lee_days 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋