Family & Relationships - 20 September 2007

2007-09-20 11:58:00 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Family

I've known this guy about a year, and we have the weirdest hot and cold ralationship. We have amazing conversations, but beyond them we barely talk. As he walks, and if I dont start the conversation with him, he ignores me. Actually, when he approached me for the first time afew days ago, I was quite surprised. It seems like he can remember anything I've ever said to him, and that we get along wonderfully. Three friends of mine gave their opinions, that he likes me, that he likes our convos but nothing more, and that he doesnt like me at all and just doesnt want to be afraid. He seems fairly shy, and for my part I'm hoping that he likes me. Can anyone try and understand his behavior? I'm clueless when it comes to this sort of thing.

2007-09-20 11:57:40 · 1 answers · asked by Angelique 2 in Singles & Dating

i need some major helphere are the problems i feel i am being pressured into his religion like he keeps pushing it more and more onto me and well he is also made an appointment with a mosque for my son to get his blessing with out asking me and he turns round and states am the one with a problem and getting him 2 understand it causing more and more arguements between us and to be honest am gettin so fed up with it all i feel like giving up on us .also why i feel this way also my son who is just under 4weeks old since he was born he has only seen us about 5times or less and he keeps saying he has stuff to be done but am loosing my trust in him . plus when he was down last time i asked if he could look after my son for atleast an hr just so i could catch up on sleep cause i didnt sleep for nearly 2days and when steven(my son) was crying he ignored him and continued with playing bout with his phone.!!
what should i do 2 get him 2 get his act together or should i just dump him?

2007-09-20 11:56:29 · 1 answers · asked by mummy of 2gorgeous boys 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-09-20 11:55:17 · 10 answers · asked by Love Yahoo!!! wannabe a princess 3 in Singles & Dating

If you broke up with someone after nearly a year together, and the circumstances that caused the break-up changed, would you be willing to take that person back and give it another try?

2007-09-20 11:54:45 · 10 answers · asked by Steve-O 2 in Singles & Dating

U see there's this guy and i sota like him. I've known him for a year now and i think he likes me back. But what i dont understand is that I see all the girls that he has crushes on and he's always so polite and kind to them. then after being so sweet and kind to them for a while he asks them out. But with me now that's a different story. he always sticks his foot out in front of me trying to trip me. Closes the door on my face then laughs about it. And even hit me a few times (But not hard.) but i know he likes me cuz he's always coming over my house and calling me 15 times a day. And blushes whenever he sees me. So why does he treat me so different from the rest of those girls?

2007-09-20 11:54:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i live with him i clean for him do his laundry change his sheet jump when he says jump gave up my friends i even take care of his bed time needs he dont take care of mine he gets phycial contact from me i get nothing i even have to sleep on the coach when i say im leavin he says for me to stay tells everyone wher not together tells people he wants me to leave but tells me different when he knows i think about leavin he shows affection at home he acts like were a couple i know he loves me i can feel it when he does touch me

2007-09-20 11:53:32 · 1 answers · asked by lost and confused 1 in Singles & Dating

So Im like 90% sure this guy likes me butt its been like that for along time and I really want to go outt with him? What should I do????
helpppp

thanks:]

2007-09-20 11:53:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you are throwing an engagement party who pay's for it? the brides parents the grooms? or the couple? also when is it customary to have an engament part in other words how long after you are engaged should it take place?? especially if you plan on being engaged for 3 years?

2007-09-20 11:51:39 · 18 answers · asked by lemon 1 in Weddings

i feel guilty what should i do.

2007-09-20 11:50:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive lost my instructions for my revlon professional conditioning creme relaxer its the one in the white tub.. does anyone know how long its meant to be left on? or do u know a site where i can get instructions HELP PLEASE!

2007-09-20 11:48:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

whenever i am not good at my studies, he calls me dump.
whenever i came down to help, to open the door for cooking. my dad open the door and i didn't know that and that was today.
whenever i am not good as my brothers,sister and cousins, he calls me dump too
and my father is an impatient guy always got quick temper
so what should i do.
please help me

2007-09-20 11:48:02 · 8 answers · asked by Syaoran Li 4 in Family

I have a crush on this boy and i want to kind of let him know but I don't want to tell him straight out yet because its to early I think. How can i kinda give him hints? oh + hes more popular then I am if that matters?

2007-09-20 11:44:56 · 11 answers · asked by answersgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

We started dating in April and things got serious pretty fast, but at the time we were both ok and happy with that. About two months ago she said we needed to take a break and be single for a while. She says she still loves me and I still love her very much. But she says she just doesn't want a relationship right now. We are both starting school in October. And her mom died about two months ago. I know she is overwhelmed and still depressed about her mom. I have reason to believe we will get back together someday, but I have to idea when. What should I do? Should I wait for her? Or is it over? I love her and can't picture myself with anyone else, nor do I have any desire to date anyone else even though she says its ok if I do go on dates. I am 25 and she is 22. Any advice?

2007-09-20 11:42:24 · 7 answers · asked by epihl01 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you love him or would you just be friends with him?

Good things about him:

- Lets you borrow $1600 for your house payment
- Later makes it a gift because you couldn't pay it
- Emotional and crazy about you
- Cares about you deeply
- Gets slightly jealous when your with other guys
- Stands up for you whenever needed
- Pays for everything when you go out together
- Cares about you so much that he cares about your daughter

Flaws:

- Tells you how he feels too much
- Brings up the money when there is a fight between you and him.
- Clingy (emails.. asks how day went etc. too much)

2007-09-20 11:37:09 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i only know his name but he doesnt know my name exept my spanish name he seems really nice and everything he does is really cute and hes cute to top that and im not like ugly or anything its just that im really shy actually all my friends always tell me like i wish i was as skinny as you and like i wish i had blonde hair and all that great stuff and im short so they say that guys think that is cute but hes like six feet so thats cool too but i dont know how to talk to him we kind of had somewhat of a conversation today that went like this
him looks for note half the period and cant find them
me:has an extra sheet of notes so i gave them to him
himthanx how did you get these
me:i had an extra
him:nice
class was over asked me if i wanted them back i said no also i gave him a book cover on the first day other than that we havnt talked but its not him using me for stuff because hes better than me at the class i just want to know how to talk to him without directly saying i like you.

2007-09-20 11:33:05 · 10 answers · asked by falconmly 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I have moved on and are in new relationships. I have a son that was not treated well during our relationship. Since last year the ex has wanted to maintain contact with my son. The visits were every two weeks until I took a temporary assignment out of state. The ex rarely calls my son now and does not know when a visit will be possible. The new girlfriend has moved in with the ex and they are talking marriage. Even though we had a bad break up I still like my ex and have feelings of friendship. I want to do the best for my son (age 9) and I am not sure if continued contact is the best for him, since it is now sporadic. I will be going back to my home state soon or a nearby state. By the way, the ex moved to a different state recently. What do you guys think?

2007-09-20 11:32:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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I don't give a flying frogs butt that these women happen to be lesbians, but I do care that they were afforded an opportunity, which they took knowingly and now seem to be greedy ingrates! Firstly the kids are 3 years old. How do you think this makes them feel? To see that their parents are suing because they only wanted ONE OF THEM! Do you think they wonder which one they didn't want? This is sickening on so many levels. I hope their state (or equivalent) child protection service counter sues for the mental abuse of these children.

2007-09-20 11:25:16 · 9 answers · asked by slushpile reader 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do women are critizied and consider wrong when have multiple sex partners in a life time and men are honor?

2007-09-20 11:19:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an 18 year old sister, but i'm only 11 and she doesnt care about me. ( well she does i guess but she dont show it and dont care too much ) I know she's older and theres a big gap. She always say i wont understand but she doesnt know what i've been through. She will just throw low blow after low blow. I mean aren't sisters suppose to be there to gossip, tell secrets, braid hair or is that just the movies?

2007-09-20 11:19:48 · 8 answers · asked by Lily Sawyer 1 in Family

2007-09-20 11:19:22 · 10 answers · asked by getusedtoit 4 in Singles & Dating

I asked this question six months ago and the answers were great. Well, I found her contact info online and did contact her, we talked everyday for months, she left her husband of 7 years but now I am having a hard time leaving my wife of 17 years

2007-09-20 11:18:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

First and foremost, I would greatly appreciate it if you all go easy on me. My girlfriend and I moved in together approximately 3 months ago. Our relationship, in my opinion, is on the fritz. We don't fight, but it feels like we just "exist" together. I feel terrible because I feel responsible for our relationship being like this. We are both insecure. We are both not very good talkers. The worst part is that I am very attached to her 4 year old daughter. We still have 9 months left on our lease, and I don't want to make her life a living hell. I just want her to be happy, but I feel so alone in this relationship. We have sex maybe once a month. She is the most unpassionate person I have ever met. I know that she was hurt in the past, but I've given her my unabided support since the beginning of our relationship. In fact, I think I've let her take advantage of me at times. She is not seeing anyone else because we are online at work together all day. HELP

2007-09-20 11:14:46 · 27 answers · asked by mspidey2007 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-09-20 11:13:19 · 1 answers · asked by will da real gansta plz stand up 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this guy for almost 5years. We hooked up when we were in Highschool so we're still young around early 20s. The question really is that I love this guy and I know he loves me... and we seem so good together but of course, there's always something wrong..

Like most guys my age, he doesnt know what he wants to do wit his life. Because of this, he is not going to school. He tries to find the best job he could find but ends up giving up because, as usual, he doesnt know what kind of job he wants. We have the same dreams of being successful and living a good life but...

For me, school/education is part of being a sucessful person but he thinks otherwise. He thinks he knows a lot already which is true. He knows more than wat I know in life.

I dont know if i should wait till he grows up and find a career that he wants to do because he may not grow up. Though, he is giving me signs that he will do watever there is to do... someday.

im confused.

2007-09-20 11:11:21 · 12 answers · asked by ahoyhoy 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-09-20 11:07:48 · 97 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hello, my name is Jennifer and I am taking a pyschology class and I am doing a project on the different factors on why people cheat. I made a survey for people to take who have cheated in a past or current relationship. The survey is completely anonymous so please be completely honest. You can click on the following link to get to my survey:

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=utBySY01odNpM95ooYF19w_3d_3d

Thank you for your time and help.

2007-09-20 11:05:22 · 1 answers · asked by Jennifer P 1 in Singles & Dating

Im getting married in 3 weeks and i have had butterflies in my stomach for the last few days. any advise on getting rid of them or calming down a bit.

2007-09-20 11:04:02 · 19 answers · asked by Kevin C 2 in Weddings

I find that this works for my husband and it makes me want to gag. I hate the fact that the only way I can really get him to do anything is to throw sex into the equation. After sex he would fly to the moon and back if I asked him to. If there isn't any sex involved, I sometimes have to wrestle to get him to do anything. It's silly and I refuse to pacify him in that way. You should want to do things for me because I am your wife, as you are my husband. Does he have to d**k me down before I'll do anything for him? Absolutely not. I do it with joy ... but as of lately, I have started getting an attitude like him because I am sick of being the only one who's trying to compromise.

Are you in this situation?

2007-09-20 11:02:57 · 16 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

okayy , so i have these thwo friends, okay and ones serbian and ive known her my whole life, and the other one ive met in grade 6. and ive been bff with both of them, well last year we've entered highschool, and i introduced them both to eachother, and now were in grade 10, and my serbian friend is acting like i dont exist and shes all over my other friend. Like id be lucky if she said one word to me at lunch or something. Every single day shed ask were " S" the one ive known since grade 6 was, every single day. and it drives me crazy, like were were susposed to go to a concert and i asked her to go with me ,and shes like okay. the next day im like so you coming with me, shes like no "s" asked to me to with her and she didnt, and sehs like i cant turn her down, that be rude. And its like were not even friends anymore, what do i do ?

2007-09-20 11:00:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends