how do you make him swallow his pride and admitt he loves you?

Question

i live with him i clean for him do his laundry change his sheet jump when he says jump gave up my friends i even take care of his bed time needs he dont take care of mine he gets phycial contact from me i get nothing i even have to sleep on the coach when i say im leavin he says for me to stay tells everyone wher not together tells people he wants me to leave but tells me different when he knows i think about leavin he shows affection at home he acts like were a couple i know he loves me i can feel it when he does touch me

Answer 1

Wow why do you hate yourself so much that you'd do this to yourself? For love? If you want to do something for loves sake, get a puppy don't baby a boy. This is his love, in his own stype, don't expect more, what do you think if he says it, it will change? No doesn't work that way, al thou a few million abused spouse's would hope so. Realize your not feeling for yourself at all here (well maybe a little but only enough to get a breath so you can clean up his !!!!) your sacrificing yourself which is part of it, but not for this, he is spiting in your face in a sense and your talking it. That just yells insecurity not love, not even for its sake, you need realize lady your human and worth a heck of alot more then that. And the touch is deseving, he can touch anyone like that becasue guess what? ITS YOU THAT MAKES IT MEAN SOMETHING!!! Even if he was perfect that'd be true, so never accept just one small thing from a relationship, thats your hopes giving your heart power to cope. Just please realize that the reason I CAN'T tell you how to do that, is because you've tooken away ever ability for you to do that, your just his touch toy..... maybe if you take that way to he grows up..... but this mans got you by your insecurities, you can do better, that is if you can believe that.....