We started dating in April and things got serious pretty fast, but at the time we were both ok and happy with that. About two months ago she said we needed to take a break and be single for a while. She says she still loves me and I still love her very much. But she says she just doesn't want a relationship right now. We are both starting school in October. And her mom died about two months ago. I know she is overwhelmed and still depressed about her mom. I have reason to believe we will get back together someday, but I have to idea when. What should I do? Should I wait for her? Or is it over? I love her and can't picture myself with anyone else, nor do I have any desire to date anyone else even though she says its ok if I do go on dates. I am 25 and she is 22. Any advice?
2007-09-20 11:42:24 · 7 answers · asked by epihl01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't force her to commit to you. She's going through a very difficult time right now and she's practically telling you that she needs some space. It's obvious she doesn't want to hurt you. I'd say, step back for a week or two then give her a call (on the phone, not a text message!). After you speak with her, you'll have a better idea of what to do.
2007-09-20 11:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If You Really Do Love And Care For Her As Much As You Say You Do Then You Should Just Wait It Out Untill She Is Ready
2007-09-28 00:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by sxydevil1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her and ask her if she's ok (mom). If you truly love her, just ask her when she thinks she'll be ready to get back together.
2007-09-28 18:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Birtha Borleen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her sister is interested in a serious relationship. Ask the sister out, because your girl is obviously got something on the side, and she's weighing her options...
2007-09-28 14:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by Phillyfan 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Back offf and leave her alone. She is far too vunerable! Be a best friend to her and she will come to you in her own time!!!!
Carry your pride
2007-09-28 08:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Aruba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's best to give her space..
don't push her so hard..
you know, the more you wanna cage her in,
the more she would run away from you..
both of you guys are still young..
for now, just focus on your own lives..
2007-09-28 09:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to her.
2007-09-28 17:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋