okayy , so i have these thwo friends, okay and ones serbian and ive known her my whole life, and the other one ive met in grade 6. and ive been bff with both of them, well last year we've entered highschool, and i introduced them both to eachother, and now were in grade 10, and my serbian friend is acting like i dont exist and shes all over my other friend. Like id be lucky if she said one word to me at lunch or something. Every single day shed ask were " S" the one ive known since grade 6 was, every single day. and it drives me crazy, like were were susposed to go to a concert and i asked her to go with me ,and shes like okay. the next day im like so you coming with me, shes like no "s" asked to me to with her and she didnt, and sehs like i cant turn her down, that be rude. And its like were not even friends anymore, what do i do ?
2007-09-20 11:00:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Change your definition of bff, and take a breath.
2007-09-20 11:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like an experience I had when I was in school. The new friend gets close with the old friend and leaves you out. Just put up with it if you can and the new friend will go away eventually when the old friend realizes that she isn't as great as she thought she was. By the way you have described her she sounds backstabbing and will eventually stab your other friend in the back too. Girls like this always end up with no friends. Just dont stoop to her level and act like everything is cool. Maybe you can catch up with some friends you haven't hung out with in a while in the mean time. Good luck, this has happened to me several times and always has the same outcome.
2007-09-20 11:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by icon_star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very insecure and childish!! Your in a new school, mingle..there are plenty more friends to be made out there! Dont talk to her for a while and she wont be long about crawling back!
2007-09-26 22:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Aruba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just ignore this and try and make friends with someone else, this is just typical childish jealous behaviour from your friend. Really you should all be friends together and go places together, if this is not possible then just let them get on with it. if you show you are not bothered. I am sure they will come running to you.
2007-09-20 11:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with u, she is obnoxious.....
i dont mean to judge, but based on what u told me, it kinda seems like it.
if i was u i wouldnt talk to her anymore....i bet she thinks u are begging her to talk to her.
so just dont talk to her any more or just tell her how u really feel, that might work..
i hope my advice helped :-)
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-09-20 11:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by chris brown #1 fan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is using you drop her fast and then you can be rude shes doing mean things to you take care.
2007-09-25 14:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be her bff just think of her as a common asshole.. or a friend if you like
2007-09-20 11:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by Hyperstorm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on sorry
actau;ly dont give up keep on trying
gd look
2007-09-20 11:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋