Im getting married in 3 weeks and i have had butterflies in my stomach for the last few days. any advise on getting rid of them or calming down a bit.
2007-09-20 11:04:02 · 19 answers · asked by Kevin C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It happends to everybody, it's a commitment you are doing with your love one. I was fine until the morning of the wedding, I was a mess, lol, had a glass of wine and relaxed and felt alot better. Butterflies is a combination of alot of things, stress, excitement, commitment and knowing that you will be sharing your life with your love one. Once the ceremony is over, you will feel so much better. Just relax and enjoy your day. Congratulations.
2007-09-20 11:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mary J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is normal. I think most people feel this away. How long have you been together ? Long enough to know each other? Do you like her parents, do they like you? You might say why. When you get married this will be important. They will be part of your Family. Think about it . If you truly love each other everything will be find. I'm not saying it will never be hard. It will be at times for everyone. I have been married for 9 years. I felt real nervous before the wedding. Now I am so happy I went though with it.
2007-09-20 18:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by NayNay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about your future. I don't want to burst your bubble or anything, but those butterflies probably won't be going away. You may be nervous, but those butterflies are mainly there for excitement. You future now includes someone special to share your life with. there is nothing to be nervous about. It's a big change, so butterflies will be there, but just imagine your wedding day! Everything will be perfect.
Congratulations, and good luck!
DON'T WORRY!
2007-09-20 18:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by no name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Kevin, you will be perfectly fine my husband was the same way even when he saw me coming toward him down the aisle he was sweating so bad I had to to wipe his face while saying vows lol. but when t was time to kiss he would not let go the pastor had to tell him save some for later lol. but if you would like you can look at our pictures online at
www.pictage.com and then once there put in my name Geniene and hit go and you will also see how nervous my husband was. Also you really dont have anything to worry about it's mainly the bride that will be nervous I know I was and frustrated. Well good luck and God bless you and your wifee to be and if you or your wife have ?'s I might be able to help I have only been married 4 months so email me if you like at gdglasgo@yahoo.com
2007-09-21 19:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by nene120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those butterflies are probably the good ones (: keep reminding yourself that this person is special (; and you probably want the wedding to go faster which is making you have those butterflies - if not talk to her and a see her point of view with the wedding - you two are going to be married - you will deffinately have times occurring when you or her need a comforting talk to go through something (:
and CONGRATS !
2007-09-20 18:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Katie Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down in a quiet place and ponder this: Are those butterflies doubts or stage fright? Don't just examine this intellectually, but with your gut feeling as well.
If doubts: You will need to cancel, or postpone while you work on any issues the two of you have.
If stage fright: Google "overcoming stage fright" and "stage fright" and see if any of those techniques work for you. Keep mentally rehearsing the wedding in your head as you work on calming yourself.
2007-09-20 18:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. X 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"butterflies" are not good. If you are nervous about the day itself(everything going smoothly) that is understandable but no one should be nervous about the marriage itself. If you are nervous about spending the rest of your life with this person then you are not getting married to the right one!!
2007-09-20 19:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by afriendofGod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I can tell you, it doesn't go away. I personally have not been married but have been around enough brides and grooms to hear how nervous they are just to have it go away after they say I do. It's natural to be nervous. It's a big decision and questioning ones self is just our way of double checking that we are doing the right thing. It doesn't mean just cause your nervous that your doing the wrong thing. Sometimes we just need to reassure ourselves.
2007-09-20 18:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember why you are marrying her, forget about any flaws she may have or anything. Marriage is a big step but i'm sure you wouldnt have taken the step to purpose if you didnt think you were ready and that she was the one. Good Luck!!
2007-09-20 18:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by Carissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If those butterflies make you have doubts if u r realy want to merry this girl,means you have to delay your wedding till u be sure 100%.
2007-09-20 18:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by riushkis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋