Family & Relationships - 7 August 2007

he tries to get to know me a lot and flirts with me alot. He also has been patient with me because i ignored him before and mad dogged him (gave him mean looks). he also is always talking about how I should have a boyfriend and how he's my ''daddy''.

here come the BUTS
everytime I DO flirt with him it ends up in something sexual.
like a hug turns into him squeezing my butt or touching my private part.
a simple kiss turns into him kissing my boobs. etc.
only when were in private but still!! and if i pull away he gets a little bit irritated. also he doesnt pay any attention to me when he's around his best friend!
whats up with him??!?!?! does he want just sex or is he actually looking to get to know me and have a relationship?





p.s:sorry that i used the words ''he also'' at the end of every sentence.

2007-08-07 19:02:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a best friend, whos a guy. and he likes me and wants me to go out w/ him. i told him id give it a chance, but i want to wait a little while. so we're not going out. but for the last 3 months ive been w/ him 24/7. he lives in the same court as me, and he calls me every morning, and he comes over, and then he lives around midnight. we dont do anything, we just sit there and watch tv. even when i was sick he just sat there w/ me, evn tho i kinda wanted to be alone. and i almost feel like, ive lead him on. because i dont know how to tell him that i need some space w/o him getting his feelings hurt. but its something that i need to say. what do you suggest??

2007-08-07 18:58:23 · 7 answers · asked by sienna2008 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband lost his job awhile back and now he leaves it to me to pay all the bills. This has been going on for over 6 months now. He always says it's temporary and he'll pay me back but I'm sick of hearing excuses! He's been working off and on, but when he does get a paycheck the money quickly disappears- there are always priorities that come before me like paying back his friends, buying beers, repairing his truck or eating out. I have this growing anger that he's using me and doesn't care. So, I canceled his cell phone, the satellite TV, HBO, and I'm tempted to cancel his car insurance. Also I've been paying a lawyer $500 every 3 months for a DUI that he got, and I told him I wasn't going to pay the guy anymore. He says I married him for better or for worse and I should support him in bad times. Yes I have the money, but I work too and that's my hard-earned money! What do you think, am I right to cut him off from the 'gravy train'??

2007-08-07 18:54:11 · 9 answers · asked by kallista 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-07 18:44:50 · 18 answers · asked by georgie 1 in Singles & Dating

papers i need a certified copy so that i can get my name changed for my drivers license and i got divorced in 2001, but it says i can change my nmae whenever i want

2007-08-07 18:44:14 · 6 answers · asked by JENN-JENN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am dead serious and reallllly need advice.
ok a few weeks ago I met a guy at a thing far away. but we ended up living about 4 towns away from eachother.
I liked him but not like oh i wanna be with him way just like a hes cute i wana kno him kinda way,you know?well..
i always tell the guy wut i think so i told him i liked him but not alot but he liked me and i am NOT GOOD AT ALL at saying no.
he asked me out and said he'd make the whole long distance thing work.
so i said wutever. . .
but now hes come down once to my town it will be twice in late august[but hes coming for his friend not me]
I even met his mom and grandma.
so I told him i cant talk for a few months i drove and stayed out to late & got grounded.he believed me.
but i cant keep it going.
i never answer his texts,phone calls,im 'secretly' deleting my myspace.
just trying to loose contact.
kuz i am NOT GOOD at dumping a guy.
but im in to deep!
what do I do??
am I doing the wrong thing?

2007-08-07 18:42:33 · 15 answers · asked by penguin 1 in Singles & Dating

is asking me to sign papers saying im responsible for any damages that have happend since the divorce... I have lived in the house since the divorce and taken care of the property and pets since the divorce happend... he wants all the equite and escrow that has occured but we have payed all bills 50/50// should i sign the papers and give him all the equite or should i be entitled to half of the equity?? the reason for the divorce was he cheated on me and i have evidence of it.... please someone give me good legal adivice...

2007-08-07 18:41:02 · 11 answers · asked by dewman_30 1 in Marriage & Divorce

relationship? if you are still madly in love and miserable without the guy but dont have all the same ideas and ideals in life is it a good idea to try it again?

2007-08-07 18:40:38 · 10 answers · asked by kathy 2 in Singles & Dating

In the past I have been burned badly by women and am now very much a wuss when it comes to speaking to a woman I might find attractive. I consider myself to be one of those "nice guys" who finish last. I am a trusting man (which is probably what got me in this position to begin with).
For one,I am leery about telling a woman I am attracted to her, and secondly I wouldn't have the slightest clue as to go about a "date" any more. (I was married for 7 1/2 years)
What is a good way for a man afriad of further rejection to overcome his fear and approach a woman he finds beautiful, fun, and/or ask her on a "date"?

2007-08-07 18:37:59 · 12 answers · asked by Michael N 1 in Singles & Dating

What would be a deal braker in a marriage/relationship for you Apart from cheating (any kind)

2007-08-07 18:36:32 · 11 answers · asked by rhaevyn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im not sure about all the details, but i would be texting a lot
talking a little bit too
is it worth it?

2007-08-07 18:35:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I've been with this boy for about 10 months and I've always thought in the back of my mind that he was cheating on me. Never had enough proof until recently. Now I love this man with all my heart. I give him money when he needs to pays bills knowing I don't have a dollar to my name after, I've helped him out of jail when his parents is the reason his in there and they never gave a dime (it was for a court date) I give him food when he don't have anything to eat, I even just recently got him a job where I work at because he needed a job asap. Now here's the catch during this relationship I meet a new guy( that am also ina relationship in now) and I really like him but I'm in love with him. My first boyfriend just ended this affair he had with his ex-girl just 2 weeks ago that I know for fact. What should I do I want my first dude to get serious and stop goofying around, How do i handle this situation properly?

2007-08-07 18:32:33 · 2 answers · asked by sexy1503 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has legal problems (owes money) and the state takes our tax refunds, and go into our bank account and takes money. I have bounced checks, and gone into debt because of this. Is there anything i can do to protect my money besides divorce??? we live in california.

2007-08-07 18:32:32 · 9 answers · asked by mariposa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-07 18:30:16 · 9 answers · asked by artutina 4 in Singles & Dating

Where they fell for greener grass but they should have worked on there previous relationship. thanks all

2007-08-07 18:27:52 · 9 answers · asked by David r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've never been able to make friends but every one I talked to in high school said that it would be easier in University. I tried, I was outgoing and friendly and listened to people (while being very careful not to push too hard), but it still didn't happen. Now all summer so many people are going on road trips with their friends and trips to the lake and I just play video games when I'm not working.

2007-08-07 18:26:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If your girl calls, sms, email, chat with you all the time, even for the littlest things... is this too much for you?

What is then your limit? How would you like your girl to show you respect in this area?

2007-08-07 18:26:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want a true relationship with a guy but my parents say that i cant have one. how do i have a relationshp without my parents knowing or getting suspicious about secret phone calls and going to the movies and such?

2007-08-07 18:23:18 · 14 answers · asked by Mrs.NICK.JONAS!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 18:23:01 · 21 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-07 18:21:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having a very small wedding Sept. 1. I have only been planning since the the middle of July. I asked my long time best friend to be my matron of honor. I know she is going through a difficulty time (money wise) so I told her I would understand if she wasn't able to do it (she has to pay for the dress herself $60). She assured me she could and we made plans to go and get her dress 2 times in the past 2 weeks but she canceled each time with a lame excuse. She was suppose to call me back Sat and I have yet to hear from her. So, I asked someone else and the new person already went and purchased the dress. Should I have waited on my best friend? I know her feelings will be hurt but I didn't want to be stressed by waiting to the last minute. Did I do the right thing?

2007-08-07 18:21:10 · 15 answers · asked by sweettee 3 in Weddings

there is this guy named ben who i just met. my sister married bens cousin. but were not related in any way.

but yeah. i really really like him. and the other day he told me he liked me to which made me really happy. but nothing has really happened since then. and its kinda driving me crazy. like we talk but thats about it.

its driving me nuts. and ive never liked this someone this much in a long time. how do i get him interested.
enough to make him ask me on a date or something.

2007-08-07 18:20:06 · 7 answers · asked by Ace 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, school is about to start up again and i keep telling myself i need to get me and the kids up early to get used to it again because we've been sleeping in all summer, here is the thing, i try so hard to get up early but i just can't so we end up sleeping late, then at night we are not tired because we slept so late, so we stay up late again, then we can't get up early becaue we are so tired from staying up late because we slept late.....does this make sense?...lol....get my meaning?...so, do i force myself up early so then we will be tired and we'll go to bed at a decent hour or what?...any suggestions?...i sound like a crazy person asking this.....i think i'm just tired.......Good night.

2007-08-07 18:19:12 · 8 answers · asked by Nita and Michael 7 in Family

4 years ago, I gave birth to a little girl. Her father didn't want any children and I was on birth control when I concieved. We went our seperate ways. I fianlly went after a DNA test to prove that he was the father becuase he has denied her to his family. BUt he has said to me the he beleived he was her father. I have not asked him for child support, and I will not, I wish for him to sign off so that my husband may adopt her. However I still wish for her to know her father's family. Am I doing the right thing by her, asking them to give my child a chance?

2007-08-07 18:18:39 · 16 answers · asked by victoria E. 4 in Family

2007-08-07 18:18:11 · 2 answers · asked by JustWondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i come from a family with 4 children,my dad passed away yrs ago so all we have left is each other and MOM! she is the root of the problem.over the yrs moms mental and physical health have declined alot and she has become the most needist person in the world i swear. she acts like we are the parents and she is the child she expects us to drop whatever we are doing to take care of her its mentally,emotionally and physicaly to much,but let me clarify the we its me and my sister doing and going thru this all the time while the 2 younger ones get to live out their merry lil lives. both me and my sister have our own health issues that have left us both disabled,its hard enough taking care of our own families in my case i have 2 sons who are both mentally and emotionally disabled,and my sister has a young daughter who was just diagnoised with a disablity. we have triedthe tough love approach,but then mom got worse and the younger ones blamed us for not taking care of her. what would you do?

2007-08-07 18:17:45 · 6 answers · asked by mistybandit63 1 in Family

A foreign friend on msn, we once had feeling on each other,and i felt stronger than him,but he always had me crowled.The last time,he really hurted me,and i did get so angry,and then made up my mind to push him out of my mind,though he promised to come here meeting me,so i delete him from my msn and email adress box,i even off msn.That does work,i gradually cease to think of him.The matter is,yesterday i received an email from him,he said now he's now in my country but in another city,he invited me to that city,he said he could offer me accomodation and even the travel tickets. I can't figure it out,why he always appeared when i almost forget him.And now we finally get a chance to meet each other always at the wrong time for me.i know i shoud reject him,but i ain't unfeeling saying no to him,'cause he's still on my mind,though it's fading.So sad.....what should i do?

2007-08-07 18:15:51 · 6 answers · asked by clicking 1 in Singles & Dating

when my husband is sleeping he snores so loud i can't sleep, is there anything i can do to help him, and me so i can get some shut eye, it's funny, he swears up and down he doesn't snore..one night i'm gonna video tape it so i have proof...lol...but really, is there a certain way he should sleep, or something i can buy....i mean, i;d rather listen to his snoring all night than him not be here, i am thankful every night that i have a loving husband and hearing him breathing next to me is music to my ears, but the snoring part is a nightmare to my ears...lol.....any suggestions?..should he go to the doctor?....

2007-08-07 18:15:15 · 27 answers · asked by Nita and Michael 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I loved him a lot, but then some problems parted our way. It is six months since I last talked to him; still I don't have the courage/urge/feelings to look for someone else to replace him. I feel like he lives within me although we dont talk. But I guess I need to move on. How? Any comments? I would love to hear your thoughts.

2007-08-07 18:14:49 · 12 answers · asked by applegoogle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think a girl who is rich, successful in her career and smart is more attractive than an average girl? or vice versa? When you consider finding a wife for your life? What kind of girl you think you will like?

2007-08-07 18:13:57 · 11 answers · asked by ABCCCCCC 1 in Marriage & Divorce