Well I've been with this boy for about 10 months and I've always thought in the back of my mind that he was cheating on me. Never had enough proof until recently. Now I love this man with all my heart. I give him money when he needs to pays bills knowing I don't have a dollar to my name after, I've helped him out of jail when his parents is the reason his in there and they never gave a dime (it was for a court date) I give him food when he don't have anything to eat, I even just recently got him a job where I work at because he needed a job asap. Now here's the catch during this relationship I meet a new guy( that am also ina relationship in now) and I really like him but I'm in love with him. My first boyfriend just ended this affair he had with his ex-girl just 2 weeks ago that I know for fact. What should I do I want my first dude to get serious and stop goofying around, How do i handle this situation properly?
2007-08-07 18:32:33 · 2 answers · asked by sexy1503 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is depending on you like that, he is probably just using you. He will cheat again, as soon as he gets the opportunity. Better to let him go, and see this new guy. Quite spending your money on guys. They are supposed to be doing things for you too!!!
2007-08-07 18:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like being used and abused then go back. I would stay as far away as I can to the leach. Did he break up with the girl because she saw thru his crap. Is the 2nd boy any better? Does he treat you like the princess that you should be treated like? If not dump both and look again. Love takes time and time cures a broken heart. So it seems like you got a lot of open time. I suggest shopping. One must kiss a lot of frogs before a prince comes a lot and so far you have only found a looser. lol
2007-08-07 18:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by littleme836 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋