Family & Relationships - 7 August 2007

Last weekend he went out on his stag do, paint-balling and a pub crawl, he was out all night and I didn't phone or text him, I just let him enjoy his night with his mates. This weekend is my "hen do", now he is saying he does not want me to go out to any pubs or clubs, it was fine for him but why not me? Our relationship is rock solid, I don't drink so he has no worries about me getting drunk, I have no intentions of talking to guys or going to see male dancers/strippers etc...why can he have his fun and then be difficult about me going out?

2007-08-07 20:10:53 · 29 answers · asked by fairy_cakes17 1 in Weddings

a hindu married couple for the past 2 yrs. they dont have any issues.the wife is the only child to her parents and is a aloof type character. though she is employed she does not hve much friends &. keeps things close to chest and does not share things with anyone. the hus on the otherhand has an elder sis and also a cousin sister of his same age. he is actually very close to this cousin sis. at the time of marriage itself the words he uttered to the wife abt her is " she is more than a cousin sis to me" . now the couple is facing prob in their marriage life and the hus is taking this cou.sis for his confidence. in spite of being an arranged marriage, when the girls parents tried to sort things , this cou sis is talking frm the hus side. the hus has gone to the extent wherein he is confiding to her all the intimate things bet him & his wife. nw the cousin sis has resigned her job and is helping the hus to end his relation & tld the wife to sign on doted line .is she genuinly helping?

2007-08-07 20:06:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

After telling you how much you have been killing us as a family, I thought it would be enough for you to quit smoking. You have no clue of how your addiction has impacted my life and your family. I am cooped up in my room all day because I know if I even try to go downstairs or in the bathroom, there you are smoking. I know I will be planning your funeral in the upcoming years, due to your disgusting habit, so you might as well tell me how you want it. You are rapidly killing yourself and your family. Even the pets are at risk for cancer, just like Jack. After talking to you repeatedly about quitting, you blow me of and tend to change the subject of a very important issue. I understand it’s a hard habit to quit, but millions of people have done so. You have a prescription ready to be filled out, but you think of yourself when you smoke, not about the harm you are causing us. I shouldn’t have to think about how you are going to die, but I do. I shouldn’t have to think about ruining my vacation while you smoke or you going outside with the dogs and contaminating them and yourself. If you haven’t realized, it controls you. Even at the mall, you couldn’t fight your urge to smoke while shopping, that should have been a sign to quit. Since you won’t quit and keep smoking, you do not care about us or love us, even though you claim to. You blame smoking on us driving you to, but that’s not an excuse, and you know it. I don’t think you realize your smoking controls my life as well. Maybe Katie and Dad don’t know the huge consequences of your habit, but I do. If you continue to smoke and not quit, I’m going to have to separate myself from you. I will no longer think of you as my mom, because only a caring mom would listen to this. Your stupid family and so called friends like Marla and Joe smoke. I don’t know if this is what keeps you smoking, but they are not worse your health. I have no doubt smoking will give you cancer and you will eventually die. You have cut off so many years of your life, you don’t even realize it. Is it worth a couple more years? It’s a slow but fast suicide. I most likely will be in my twenties and you will be dead. I am angry at you for this. You even have dad smoking now, which gets me even madder. I will not have parents when I’m older due to smoking. You wonder why I have trouble sleeping, this explains it. I think about all these issues every night I go to bed. I’m sick of this and I can’t handle it anymore. I am at the point where I want you to work full time so I won’t have to be around you and worrying about you downstairs in your chair smoking your life away. I don’t care if you ground me for the rest of my life for this letter, but I have had it with you. This letter also addresses dad, coming home taking his anger out on us and ruining his health over his job. I don’t care about the money he makes, as long as he is happy. If he is so unhappy with his job, he needs to find one that he enjoys, instead of hates. I know if he continues this, he will die of a heart attack or some other cause. And Katie doesn’t care about me, you, or dad. I only think of her as a roommate in this house, which is sad to say. Then I’m mad about you killing our dogs. I think of them as my children, and I cry myself to sleep over your smoking and feeding them to their death. The vet has made comments about Pablo’s weight and our pet teacher has made comments about Toby. I shouldn’t have to take manners into my own hands and take care of them 24-7 which I will now on be doing. Go ahead and show this to your crappy friends and family like Arlene, Marla, or Nana, or anyone else, because this letter only embarrasses yourself. I bet after reading this, you will go sit downstairs and smoke another cigarette and drink a beer. Because that’s all your life is. Continue on telling me you will quit, because it has been 8 months you have been telling me that.
Amanda

2007-08-07 19:53:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Kindly guide me to know about the Special Marriage Act, 1954, how its different from Hindu Marriage Act? I am a Hindu living in India, and wants to get married with a woman who is not Indian and her religion is Roman Catholic, I want to know what should be the procedure to get married with her in India and which act will applicable in our marriage. Kinldy guide me in detail
Thanks,

2007-08-07 19:52:37 · 4 answers · asked by Samir S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and I do not want him to go as I think it is far to close to the wedding, he dos'nt even know where he is going. His mates although now in there 30's are all nuts and are always up for any laugh. Am being ureasonable? He says he can not do anything about now as the Best Man has organised it all. I am worried sick that something is going to happen to spoil our wedding.

2007-08-07 19:50:34 · 26 answers · asked by Reb1 2 in Weddings

i m haivng a very horrible time with my luv life, coz her parents doesnt like me and they dont let her talk to me or mail me once and now everyone saying to me that i should forget her for a while, but dont u think if u love smone how can u possiblely think of forgetting it coz its ur first and only luv, if one day v have to forget abt it then y v get into this first on first hand rite this is not luv dont u think and not an option that i forget her, plzz help me with this

2007-08-07 19:48:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 19:43:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I nvr got a girlfriend cuz i wanted like a perfect girl
but im getting pretty lonelyy ROFL
i have an urge to jus go out with any girl and also hoping that my love life will be like a movie. Like first girlfriend became my wife. LOLS i dont know something impossible~
So what should i doo?
help me pleasee

2007-08-07 19:42:11 · 14 answers · asked by Troubled1 1 in Singles & Dating

Please help me...i really like one of my guy friends that worked with my brother and we started talking and flirting alot. well one weekend i went to his buddies house and we were all drinkin and i was all over his friend and completly ignored him
i feel really bad about it now...after all that happened they guy i like kinda backed off
but then he went out of town for the weekend...i went on a date w/ another one of his friends
since that...he barley talks to me. and since he isnt talking to me i want him SO bad i cant stand it.
i feel like such a b**** and a whore. i told the guy i like him but he never really says anything. we have talked some since all that happened...but now it's different
and i cant get him out of my head
what can i do??? PLEASE help

2007-08-07 19:37:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please serious answers only!! lol.. whatever... I pick cinderella.. she is good at chores!!

2007-08-07 19:32:55 · 7 answers · asked by crazycovey21 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-07 19:32:14 · 17 answers · asked by rohit r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met some guys at the age of 40-45 who are still single, never ever been married. not gay. one guy even had partner for 10 years with one kid.

maybe guys at the age of 20 or 30 something still wanna have fun and they think its too early to get married. but >40???

do you know why?

2007-08-07 19:32:05 · 4 answers · asked by Amy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i just met the cutest most exotic most funny guy ever hes like i swear the guy of my dreams and i cant go out with him because my bestest friend is with him! and when she talks about him and her i get sooooo jelous but theres noo way im telling her that i like him what should i do to calm myself down this guy has got me going crazy already! and i cant stop thinking bout him

2007-08-07 19:27:33 · 11 answers · asked by sandyleesand 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 19:25:31 · 8 answers · asked by Sammy The Surfer 4 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, but he wont stop talking about his ex! Should i still try, i mean she dumped him a long time ago but i don't want to just be the "friend" he talks about his ex's with

2007-08-07 19:23:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Reasons why you love them or what you love about them...

2007-08-07 19:20:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend, tyler, is obsessed with skateboarding. i like extreme sports too, but he truly is obsessed. he has already broken his arm falling off of a ramp. ok, this next part is dorky. another friend, me and tyler like stuff to do with ninjas, we make our own weapons, do research (and not to mention, we keep ourselves fit and healthy with ninja like exercises...) we are all fourteen. and tyler took up skateboarding, and he does crazy stuff... he is growing apart from us, and i need some ideas to help prevent that... we love videogames and tyler sold his gamecube and all his games. he now only plays rented skating games. he has pretty much traded in our group of friends for the skaters. i think it is all right for him to skate, but i don't think it is healthy for him to focus all energy towards it. one day i think he will all of a sudden get bored, and he will wish he didn't ditch us for skating, or he will get hurt (my brother did permanant damage to his shoulder skating... do i have

2007-08-07 19:18:49 · 10 answers · asked by Andrew 3 in Friends

For the last 2 days i have only been up for a total all together of 4-5 hours........ I have never slept like this...i wonder what could cause it

2007-08-07 19:16:45 · 28 answers · asked by kkds14 3 in Singles & Dating

This is directed mainly to couples(alternative lifestyles included) in long term relationships.

Which of you settled for less in choosing each other as a partner in life?

In my case I feel that she could have done better than me

2007-08-07 19:15:10 · 9 answers · asked by therustedknight 3 in Marriage & Divorce

can u move out of the house when u are and bout to finish Highschool?



i wanna move out

2007-08-07 19:13:37 · 16 answers · asked by mr. curious 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 19:10:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex bf in a 2month relationship and i really liked him and tried to talk to him he wont answer me

2007-08-07 19:08:45 · 3 answers · asked by Chelley 1 in Singles & Dating

is that after the potential date or current date finds out that I am a widow they treat me differently and it is hard for them to be around me. This is so common. I live in an Army community and my spouse was Army, killed in Iraq. I even get guys that all of a sudden get upset want to apologize to me and keep hugging me. I understand that a lot of these guys stationed here have lost somebody...Ft. Campbell has suffered many losses.....and maybe I should not say anything until they get to know me better, or would that be deceiving? I am not a piece of china.

2007-08-07 19:07:20 · 17 answers · asked by me 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-07 19:06:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 18 years old and just curios wen does a man stop growing. i heard that wen ur 18 u stop and from sombody else u men stop when there 21?

2007-08-07 19:06:41 · 15 answers · asked by Derrick M 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been talking to my friends friend latly and i like him a lot and i think he likes me. But he keeps asking me if i would have sex with him and give him head. Like he talking bout it turns me on but i and scared of doing it at the same time. Im 15 years old and i haven't even ever did any thing with a guy yet do u think we should just slow every thing down and wait or just do it but i don't want to regret doing it and not doing it please help!!

2007-08-07 19:05:52 · 5 answers · asked by christine ann 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been in love with a guy, was suspose to get married but broke my heart. It hurt like hell. So don't know if I wanna marry for love. Date a guy with a whole lot of money, but people say I will be misserable, that money won't make you happy. Date another guy thats real cool, he loves me but I don't love. We get along great. What would be the best situation?

2007-08-07 19:05:10 · 21 answers · asked by JB 2 in Singles & Dating

Love is holding hands in the street.
Marriage is holding arguments in the street.


Love is dinner for 2 in your favorite restaurant.
Marriage is a take home packet.


Love is cuddling on a sofa.
Marriage is one of them sleeping on a sofa.


Love is talking about having children.
Marriage is talking about getting away from children.


Love is going to bed early.
Marriage is going to sleep early.


Love is a romantic drive.
Marriage is arrive on tops curvy tarmac .


Love is losing your appetite.
Marriage is losing your figure.


Love is sweet nothing in the ear.
Marriage is sweet nothing in the bank.


Tv has no place in love.
Marriage is a fight for remote control.


Love is 1 drink and 2 straws.
Marriage is "Don't you think you've had enough!".


Conclusion: "Love is blind , Marriage is an eye opener!"

2007-08-07 19:04:52 · 23 answers · asked by shaktimaan 5 in Singles & Dating

i told my uncle that a dude can kick a chicks **** because they are weaker in strength &they usually dont have the wits compared to the dudes i can break a cchicks ankle &ive done so before this chick thought she was bad because she knew jujitsu i laughed &told her lets get it on baby she lost her bare feet were just as small as her bongos so she couldnt strick as hard as i could barefoot &i chaalange any chick 2 spar with me if u have the stones i'll make u say ric no more i give just like i did that chicka who thought she was a bad *** ***** from hobart i gave her a ric-ster *** kicking&ankle lock tapot&body twister

2007-08-07 19:04:41 · 8 answers · asked by ric pasley 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, my wedding is in October, my fiance and I are about to start stuffing our envelopes and then put them in OTHER envelopes as that was what we are told is traditional...BUT WHY? Can we just have 1 envelope?Please help. Need to start sending these puppies out by the end of this week. THANK YOU!

2007-08-07 19:02:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings