i have been talking to my friends friend latly and i like him a lot and i think he likes me. But he keeps asking me if i would have sex with him and give him head. Like he talking bout it turns me on but i and scared of doing it at the same time. Im 15 years old and i haven't even ever did any thing with a guy yet do u think we should just slow every thing down and wait or just do it but i don't want to regret doing it and not doing it please help!!
2007-08-07 19:05:52 · 5 answers · asked by christine ann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SERIOUSLY? WAITTT!!! its not worth it, to lose something so special, to a loser, just because you are ******* horny. im sorry, i just dont think you should do it. unless you are madly in love with him, and you are getting married, married, or anything like that, dont do it. you also said that he was "a friend"... im sorry, but why would you give up your virginity to one of your friends. you will probably end up losing him as a friend, along with your virginity. it will suck, and you may not regret it right after, but when you are on your honeymoon, and your husband gives you the sweetest sex of your life, you will regret it soooo much. even wait until you are in a serious relationship with somebody. seriously, dont do this, cuz if you do this, that will be one of the most unthoughtful decisions ever~
2007-08-07 19:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from this guy at all costs. He has no interest in you except to sleep with you. He does not want to slow it down he just wants to use you for sex and leave you. I am not saying it will be just a one time thing he will want to stay around you as long as he can sleep with you and once you refuse him he will leave you. He is not at all a nice guy and you need to stay away from him because he is a snake.
2007-08-08 02:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by not_moes_cousin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u say no to it before married...yeah...who know...maybe u will regret it and feel sad when he leave u because u don't wants to do it with him...
but...for sure...
if u do it now...and still he dump u...u feel not only regret, sad....u feel badly hurt like thousand of needle poking u in the heart...and u are filled with hate all over u...u hate yourself for being stupid..u hate guys that treated u as a fools....etc...all the mixture of terrible feeling..!..gonna haunt u the rest of your life....
so..! its better not to do it now...who can say for sure he won't leave u...don't u think so?....
just say "no" if he really love u..he will respect and willing to wait until both u are ready to get married..
if what this guy care is sex..but not u...i don't see the point of going out with him...he only treat u as cheap prostitute..
do it without having to pay ..!
so if he is that type of guy..(only wants sex)..better to dump him now..!
2007-08-08 02:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by nightowls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. really. if this is the way this guy is talking to you...seriously, break up with him (if you are even together)...if you arent together..gahh this guys is just an a**hole...seriously, NO ONE should ever pressure you of make you feel like you should do it. you are 15, and have your WHOLE life in front of you, dont f**k it up already with a "friend of a friend"...its obvious he only wants you for sex, dont waste your heart or your time on him.
2007-08-08 02:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by Im a ninja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's just after the sex.
(This is an older guy talking here.)
2007-08-08 02:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋