i just met the cutest most exotic most funny guy ever hes like i swear the guy of my dreams and i cant go out with him because my bestest friend is with him! and when she talks about him and her i get sooooo jelous but theres noo way im telling her that i like him what should i do to calm myself down this guy has got me going crazy already! and i cant stop thinking bout him
2007-08-07 19:27:33 · 11 answers · asked by sandyleesand 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, is your best friend going out steady with him? are they boyfriend/girlfriend? if the answer is yes......sorry friend, a true friend has to respect the friends's boyfriends and there is nothing you can do, in the name of friendship.
BUT! if they are just good friends, then talk to her...and tell her that you like him.....what are friends fror then? I am sure that if she is not with him, she'll help you.
But as I said if she's his girlfriend..............for your own good...find another Prince, I am sure there's one out there somewhere waiting for a Princess like you!
Good Luck!!
2007-08-07 19:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going 2 be really hard but,u need 2 respect your freind right now stay away from her .then if your freind is a true freind she will ask u. what's the matter?and then there's your chance start the converstion w/ how much u love her as a freind and don't want 2 hurt her .then she will have sympathy for u tell her the truth about you likeing her boyfreind:)other than that if she doesn't listen she's not worth your time and if anything u sound like good person who will understand what i mean:)
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2007-08-08 04:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he doing something to you? like flirting or anything? cause thats wrong. if he is, you should tell your best friend and you both should get away from him.
if youre just crushing, then yeah. go find another guy. you should be happy for your friend. shes your BEST friend. maybe you dont really like him, just the fact that he and your best friend are happy together and youre lonely cause you dont have that special someone yet. and that hes probably always around when you and your best friend hangs out, and you got use to him being there. theres plenty of other guys out there, trust me. get over your best friends dude and find your own cute exotic funny guy. you can do it.
2007-08-07 19:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by JIGGLY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think aboput other stuff maybe something fun is comeing up stop thinkin about him and think about the other thing and you dont have to tell your best friend that you like him you can just probably put it in your diary and keep it in there so when ever you think about him just look in that diary write all your thoughts about him in your diary so you will finally let it go and be calm
i hope i helped?
:))
2007-08-08 08:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by jazmin d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no guy worth losing you best friend over. Just get over it, and move on before you get hurt.
2007-08-07 19:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so sad you know that same thing happend to me and my friend.me and her had a crush on a cute boy his name is julio julio was in love with me but before he can tell me i moved to another country so he asked my best friend out thats hen julio told her that he loved me so she told me.she said that they had a great time i got really mad so the other day she sent me a picture of them together kissing and hugging i wanted to tell her not to be with him but i didnt want to be mean so i told her and she got mad ant me but days past on and we became friends again so you should tell your friend
2007-08-07 19:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that really sux, how close are you and your friend though? i really liked a guy too once and my best friend knew that i liked him and she still went out with him, i told her i didnt have a problem with it but it killed me inside. well karma's a &(*&&^ and she liked this other guy a year later and he and i have been going out recently but she got butt hurt about it and my best friend and i stopped talking.
2007-08-07 19:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by ;-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ruin your relationship with your best friend. find your own boyfriend! that will stop you for thinking about him.
2007-08-07 19:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay away from ur b/f or loose her...
stay away from him tooo
Once she is finished with him.. and u have her blessing u can deal with him...
but if he dumps on her.. he will dump on u...
Respect the friendship...
2007-08-07 19:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with him and let the chips fall where they may
2007-08-07 19:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋