I nvr got a girlfriend cuz i wanted like a perfect girl
but im getting pretty lonelyy ROFL
i have an urge to jus go out with any girl and also hoping that my love life will be like a movie. Like first girlfriend became my wife. LOLS i dont know something impossible~
So what should i doo?
help me pleasee
2007-08-07 19:42:11 · 14 answers · asked by Troubled1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Date a little bit. You sound picky, which can be a very bad thing. Just try to have realistic expectations! You never know what you're going to come out with if you never try. Good luck!
2007-08-07 19:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by Cochy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out more, join some clubs or get into a sport or a local organization.. something. That will make you more available. Also, be outgoing. Don't sit around and be a bum. Clean up and always look nice: wear nice clothes, have your hair trimmed at all times, a nice cologne is always good too. If you are just nice and always have a smile on your face then people should notice you, especially the women. You should also practice being respectful, open doors for all the ladies, even if you do not know them. Help them when you can. We love that. Just don't act desperate.. That will not work. Take things slow and don't rush into them. You will have a great gf one day, that will soon turn into your wife! Good luck.
2007-08-08 02:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what happens when you look for perfect. What makes you think that you are so perfect that you deserve perfection? Just list the most important qualities that you want and hope that you find someone that has most of them. Then you will be lucky. You are probably not looking in your own league. I see guys do it all of the time. They look at women that would never give them the time of day. Don't they realize that they are not going to get Miss America!!!
Be more realistic, and you may find the right person for you. Perfectionist are never ever satisfied with anything!!
2007-08-08 02:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people can remain single for their life because of choice.
You are single because of your expectations.
There is no perfect girl.
There is no perfect boy.
A relationship will not endure all that happens, unless the people involved love each other, or are in love, this is obvious.
You can try to "cheat" this, but it won't work for long.
Everyone has to put in the time, effort and committment for a relationship to "work".
Why don't you date some woman.
You may meet that special one that makes your heart aflutter.
It is an error to go out looking for the perfect girl.
Take things slowly but surely and one day you may realise you are in love.
Happy days.
2007-08-08 02:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by Astro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner or later you will have to learn why the almighty gave you balls.
Also, realize that what looks perfect on the outside, may not be half as good on the inside.
With that in mind, go to places where you can find girls to talk to. Clubs and other social areas are a good start. Just get comfortable talking to girls.
You will only find a person you are compatible with if you talk to them.
2007-08-08 02:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong with you...yes you are troubled indeed...first only wanting the perfect girl and ofcourse there wasnt...and then you wanted anyone just cause you were bored and lonely and lately expecting some girlfirend to become your wife....having seen too many C-movies,reading wrong books or WHAT is wrong with you...you little boy,My thinking is ARE you READY for a girl in your life???I dont think so pal....grow up some first and when you know what you really need ....you will meet her
2007-08-08 02:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by ajal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First;u need to know that you've got to be an angel to find one.Don't follow your urge and go out with any girl. Have some girl friends and see ;u will find someone you love . and that never means she will be perfect for you. You will just be able to love her enough to accept her with all her weak sides.
I also wish that my first r/n ship would last forever;goodluck!
2007-08-08 03:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by t m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its alright to be single and never had a relationship- theres many others in your same position. you probably have many girls as friends or are the guy everyone looks to for a friend. dont go out and find just anyone try going out with mates and socialise with others in your age group. once you find that girl for you, you will know and dont be affraid become friends with her and form a friendship and if shes your type of girl then even a relationship.
2007-08-08 02:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by bluetinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be too picky and there is no such thing as a perfect girl and no ones life is like a movie.
2007-08-08 02:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
date around for a bit, learn what type of girls are out there, there are actually few good ones out there, so keep a sharp eye out, one could be standing next to ya some day.
2007-08-08 02:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by kaneselo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋