i m haivng a very horrible time with my luv life, coz her parents doesnt like me and they dont let her talk to me or mail me once and now everyone saying to me that i should forget her for a while, but dont u think if u love smone how can u possiblely think of forgetting it coz its ur first and only luv, if one day v have to forget abt it then y v get into this first on first hand rite this is not luv dont u think and not an option that i forget her, plzz help me with this
2007-08-07 19:48:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just know one thing ... do whatever your heart is telling you if you feel like you have to fite in order to keap her than fight! if se really loves you she will listen to her heart to and both of you will be together!
2007-08-07 19:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by mi g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how young are you to commit to such great passion. If both of your are in the right marrying age and that you can support a family then I say the hell with the family. Elope and be happy with each other and be steadfast in everything that comes your way for the reality of life is not all bed of roses. But if you are still young then...slow down.
Everything in life has a purpose and everything that seem so unfair at first most always have a special reason for the betterment of you life. It is impossible to forget someone you love, but who said you have too? You can always have a special place in your heart big enough for the memory of that love.
Love does not own anybody and it is given freely. Meaning if you are really head over heals with the girl then be free by giving freedom to that love. Loving is detaching yourself from obsession and attaching yourself to the truth that nothing is permanent. Soon there will be a person right for you at the right time.
I have been there, got mocked at, laughed at, treated badly by parents... but I stood up being a man and married her because we are old enough and ready to face realities. Good luck and chin up.
2007-08-16 00:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by chinaman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont forget about her just because her parents dont approve. my parents didnt approve of my guy for a while but then they started to get to know him and hes always allowed over. it could be the parents reacting also to realising their daughter is growing up and this may become her first serious relationship or , not saying you are, but that your only after one thing -sex- many parents think this way and yes its really hard to prove them otherwise it sounds like the main problem is the parents. try and visit her at her house but dont spend the whole time in her room- spend time in the family room with them and start conversation and let them get to know you or when you call- if the parents answer ask them how their going and get interacted with them before asking to speak to your girl. dont let this get you down- if you really like each other than nothing should stop you from being together.
2007-08-08 02:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by bluetinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLOW THE HELL DOWN you're gonna give yourself a coronary
2007-08-15 21:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by malboja2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fu** her parents dude who gi8ves a sh** what they think
2007-08-16 00:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by cfhrzom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be good
2007-08-14 16:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋