he tries to get to know me a lot and flirts with me alot. He also has been patient with me because i ignored him before and mad dogged him (gave him mean looks). he also is always talking about how I should have a boyfriend and how he's my ''daddy''.
here come the BUTS
everytime I DO flirt with him it ends up in something sexual.
like a hug turns into him squeezing my butt or touching my private part.
a simple kiss turns into him kissing my boobs. etc.
only when were in private but still!! and if i pull away he gets a little bit irritated. also he doesnt pay any attention to me when he's around his best friend!
whats up with him??!?!?! does he want just sex or is he actually looking to get to know me and have a relationship?
p.s:sorry that i used the words ''he also'' at the end of every sentence.
2007-08-07 19:02:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sad but true most guys are only after sex and will go though a relationship to get it , but if you act more like a friend towards them and don't flirt so much you may find he'll start liking you for other reasons
2007-08-07 19:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Laughing Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he acts like he does not care in front of his friends, then all he really wants is sex. It is inappropriate and disrespectful to grab a person like that, unless you are lead to believe that is what they want. Next time, tell him that it makes you uncomfortable, and that you wish that he would take the time to get to know you better before you move into a deeper relationship. If he gets mad, you will know that it is only sex he wants.
2007-08-07 19:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he doesn't "touch" in front of his best friend..... he wants you in private. I think he likes you and tries to feel you up b/c he thinks you like him too. He is flirting with you. Decide if you want a relationship with him, and let him know before his flirting gets out of hand. He'll think you're teasing him.
2007-08-07 19:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it sounds like he just wants sex. Men are patient when they see you as a potential conquest and as a challenge. Sorry not to sound jaded but men dont behave that way if they respect you and usually they want to treat you better in front of their friends, bc its their way of showing they are serious about you.
2007-08-07 19:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by kitty10185 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just pity you if you are but being used by man whom you called maybe a lover to you. Don't let yourself be ruined first by sexual affairs because in the long run you are already used and you'll regret. Keep yourself clean so that you'll be respected. Sexual acts are not yet yours because you are not yet married. Sexual acts are valid only to married couples. Your life will be psychologically affected after your relationship with a man who is only sexual and not through a man who truly loves you. Just ignore him if you want a peaceful life.
2007-08-07 19:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Certainly doesn't sound like he has much respect for you! I'd say he's in it for the fun and the sex or whatever he can get!!!!!!
2007-08-07 19:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by Corinne in Bflo. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an immature *** hole. He just wants sex. or something to that effect. leave him alone and find someone who respects you!
2007-08-07 19:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by Megan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE ONLY WANTS SEX IF HE WANTED A RELATIONSHIP HE WOULD BE TELLING PEOPLE THAT YOUR TOGETHER AND HE WOULDN'T BE ACTING DIFFERENT IN FRONT OF OTHER PEOPLE MOVE ON FIND A MAN THAT WANTS YOU FOR YOU...........ALL OF YOU NOT JUST SEX...........
2007-08-07 19:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he wants to be with you.And have a relationship.
2007-08-07 19:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just want to get laid---trust me i know----if he wanted a relation ship sex wouldn't be his priority..
2007-08-07 19:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by 8 inches of joy!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋