A foreign friend on msn, we once had feeling on each other,and i felt stronger than him,but he always had me crowled.The last time,he really hurted me,and i did get so angry,and then made up my mind to push him out of my mind,though he promised to come here meeting me,so i delete him from my msn and email adress box,i even off msn.That does work,i gradually cease to think of him.The matter is,yesterday i received an email from him,he said now he's now in my country but in another city,he invited me to that city,he said he could offer me accomodation and even the travel tickets. I can't figure it out,why he always appeared when i almost forget him.And now we finally get a chance to meet each other always at the wrong time for me.i know i shoud reject him,but i ain't unfeeling saying no to him,'cause he's still on my mind,though it's fading.So sad.....what should i do?
2007-08-07 18:15:51 · 6 answers · asked by clicking 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he's trying to hit it and quit it - do not get played - he probably just wants to have sex with you while he plays the field and tries to get sex from any woman who will give it to him - stand your ground and do not get played
2007-08-15 10:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey..
u seem to be in quite a delicate spot..
imagine it this way.. you fall down while jogging and hurt your knee.. then you put some ointment there and the pain reduces and the wound starts healing.. but after a few days if you start pulling at the scabs.. it only aggravates the wound and makes it worse right??
its the same thing here honey.. if you are not able to say "no" to his face, then just email him saying that you are going to be busy during that time because of a friend's wedding or something like that..
cheer up gurl.. and dont make urself vulnerable again..
you do a mistake once its fine.. but repeating the same mistake wont get you anywhere..
good luck in whatever you do and take care of yourself..
2007-08-07 18:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by sindu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paying for accomodation and travel tickets? To me this sounds very suspicious, especially the accomodation part. Sounds to me like he is only after one thing and only contacted you while he was in the country.
If you are keen on meeting suggest meeting in a public place closer to home in the daylight. If he does not agree then you can assume that he is not for you.
2007-08-07 18:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by slashjunior2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss to be completely honest any guy that will hurt you will possibly hurt you agin. Their are quite a bit of men in this world that will not hurt you and that will treat you like you should be treated. Miss you just have to be patient and wait and your soulmate will come to you or you will go to him. Im sorry that your sad, and that you're down and sad. If you would like to talk more plz write me and I will do my best to help you in any way possible. Have a good day miss!
2007-08-07 18:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really know what has happened --- my lady is overseas and i will be there soon but i will turn up pretty much on her doorstep --- i suggest he does care for you --- if he has hurt you let him know that and see if he is willing to change how he treats you ---- i think if you did not at least meet him (safely i must add) then you will wonder forever ----- best wishes
2007-08-07 18:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI PIZZA u really need 2 think more about ur chose nd don't belive strangers..............................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-07 18:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋