Family & Relationships - 28 April 2007

Your ex suddly shrank down to the size of a bug right before your eyes. What would be your ultimate revenge?

Please take question as just fun.

2007-04-28 17:29:29 · 8 answers · asked by ripstang3000 3 in Marriage & Divorce

...and if so, is he really happily married?

2007-04-28 17:28:11 · 25 answers · asked by Sally Sunshine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am housesitting and this is the first night. I always have trouble sleeping in someone elses house any suggestions on getting a good night sleep

2007-04-28 17:24:21 · 2 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Friends

I think that with all the other methods of birth controll out there, that people shoudl stop using abortion as the "cure" for pregnancy. If your too stupid to avoud getting pregnant while having CONSENSUAL sex then be a decent human beign and let someone who cant have kids take the baby. ITs sick how many times a woman will have an abortion.FRICKEN DISGUSTING. If you cant keep you fortress protected then you should be prepared for the aftermath of the invasion

2007-04-28 17:23:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How do tell your family that they are just a bunch of nut cases and they need to face that fact

2007-04-28 17:21:22 · 7 answers · asked by pandabr74 3 in Family

I'm 27 and I have been with my boyfriend for two years. He is the best thing that has ever happen to be. He is wonderful, sweet and caring. But I'm confused right now and not sure what I want. He has been telling me how hard work has been at work lately. He is a nurse. As a human rights worker I have always been empathetic to suffering of any kind, my friends, internationally etc... but because my emotions have changed towards him, so has my capacity to show empathy towards his life. Its not like me. Even if my love for him has changed, by respect for him has not, so why then, do I feel restless and un interested when he talks about his stress? why can't I feel empathy towards his situation at work?. I just don't seem to care. I feel awful! just looking for insight.

2007-04-28 17:19:22 · 4 answers · asked by Jai247 1 in Singles & Dating

Some people say dancing scares off the guys because a lot of guys cant dance? But just because they cant dance with you doesn't mean they can't watch right? Even if it does i won't stop dancing but i'm just wondering from someone elses point of view.

2007-04-28 17:15:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know your going to think that I also think sexually about other people but I've always been so completely in love and sexually satisfied with my spouse that i really never have. buy i just found out from my spouse that she constantly thinks about sexual things with other people, both guys and girls. and yes in her thoughts she does everything with them. this is not an occasional thing, it happens all the time she told me. i'm having an extremely difficult time trying to deal with this and i feel somehow that our marriage of 11 years may be over because of this. i don't want it to be. how do i deal with this and why is she doing this? she said she's done this ever since we got married!! she tried to tell me that all women do this all the time and that it is just natural. i just don't know if i can believe that. i love her. how do i deal with this. how do i forgive her. have i lost her somehow? please, please help me and tell me what you can.ican’thandleit,Ineedhelp

2007-04-28 17:14:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The gown I ended up falling in love with has kind of a long train. It wouldn't matter so much, however the ceremony will be taking place outdoors on a greenbelt.

Is it in poor taste to have the train down during the ceremony (I don't mind of it gets a little dirty) or should I keep it bustled up the whole time? Please keep in mind that the ceremony will only be 15 minutes, followed by pictures. The reception will be indoors.

Let me know your thoughts. Thank you!

2007-04-28 17:12:28 · 18 answers · asked by jaye 3 in Weddings

Now I'm only 15, but I'm curious about this because when I eventually have sex, I want to know that I'm giving the girl the pleasure she deserves. So... any ideas on how I can find this out?

2007-04-28 17:09:35 · 15 answers · asked by raptor444 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to promote steroetpypes, but I'd like to know a little background on Asian men. What are they like? What do they like and dislike? What are their expectations of their female counterpart?

2007-04-28 17:08:15 · 11 answers · asked by oh really 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I would be applying for permanent disability, and I'm wondering if I would still be responsible for paying child support out of my monthly SSI amount or if that would be paid directly to my ex-wife above and beyond anything paid to me.

2007-04-28 17:06:27 · 4 answers · asked by inactive account 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-28 17:05:35 · 10 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just a normal letter. An envelope and paper.

2007-04-28 17:02:25 · 5 answers · asked by 0HES0 2 in Friends

i believe i may have fathered a son twenty years ago... it was a brief relationship and she would never tell me if he was my child.. have resently found the mother again and would like to know the answer one way or the other.. i would like to know what legal obigations in the state of maine that may come with this after twenty years... i'm aware that it may not be in his best interest for me to come into his life, but would like peace of mind knowing for sure or should i just let "sleeping dogs lye"

2007-04-28 17:02:00 · 1 answers · asked by Doug H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-28 16:56:12 · 13 answers · asked by Juan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-28 16:53:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a group of mothers that I talk to every day at my daughter's elementary school,and there are these two people whom I thought I was really good friends with. Friend A is only at the school two days a week because those are her only two days off. Friend A is always friendly and says hello to me. Friend L treats me like she has to tolerate me because I am there and she acts jealous whenever friend A and I talk.

Friend L will Wait for friend A to walk down to the school,because I am usually the first to arrive. Anyway,a few days ago my supposed friend L saw me standing there waiting for her because I saw her coming and I was going to cross the street with her. Well,she was with her sister-in-law,completely ignored me,and she acted like I wasn't even there! You talk about angry,I was FURIOUS over this!!

I am wondering if Friend L is jealous of me because I talk to Friend A,and she can't stand that A and I talk? Do I have every right to be upset over this? Why is she so mean?

2007-04-28 16:51:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok. This guy's answer to my prom invite was "It's not a no, but it's a no only because I have date" Then he avoided me 3 weeks before prom started. At prom, he always seem to "be" by me. Like plenty of empty tables around me and my friend's table, yet he decided to stay 3 ft. away by the wall. Him and his date left prom when my and my friend did. He showed up at iHop alone. Then about 2 weeks after prom, he was STILL avoiding me. I didn't get this because first semester (before this trivial prom problem) I KNOW he liked me. So I stopped him one day and askd if he took my invite the wrong way and if that was his reason for avoiding me. He acted like he didn't know what I was talking about at first, but after I called his bluff he said that he thought I was mad at him and that he felt bad for turning me down. Do you think he really felt bad? My guy friends say I should believe him because guys who aren't interested will just blow a girl off with things like this.

2007-04-28 16:48:37 · 7 answers · asked by Dear Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-28 16:48:21 · 14 answers · asked by mksolheim 1 in Weddings

I mean specifically if women find intellegence sexy in men.

I don't mean "books smarts straight A's in school" intellegence, I mean practical every day intellectualism.
Stuff like having a vast volcabulary that allows you to articulate your thoughts and convey your ideas profesionally, or being so good at mental math you can calculate any tax included price in your head in seconds and can show up your math teacher when he's asking for a "calculator" on a daily basis.

If you can't tell already, this question is about me.

I've always been able to impress people of both sexes with stuff like that, just never women in an infactuation sense.
It also really bugs me when I say something, have some ditz say "what does 'profound' or 'hinder' or 'delve' mean" and those same girls are amazed at other sfuff.

No, I'm not some bookworm high school nerd, I just need perspective because its been a long time since I've dated/ hade a girlfriend

2007-04-28 16:46:53 · 24 answers · asked by Go Leafs Go 2 in Singles & Dating

It has been like seven years since I have seen my mother because I have been living with my father. She gave up her custody on me. I was living with her and her new boyfriend before she did and they had a kid. Sometimes when I think about I don't know if should be sad or mad.

2007-04-28 16:45:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When you were little did you decide inside that one day you would like to get married? If you did what age were you? Did you already picture the type of man or women you would like to marry? And anything else you would like to add perhaps you knew at a certain age that you did not want to get married.

2007-04-28 16:41:19 · 14 answers · asked by ME 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee and I we wonder for our wedding night.

2007-04-28 16:39:45 · 18 answers · asked by Van 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Feel free to tell me the reasons behind your preferences. And don't be afraid to support your opinion if you really think diamonds cannot be replaced.

2007-04-28 16:39:13 · 32 answers · asked by Goldberry 6 in Weddings

My husbands brother came to stay with us because he told my husband he has no place to stay. So my husband said okay, but no cats! He has two cats. He finally got rid of one, after it attacked him several times, the last time pretty viciously. So now he is still here with one cat. We are living like this in an apartment complex where there are animals allowed, but only if we pay pet deposit and so much extra a month. If managment finds out we will get evicted for breaking our lease. No, we cannot pay extra for his cats!
He has been here around 2 months. He finally got a job about 3 weeks ago. But his truck had expired tags on it and our apt. office put a tow sticker on it. So he drove it out of the city somewhere, so it wouldn't be towed. Supposedly, until he gets enough money to license it. Except, since he moved his truck away from here, he quit that job!
When I try to talk to my husband about his brother getting a job, my husband just bulls up and gets mad at me!!

2007-04-28 16:32:58 · 6 answers · asked by desperate77 2 in Family

My dad is always right behind me watching everything I do. I just now went to get a cup of yogurt out of the fridge when he turns around from the couch and glared at me. Whenever I eat he glares and says "Your gonna weigh 300 lbs if you don't stop eating so much!!" and I eat healthy foods and only weigh 93 and I am 12. We never have been close, I have always been a mommy's girl. Also, next weekend I am having a sleepover with my friends for my birthday Friday night-Saturday afternoon and he says hes going to stay in a motel. He never supports anything I do like band, choir, 4-H, my dream to be a vet, etc. He always puts me down. He makes fun of my mom too, and puts her down saying she's a 'fat lard' ad sleeps all the time. She is a nurse and works 4 nights a week on nightshift, so she has to sleep some during the day. My parents want a divorce, and I sort of want them to too. But I will miss my horses because my dad owns them. I just don't see how I can get close to him. Help?

2007-04-28 16:31:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I really messed up, bad.. what should I do??
ok..long story short, the girl that I'm talkin to hadnt replied to ne of my emails.even though the day before, she said everything was cool , and i was really sweet, and still on my first chance...but i saw that she had read the messages, but hadnt replied...well i was already having a horrible day, so i emalied her and basically told her to quit stringing me along...but....then i remembered how busy she is, and that she might have something big going on this weekend, but idk for sure, ...so neways..i cooled off, and sent this apology, is my grave already to deep?? i mean, am i screwed, or is this apology good?

Hey

I know this isn't right, but its not what you think it is. I would sincerely like to appologize, and honestly mean it. One, I sent you that very immature message about you not replying, and it was tottally irrational, and immature. I was having a very bad day, and my brother did something to set me off, and I basically just typed all the thoughts in my head into that dang message. None of it was true at all, not a word, they were just ideas floating in my head, and my brother turned a bad day into a worse one, and thats how that message happend. None of it is true. I know you are very busy,and I know i have not given you enough space, especially in the past day, so I am honestly appologizing. I honestly dont know what happend, cuz I know better than to act like I did. so, I do think now I need to ask for a 2nd chance. and if you dont reply to this, I tottally understand, I probably wouldnt either. but yea, on a lighter note, I still hope you think I'm sweet. You are too :).
wb if you want.

2007-04-28 16:30:11 · 8 answers · asked by how many 1 in Singles & Dating

I will try to get straight to the point
1.How do you know when a "player" likes you?
2.My friends say to play "hard to get", does this work and how do you exactly play this.. lol
3. How do you ask a guy ( i know this sounds weird but) how much longer do you think you will be with the girl you are dating?
W/O actually saying those exact words lol?

Hope you can help
More comments the better, not smart-az comments plz.

Thnx
Shanty♥

2007-04-28 16:29:12 · 6 answers · asked by CHH Chicx 3 in Singles & Dating

I am alone here I have no friends in this area. so i want good friends and more............. i like it.........................o.k.

2007-04-28 16:28:16 · 7 answers · asked by sabu t 1 in Singles & Dating