Family & Relationships - 28 April 2007

i know i am a strong person....
but just the thought that i will not see him ever again after a couple of weeks is too much to take...
no, he's not a close friend or anything....
in fact, i have never talked to him face to face....
but i cant stop my feelings for him...
i am not even sure what kind of feelings they are
i dont even know if they are romantic feelings or what...
but i do feel something very strongly for him, and i am not sure what...

2007-04-28 10:41:35 · 7 answers · asked by a girl... 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-28 10:40:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

which do you prefer in a guy?

2007-04-28 10:40:42 · 16 answers · asked by Regular Guy 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-28 10:36:16 · 8 answers · asked by yllen_yllems 1 in Singles & Dating

why does love affair always fail before marriage?

2007-04-28 10:35:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

that you couldn't cry? No matter how hard you tried. You can feel the tears in your eyes but they just won't come out.

2007-04-28 10:32:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

a "drunk" and an "alcoholic"?

2007-04-28 10:30:35 · 10 answers · asked by Regular Guy 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-28 10:30:28 · 16 answers · asked by charli 1 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean exactly when a guy playfully slaps your thigh a couple of times? is he flirting....or does he want something sexual? also, this guy friend of mine made me kiss his boo-boo I gave him b/c he got me irritated from the thigh slapping. He kept holding his arm in front of me until I finally gave him a kiss on the arm. Before though, I asked him why he wants me to kiss it and why can't he kiss it himself. He told me, " if I kissed it, that would make me a loser, and how else would I get girls?" Does this guy friend of mine like me more than friends?...I like him also, its just I want to be sure.

2007-04-28 10:26:34 · 10 answers · asked by thatwasme_then87 2 in Singles & Dating

They work together and she was afraid but at the same time did'nt want to hurt his feelings.She let him finish got up came home showered and never spoke about it until now 30 years later and cryed like it just happened. She even work there for some time then found another job. Someone help explain this to me

2007-04-28 10:22:21 · 6 answers · asked by michael g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 15 and she is 17 about to turn 18. She came into my room without knocking one day and caught me playing with myself. She said that she would tell mom and dad if I didn't stick it in her. Then after I did that she made me really have sex with her. We both liked it and have been doing it almost everyday. My sister caught us today and said she would tell on us when my parent's come home tonight and I am trying to figure out what to say. I am trying to bribe my sister with stuff right now and am hoping she won't, but if that doesn't work I was hoping you guys might have an idea of what I should do. Oh, my sister is 17 also.

2007-04-28 10:22:19 · 21 answers · asked by Joey B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was adopted and found my birth mother we got along at first and then things just went real bad she burned my birth certificate and my file and i cant get them again.she will not tell me the name of my father and i was wondering if its still possible to find him ,i dont know my heritage i have health issues and id like to know.any advice would be very helpful,and i could have brothers or sisters out there..thanks ..

2007-04-28 10:21:39 · 6 answers · asked by Clea B 1 in Family

I guess hes just not into that but I just want to experience it! what should I say to him or should I just respect his decisions and keep quiet? the only thing is he has no problem with me giving him head and we have done everything but eating out. I just dont know what to do! help!

2007-04-28 10:19:50 · 8 answers · asked by Leyla S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-28 10:18:37 · 2 answers · asked by Randy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or your partner?

2007-04-28 10:17:57 · 7 answers · asked by Regular Guy 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been trying to figure out a new screen name for 3 years, and if someone would help me, I would be like, so freakin' happy!!

2007-04-28 10:17:41 · 4 answers · asked by Lexie 2 in Singles & Dating

and not get caught, do you think he would?

2007-04-28 10:17:09 · 3 answers · asked by Regular Guy 5 in Singles & Dating

I really need some advice on what could be a crucial decision. I've suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The usual signs... Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up.

My wife has been going out with the girls a lot recently, although when I ask their names, she always says, "Just some friends from work, you don't know them." I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the street.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep down, I just didn't want to know the truth. Last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her.
I decided I was going to hide behind my boat, which was parked on the driveway, next to the garage where I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It was at that moment, crouching behind my boat, that I noticed that the lower unit on my outboard seemed to be leaking a little oil. Is this something I can fix myself?

2007-04-28 10:16:38 · 18 answers · asked by quicksilverpro06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, my boyfriend used to deal and 'do' cocaine. He quit about a year and a half ago. We now have a daughter who is one, and he recently did it again, then sold the rest for a 'buddy'. When he uses he is very mean, and violent...He will not talk to me or tell me why he decided to do it again, especially while he is on it.. When I lecture about our daughter, how he can have her taken...he doesn't really say much. He does cry when he knows that he has upset eveyone in his family! I want to help him, but when his friends are pushing it, and it is at his work its kinda hard. Any advice or tips??

2007-04-28 10:16:05 · 3 answers · asked by Traci 1 in Family

for money?

2007-04-28 10:16:01 · 10 answers · asked by Regular Guy 5 in Singles & Dating

Please read my situation and answer honestly.

Last weekend my boyfriend said i was controling, I know i am a little but some things i dont think im being unreasonable like drugs and such. Anyways last night we went to a dance together and he knew i dont dance, i went to hangout with my friends and have some fun. He said to me if i dance with him just once he will cancel his plans for tomorrow night and come hangout with me. I said to him i dont think you will. And he said I promise i will. So i danced with him more then once. Atleast 6 times. After the dance I asked him when are you coming over tomorrow? And he said im going to out with other people unless u have a problem with that? And i just said fine. Today he has gone out and doesnt plan on seeing me. Im Really frustrated with him. Last weekend he cancelled our plans for his friends, and i didnt get mad. But now that he has forgotten a promise im pretty ticked off. And he is know ignoring me and said i shouldnt be mad.

2007-04-28 10:11:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had sex for the first time and it hurt...will it hurt next time i do it aswell?

2007-04-28 10:08:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

help and he pays attention to me but he is mean to me and he knows i like him but he isnt acting like he knows and he is sweet most of the time and i think he likes me but im not positive but yah

2007-04-28 10:08:19 · 5 answers · asked by hihi227 2 in Singles & Dating

I know kids say this about living with their parents all the time, but I'm seriously going to kill myself if I have to wait 2 more years to move out of this house. I don't live with my father but he still calls me everyone once and a while, but I don't think it'd be a great idea to live with him since he's a drug addict. My mother is unlike any other mother. She's controlling, semi-abusive (verbally & kind of physically if you consider slapping, throwing objects, & hitting physical abuse), she has a short-temper which leads to this abuse, and I don't think we could go a day without arguing ONCE. She's a single mother and collects child support from my sister's dad. She's suppose to be using that money for my sister's daycare, but instead she doesn't take her to her day care and she expects me to be watching her from 10am-5pm during the week. Is there anywhere I can go to live? Is there someone I could talk 2 about my living arrangments and maybe I could move out now?

2007-04-28 10:04:30 · 4 answers · asked by kjhk 1 in Family

I've been seeing this guy we had a conversation where it appeared that he was a bit upset because I thought the relationship was a friends-with-benefits type and he may have considered it more (but he never told me...well, maybe with his actions but I didn't pick up on them.) I was definitely doing a little CYA with my emotions because I was afraid to get rejected....

Anyway, I got asked out on a date by another guy and talked to him about it and he grudgingly told me I could go (lol) with the other guy......everything was fine and then we didn't talk for about 4 days. I realized I really had no interest in the other guy but felt silly putting my life on hold if there is no future with him. I finally txt him and said "I miss you" and he responded like everything was fine but never said it back.

So I am wondering if a guy who had an ego blow like I unintentionally gave him would pull in the reigns, so to speak.....because he has told me he missed me before, but it seems like it's a struggle for him to verbalize. And I think he is scared about having feelings but I am not sure....I catch him looking at me like he wants to say something and then he doesn't. You'd think we were friggin' teenagers, huh? Sorry to sounds pathetic - lol.

Did I mention I think I am in love with him?

2007-04-28 09:55:38 · 13 answers · asked by Clarissa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i reily want my tounge peired and my dad wont let me n i am only 14 and he is reily strict being nice to him dnt work and buying him pressant's dont and when eva i bring it up he get's in a stress plz answer me ! i nead help i want this done badely !

2007-04-28 09:53:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I met my finace's sister for the first time, she lives out of state and came to visit. When I was talking to her, I told her about myself and how I am quick to judge other people. She looked me right in the eye and told me the first time I ever judge her, she will judge me back. After that she gave me the cold shoulder and hardly spoke to me. I talked to my finace about this and he basically said I has no right to tell her that and she's not lying, he knows his sister and that she will do as she says. What should I say to make her accept and like me? I feel terrible for telling her that.

2007-04-28 09:50:48 · 6 answers · asked by lighting_the_way 1 in Family

in short my Bro in law insulted me , and i got too sad and reacted .. but after the reaction .. (just a sentence) i feel better . maybe it was the first time i dint finish a fight even though he tried it ..( on the surface level though) and for the first time i aint feeling weepy .. sad..about it.
Whats up with me?

2007-04-28 09:48:51 · 3 answers · asked by barley 2 in Family

is either my cousin richard or my friend bruce.what should i do?how can i tell them that they might be a father?more importantly what will my child be like if it is richies?

2007-04-28 09:45:54 · 23 answers · asked by lily_carmel_evans 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well my bf and i are in a long distance relationship! And whan i'm in school he keeps calling me and getting me in trouble! what do i do?

2007-04-28 09:44:12 · 9 answers · asked by batonwiz 2 in Singles & Dating