Family & Relationships - 28 April 2007

Your at a night club with you two best friends, for a long over due girls night out. Your having fun dancing and sipping drinks but out of no where your ex shows up. He's obviously drunk, and getting kinda hostle. This is where the question gets fun. Out of your purse you pull out a remote control with the ability to shrink the dirt ball down to the size of a bug. Would you use it? How would you act out your ultimate revenge?

I'm just looking for a funny, creative answer. Please have fun with this, and let your imagination soar.

2007-04-28 15:20:38 · 12 answers · asked by ripstang3000 3 in Marriage & Divorce

His perfect life is me leaving him alone for a week straight while he plays world of warcraft & online poker. Of course he would still expect me to have intercourse with him, which, yes makes me very upset that he would still expect that. He hasn't taken me out to dinner since December '06, and we've been married since october '06. It's almost MAY. We are newlyweds and I know that it's not supposed to be like this. He's logged an average of 5 hrs per day every day for the last two years,, on world of warcraft alone. I had no idea his internet use was this excessive before we married. Believe me...I am more than frustrated. I've begun witholding sex completely and I've left once. He begged me to come back under all these conditions I did. Within two days of me being back the treatment is the same. That along with sleep deprivation & name calling. We are in couseling & I am literally booking airfare to a foreign country. I have NO IDEA what to do & I am totally fed up..HELP

2007-04-28 15:19:33 · 42 answers · asked by anonymous M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm writing a story about a girl who's single dad recently remarried woman with kids of her own, and she doens't really get along with the 16 yr old step-sister and the 15 y old step-brother. Her 11 yr old brother has autism. There's also twins that play hockey and a percent of the story happens at the games.
Now her love interest lives with his single mom and helps take care of his baby brother and sister and in the story he finally meets his will dad.

So if anybody else had delt with any of this i would love to hear your own personal insight on the matter, I need relatives of kids with autism, hockey moms, people who didn't meet their dad till late in life, people that live in blended families so if you an help me i would greatly appreiate it, I just want personal anecdotes. I wnat the story to do justie for these families especially the ones dealing with kids with autism

2007-04-28 15:12:50 · 2 answers · asked by sarah h 2 in Family

I have been with my fiance for about 6 years now and have been engaged for 1 1/2 years. I am currently in the AF Reserve and i am traveling a lot. I've been deployed for 6 months now and have only seen her once in the passed 6 months. When I am done with this deployment I am probably going to be going on another long term deployment and i am really doubting wheter or not I want to continue my relationship with my fiance. Being alone in a different place is really hard sometimes and I can't always fly her out to be with me. I don't want to keep her hanging while I am away all the time because i'm not sure how long I am going to be away from home.
We love eachother very much but i think it's totally unfair to both of us to keep eachother waiting. I am also meeting women in the places I am in, not for sex, but just talking and getting to know them and I'm finding myself doubting wether or not i am making the right choice by staying with my fiance.

2007-04-28 15:10:02 · 20 answers · asked by blkdrgn96 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I fell in love with a 33 year old man & dated him for 1 year and a half. He has many issues: lives at home with mom, has a son(he hardly sees) who lives with the mother's parents, has no lisence, no car, and works a min. wage job & bad credit. I did not find all this out until the relationship went further. But i wanted to look past it and love him for his big heart and spirtuality. Well he recently dumped me on EASTER sunday because he says that he wanted a woman more spirtual in his life. So i told him i would go to bible study with him but he told me no "god wants me to give my life to him" (alone) But come to find out later he met some 23 yr old at church that day and begin talking to her and spent the night at her place 2 days later. I am 24 and a virgin and i thought he loved me and was waiting for me. I feel like i am not a good christian now because i study the word on my own. I feel like i gave so much of myself and he can just walk away. Why do i still love this sorry man?

2007-04-28 15:04:58 · 9 answers · asked by sweetnlow 1 in Singles & Dating

I have found myself single after over 30 years. How do you meet people when you've been out of circulation for so long?

2007-04-28 14:56:36 · 16 answers · asked by queenbee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think most of us live nice, safe, orderly lives; but I wonder if we are missing the road less traveled.

2007-04-28 14:53:40 · 4 answers · asked by Waterboy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-28 14:50:50 · 21 answers · asked by Hunter T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-28 14:48:08 · 8 answers · asked by Robinette 1 in Singles & Dating

the wife and children are baptist the husband is a witness they have been married for over 20 years she dies and the childrend want her to have a baptist funeral but out of respect there willing to accept someone speaking from the hall as long as a prayer may be said by her reverend the father said he has to ask for permission the children are very up set there concern is the bother from the hall does not know there mother and has only seen her when he came to the house to see there father for she would go to the other room and stay until he left they feel they have given a lot by not asking for a church what can be done

2007-04-28 14:47:55 · 8 answers · asked by meme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If they are both sincere, intelligent, faithful, they both have good work and dont have bad habits, and they like each other, can they make a happy family after getting married? What will happen if one of them doesnt feel very strong about the other, but still can appreciate him?

2007-04-28 14:43:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My finance said he wanted kids someday when we first met, but he is 40 and I am 32 and within two years I will want them. he feels he is getting older and doesn't want to be an old dad but he may change his mind. Do I marry him on the hope that he may change his mind? Any advice from someone who has dealt with this would be helpful....

2007-04-28 14:42:51 · 22 answers · asked by recruiterjodi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

can it affect me in any way, say in our sexuall life?

2007-04-28 14:39:25 · 16 answers · asked by loveit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a guyfriend that wants to start a relationship with me but I dont like him in that way. How do I say no nicely and still be his friend? Is this even possible?

2007-04-28 14:38:30 · 11 answers · asked by LilliMoore 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-28 14:35:01 · 20 answers · asked by JoeFriday 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I sit with a group of people that I particularly don't like...I only sit their cuz 1 good friend sits their/another friend I can talk to. I want to branch out and meet new people and lunch time is perfect. How would you recommend me sitting with different ppl at lunch instead of the same old people, same old routine? p.s. my good friend is gonna come 2 cuz hes tired of it and often times he can get on other peoples nerves.)

2007-04-28 14:32:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Please be serious with this , How do you "Go Down", For Men: Like how do you start ?For Women: How do you like it done? or what else can you do while your down there?

2007-04-28 14:27:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-28 14:23:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just left my husband. I had only known him for 4 months before we were married, shortly after our marriage we started having major problems. I tried everything before leaving him and felt that we would be better off with out each other. It's only been a week since I moved out, he was aware ahead of time that I was leaving. Now I feel major regrets, whe I am alone in my new place I worry about him, and question whether I made the right decision. Is this normal? Will these feelings subside?

2007-04-28 14:21:31 · 15 answers · asked by MsTrust 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad isnt the fun loving type

2007-04-28 14:19:36 · 6 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Family

am so bored sitting at home on a sat night. Everyone i know is busy with other things... if you want chat company im me
at yahoo.... bayspouse
I hope to hear from you soon,

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2007-04-28 14:19:09 · 1 answers · asked by dont k 1 in Friends

give you the chance to? Does time really change things?

2007-04-28 14:16:11 · 19 answers · asked by Wendy C 4 in Singles & Dating

i'am looking for a long lost family but i only have their pictures only.how can i find them?

2007-04-28 14:15:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Where did you find your husband/wife or boyfriend/girlfriend and how long did it take you to find him/her? Also are you truly in love and how long have you been together?

2007-04-28 14:13:27 · 16 answers · asked by KerryAnn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-28 14:10:47 · 10 answers · asked by Hunter T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well today he came in my room and in the ear he told me i likes u as a gf and i don`t really agree with that well i do like him but i don`t want to be his gf what do i do now plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-28 14:08:39 · 12 answers · asked by margaret b 1 in Family

I have been w/my boyfriend for a year+. We've been talking about marriage & our future. He has 2 children from prior marriage & suddenly wants no more though a few months ago we talked about it. He's 37 & I'm 23. I want to be w/him but am scared about this child issue. I think he is more scared b/c he doesn't want another failed marriage w/a child involved. He suddenly thinks he is too old to start over as a Dad. I am very much in love w/him & it is hard to imagine my life w/o him. Everyone keeps telling me that I'd be a great Mom. It is hard to question whether my desire for children is more than my love for him? If I don't have children will I resent him? I also think about the future if I walk away - What if I leave him, marry someone else & still for some reason still don't have children? Then will I always wonder what could have been w/him? Isn't he being selfish? I suddenly feel jealous of his ex. Does this mean he really doesn't love me? What do people in this situation do?

2007-04-28 14:05:19 · 10 answers · asked by rayneyblu 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

there are some girls at my church. and i kinda have a feeling that they don't like me. one time they even made me cry at church! they always ignore me and say mean things about me. i don't now what to do. i already talked to my parents about this and my church leaders. i just don't feel like i fit in!!! im so lost in my emotions! i need major help!!!

2007-04-28 14:02:03 · 8 answers · asked by bubbles rock!!! 2 in Friends

I'm looking for creative ways to ask my friends to be bridesmaids, any ideas? Did you ask your bridesmaids in a unique way?

2007-04-28 14:00:12 · 11 answers · asked by SSO 1 in Weddings

In do i start humping or what

2007-04-28 13:59:53 · 19 answers · asked by rahimsmpsn 1 in Singles & Dating