Well I sit with a group of people that I particularly don't like...I only sit their cuz 1 good friend sits their/another friend I can talk to. I want to branch out and meet new people and lunch time is perfect. How would you recommend me sitting with different ppl at lunch instead of the same old people, same old routine? p.s. my good friend is gonna come 2 cuz hes tired of it and often times he can get on other peoples nerves.)
2007-04-28 14:32:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
"Changing groups" is a toughie. Start by sitting half of lunch with the old group and then half with some random group. Like eat with the old group and then without food walk over to the one you want to talk with. Then you arent coming off as a d-baggee to the old group but you are still making new friends. eventually, cut ties with the old group. I did it and im still good friends with the people of the old group.
2007-04-28 14:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you figure out who you want to sit with, pay attention to where they usually sit. Try to get to the table before they do (so you don't seem like a weirdo) and sit a few seats away from them. I'm sure you'll be talking to them in no time. Or they'll steal your lunch money, but its worth a shot. Good luck.
2007-04-28 14:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good idea to meet new people. I would first just sit down at their table, introduce yourself, and ask if they would be okay with you eating with them. If they say yes, be nice and you might earn some new friends. If they say no, then they'd probably not be very good friends anyway.
2007-04-28 14:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by Blake N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit with someone whose like an acquatance and say "hay can we sit here" and theyll probably say yes and then you can gradually move to their table like start out once a week, two times a week and eventually youll sit with those new people. plus if you think about it the school year is gonna be over soon so you know
2007-04-28 14:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to someone in the lunch line and make sure the conversation is long so that you can follow them to the table and continue the conversation,
Good Luck!!!
2007-04-28 14:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest meeting other people in your classes and see if you get along with them. If you do then try hanging out with them at lunch then see what happens. Hope I help!
2007-04-28 15:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see an empty place next to someone, ask if the person minds if you sit there....then sit down and introduce yourself.
2007-04-28 14:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by suigeneris-impetus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not sure what you CAN do, but I will tell you what NOT to do. Do not take your friend who gets on other's nerves with you.
2007-04-28 14:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit with friends you don't normally sit with and get to know them better =]
2007-04-28 14:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋