Who do you believe if someone told you that your husband slept with my sister-in-law? and he denies it?

Answer 1

Have you asked your sister-in-law.

The person that told you about this trist...ask them some more questions, like how do they know.

If you have any inkling that they might be telling the truth. Question your husband over the course of a month. Make it subtle...like a conversation. Don't outright accuse him of anything.

I find that people crack under the pressure of repeated questioning.

Answer 2

Guys never admit when they're unloyal....At least not many of them do....Try to do some investigating yourself, and try asking yourself if the person that told you that, is your friend, or is just someone jealous of you and is trying to hurt your marriage.......If it's a reliable source, then dump your husband, cause once they do it once, they'll do it over, and over again.....It's just the way they are, and trust me it's hard for them to change.....Also you can ask your sister in law straight out......and tell her not to deny it cause you know everything....and she if she talks ......cause I don't think she will admit it either....Just ask her when she's not expecting it, catch her by surprise!!

Good Luck on this one........And if this is all true, dont forgive your husband trust me, cause like I said, he'll do it many times more!!!!!

Answer 3

Never believe your husband because he will go as far as to put his hand on the bible and even swears on his kids life to get out of it.Honey,read some books on the subject if you
don't believe me,I have read so many books about men.Why
they cheat,why they lie,what they want you to no but to afraid
to tell you,I could go on and on. Here is a book i think every
woman should read,it's called( 101 lies men tell women )most
women won't read it because they want to believe their husbands.These women are so brain washed by their husband that they will believe anything they tell them.

Answer 4

depends on who told you...if the sister in law told you then she most likely did...it had to be hard to tell you this..if it was someone else just consider the source, are they reliable? have your husband and sister in law acted different around each other?

Answer 5

Ask yourself.Is the person who told you that trying to make you angry or get rid of your husband.Do they like your husband or think you should not be married? Do you have alot of trust in your husband?Has he ever done anything like this before?
It should all come down to your feelings about it.
I do not know exactly who to beleive because i am not married,But my boyfriend sometimes gets me curious when other people say things and he goes out drinking.But I trust him.

Answer 6

Honey every woman has a Gut that gives us a signal when our partner is lying and cheating . follow your Gut Feeling . if you know your husband well you should be able to look him in the eye and know when he is lying to you. i really hope its not true . it is very pain full and hurtful when a spouse cheats . good luck to you.

Answer 7

Your sister in law and I sure as hell would ask her.

Answer 8

Do you think he would admit to it? Do you think the accusing party would lie about it?