i had sex for the first time and it hurt...will it hurt next time i do it aswell?
2007-04-28 10:08:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it might hurt a little, but not as bad next time. your hymen (the membrane across the inside of your vagina which is intact in virgins) had to be ripped open, which is why it hurt.
future advice: make sure you use protection every time. people may try to tell you it feels better without a condom, but you will feel a lot better without being pregnant or having a disease. and the condom usually has lubricant on it which can help make things go more smoothly.
2007-04-28 10:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by girlnextdoor21xoxo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it always hurts the first time for females..it will hurt a few more times until you get use to it. You have to remember that the area needs to be stretches to make room for ..well..you know...and so it will take time to get all body parts settled to accept your man.
2007-04-28 10:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your body. Im not sure of your age but I just don't want you to lose the fact that sex is a special thing. It seems like you're looking forward to have alot of pleasureable sex. Your virginity is something that you only have once(though some believe in rebirthing themselves)so make sure that the one you share that special moment with is someone with meaning and purpose in your life, not just someone to say that he was your first!!!!
2007-04-28 10:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are your hymen broke. Was there blood? Did you use enough lubrication/
I would wait a little bit before you have sex next time, but chances are it won't hurt as much. Just make sure that you don't have dry sex--that hurts ANYONE.
2007-04-28 10:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex this unaware of the facts, you need to get yourself a book, or talk to someone in the profession. Sex is a wonderful act of love, not an act to take lightly, so do the homework and realize you are the one responsible to educate yourself.
2007-04-28 10:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by ginny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are gonna have sex expect pain - emotional pain, practice safe sex - the guy ain't gonna, and sex no matter how safe practiced can get you preggers and/or vd.
Sex should not be used to overcome insecurity.
not feeling pretty or wanted.
Sex should not be used to get attention.
not feeling wanted or seen.
Sex should not be used to manipulate another.
You will be beautiful enough in time and the one you are to be with will be brought to you - so refrain.
2007-04-28 10:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by cordsoforion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...but not as bad as the first time. the more you do it and get used to the feeling of something being inside of you it will begin to feel much better
2007-04-28 10:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by gR3g$ cH!cK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i hear it always hurts the first few times for girls. whether it keeps hurting will depend on the 'size'(if you know what i mean) and he does it.
2007-04-28 10:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow
2007-04-28 10:10:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'll hurt a few times at first. relax and enjoy the moment and you'll find it gets better!!!!!!
2007-04-28 10:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋