I have a group of mothers that I talk to every day at my daughter's elementary school,and there are these two people whom I thought I was really good friends with. Friend A is only at the school two days a week because those are her only two days off. Friend A is always friendly and says hello to me. Friend L treats me like she has to tolerate me because I am there and she acts jealous whenever friend A and I talk.
Friend L will Wait for friend A to walk down to the school,because I am usually the first to arrive. Anyway,a few days ago my supposed friend L saw me standing there waiting for her because I saw her coming and I was going to cross the street with her. Well,she was with her sister-in-law,completely ignored me,and she acted like I wasn't even there! You talk about angry,I was FURIOUS over this!!
I am wondering if Friend L is jealous of me because I talk to Friend A,and she can't stand that A and I talk? Do I have every right to be upset over this? Why is she so mean?
2007-04-28 16:51:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes you have a right to be upset....you are entitled to speak with whoever you want to without worrying what Friend L has to say....the fact that Friend L makes you feel like she just tolerates you and will only speak to you when Friend A is not around, shows you what type of friend she really is....not much of one!!! let her do her thing and you keep doing yours....keep building your friendship with Friend A
2007-04-28 16:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by only god can judge me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just hurt, I would be too! Is it possible at all that she didn't hear you? Was she in the middle of some private conversation...maybe she just had bad news...can't always be sure of the circumtances...but there is no excuse for common decency!!!! Don't give her the power over you, act like it doesn't matter. Surround yourself with whitelight everyday - and ask friend A over for a cuppa and the kids to play together after school as soon as L is not around! Or on a weekend. Isn't it strange how people get jealous? Maybe she wants to be more like you!!! Posessive relationships sooo unhealthy! I had a friend that was cold with me to start - ended up feeling same way - used to ignore me - so I opted for niceness and threw it out there! Made an effort to ask her opinion or questions...ended up being at the birth of her kids! On the other hand you could rise above and ask the three of them over for a champagne?!!! Either way don't feed the negative energy through your worry - isn't worth it. And if none of the above work ( the white light and prayer will) then so be it, you have tried. Goodluck xxx
2007-04-28 17:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG sweetheart it doesn't matter ya grown a** women handel ya buisness and take care of whome life forget her. Obviously she got her own issues if she mad a grown woman for talk to another grown woman so don't support her ego by being angry. Remember this "Keep your friends close but your enemies closer" and you can see that isn't a real friend so keep her close in case she tries to pull a fast one of some sort. So still say hi when you see her still talk to friend A because you being nice is eating a way at her and just ticing her off....O well thats what she deserves.
2007-04-28 16:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by lovely_ms_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously not worth the trouble to be so angry over. Write her off and move on. She must be very insecure to ignore you when she's with someone else. Either that or confront her and ask her why she walked right by. It may be a simple misunderstanding. She may have thought YOU were ignoring her because you didn't acknowledge her first. *shrug*
2007-04-28 16:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by MissWong 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should believe him till you've a reason now to not. You went to an adventure it extremely is designed to fulfill new human beings, he met someone. then you truly all went to a bar at the same time. no longer something listen means that he is going to do something with this female. till he has cheated on you interior the previous, or perhaps is he had cheated on previous girlfriends, you should provide him the benifit of the doubt. you would possibly want to not have a difficulty with him making new acquaintances, regardless of in the adventure that they are woman. That said, if he does get including her and tried to cover it, i might want to unload him in a heartbeat. yet till he does something incorrect, you're in simple terms being paranoid and needlessly jealous.
2016-11-23 13:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by tietje 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Have you spoken to friend L, and simply asked her "What's up? Have I done something to offend you?" This way, she might give you some insight into what the problem is. Maybe you are correct in your assessment; then again the only way to know is to ask. Go for it, and best of luck.
2007-04-28 16:57:10 · answer #6 · answered by Artemisia G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is her problem don't make it yours,she is who she is don't
stoop to her level because if you do then she will have something to talk about to others.She would just love that.Be yourself and don't let her or any of the others bring you down.It isn't worth it.Like you said they are jealous of you,so your doing something right.
2007-04-28 17:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her the benefit of doubt====it could very well be that she did not see you even though it might have appeared that she was looking in your direction
2007-04-28 17:12:09 · answer #8 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because people are intolorent when they are not first priority in your life but anything flys for them
2007-04-28 16:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by resigned 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask if you have offended her in anyway.
2007-04-28 16:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by mamanana9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋