I really messed up, bad.. what should I do??
ok..long story short, the girl that I'm talkin to hadnt replied to ne of my emails.even though the day before, she said everything was cool , and i was really sweet, and still on my first chance...but i saw that she had read the messages, but hadnt replied...well i was already having a horrible day, so i emalied her and basically told her to quit stringing me along...but....then i remembered how busy she is, and that she might have something big going on this weekend, but idk for sure, ...so neways..i cooled off, and sent this apology, is my grave already to deep?? i mean, am i screwed, or is this apology good?
Hey
I know this isn't right, but its not what you think it is. I would sincerely like to appologize, and honestly mean it. One, I sent you that very immature message about you not replying, and it was tottally irrational, and immature. I was having a very bad day, and my brother did something to set me off, and I basically just typed all the thoughts in my head into that dang message. None of it was true at all, not a word, they were just ideas floating in my head, and my brother turned a bad day into a worse one, and thats how that message happend. None of it is true. I know you are very busy,and I know i have not given you enough space, especially in the past day, so I am honestly appologizing. I honestly dont know what happend, cuz I know better than to act like I did. so, I do think now I need to ask for a 2nd chance. and if you dont reply to this, I tottally understand, I probably wouldnt either. but yea, on a lighter note, I still hope you think I'm sweet. You are too :).
wb if you want.
2007-04-28 16:30:11 · 8 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but i sent it to her myspace mail, cuz I dont have her regular email yet. So if your familiar with myspace, it you have several unread messages, it can be easy to skip it. so what if she misses this, should i sent it again in a week?? idk im in a bind and I'm freakin out, I know I need to wait, and give her space, but is that all?
2007-04-28 16:32:25 · update #1
Listen the first thing you need to do is reach down your pants and check to see if you still have a pair. It sounds to me like you have lost all of your manhood in this situation. It sounds like you legitimately enjoy this girl, and thats great. The thing is.. it sounds like she doesnt enjoy you as much. If she really wanted to talk to you she would have. You are important and should be treated as such, be confident in yourself, dont apologize for her mistakes and if she doesnt respond to you, shes not worth your time anyway.
2007-04-28 16:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by bigj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a sincere enough apology to me she should understand if you were having a bad day just give her some time to reply if you haven't heard anything in a week give it one more try if shes a busy person like you have stated she might not have gotten the time to read your message yet give it a little time
2007-04-28 16:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, you really should be freaking out! Women do not like men who are needy, and that's exactly what your are showing her if you lose your cool just because she doesn't respond to your e-mail. Plus, you are only in the beginning stages, which makes it that much worse. I honestly don't think there is anything you can do to salvage the situation, so I hope you learn from your mistake and do better with the next one.
2007-04-28 17:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by totalpackage97 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aye, sounds familiar where I'm concerned.
I'm sure she'll forgive you, and that it's not that she's stringing you along. Some people are honestly very busy people. Once she has the time, she'll respond to your message. If you really like her, it's worth the wait, right?
2007-04-28 16:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude get a grip man. Everything will work out maybe not with this girl. Maybe, something better will come along I know that doesn't seem possible right now but, if you right her back begging for her to take you back and write to you again it will seem sad. You apologized now it is up to her to accept or deny it.
2007-04-28 16:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has ne good in her, she'll c how much you mean it and she'll try to make it cool between u two.
2007-04-28 16:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it
2007-04-28 16:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good
2007-04-28 16:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋