Family & Relationships - 17 April 2007

2007-04-17 10:34:53 · 20 answers · asked by Luigi 1 in Family

My husband and I decided to move my 4 year old step-daughter in with us she has been living with us since January '07. We moved her in because her mother refused to put her in school and her mother has a total of 6 kids living in a two bedroom apartment ( with her "fiance"). Her mother is also a professional public aid recepient and has not worked the entire time I've known her. My husband still has child support payments being deducted from his paycheck. I realize he will stay have to pay back child support but how do we stop this. PLEASE HELP

2007-04-17 10:34:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm doing a paper on how child development is marred by their conflicting parents. i found studies on how it affects infants and small children but not much on adolescents. I wanted to put how it affects children at different age groups but not many studies have been conducted on adolescents. Does anyone know how adolescents are affected, like how it affects them and what they do when their parents are constantly fighting around them? Even if it's just an idea, one that makes sense, it would be appreciated. thx:)

2007-04-17 10:33:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this guy in one of my classes who i've joked around with some and stuff and he's a great guy.
But he has been flirting with me lately and going out of his way to talk to me and he tells me that i'm pretty and stuff
but i don't see him like that at all.
he is a very emotional lets look for the deeper meaning to life person, and i'm not
plus i have my eye on another guy who i'm hanging out with this weekend

i have to make sure that we can still be friends (i know for a fact that i'm going to have a class with him next year)
and i know that no matter what this guy is the type that will just grin and bear it and still be nice to me
so i really want to make sure that he gets the message
without me having to be mean about it.

any suggestions?

2007-04-17 10:31:37 · 20 answers · asked by Nicole 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-17 10:27:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband cheated on me i am willing to try and work things out we have 3 kids but he says he needs time to deal with what he has done and cant look me in the face what should i do or how much should i let him take

2007-04-17 10:22:53 · 26 answers · asked by er5199 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy he is sweet and funny he likes me but i cant go out with him because my best friend likes him. I'm not sure if i like him, i havent really thought about it because of my best friend i cant do that 2 her.

2007-04-17 10:22:12 · 12 answers · asked by cece 2 in Singles & Dating

If your girl is starting to waiver in your relationship what is the right thing for me to do? Girls say talk to her and see where you stand and guys say just ignore her and play hard to get. Which is right? To me it seems like talking about things to death can kill it while being illusive can increase attraction but NO-one seems to agree....thoughts?

2007-04-17 10:20:46 · 13 answers · asked by fedup 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my mother are having major issues.. She doesnt try at all to come see her grandbaby, she always has excuses (im tired, i work, i dont feel like it) My daughter is 6 months old and my mom has been here 2 times to see her since she was born. She always tells me why dont you come out here. But i work 5-1 come home, and spouse goes to work and i have brooky all night. its hard on me to run run run.. she tells me im the one at fault, the one being immature. how is this???? She just seems not to care about anyone but herself? what can i do??

2007-04-17 10:20:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The thing I go to school and work from 8-5pm my daughter's father picks our daughter up at 1:00pm from catholic school and takes her to my place I give him the key because he lives 20 miles out of town. He likes to stay with our daughter at my place since its her home. He then locks my door meets me and hands me my keys and goes to work at 5pm in the same town, does this sound weird do you think he is taking advantage of my home? We are really good friends and can talk civil I don't like him he has cheated numerous of times in the past so there is no relationship between us nomore.

2007-04-17 10:17:44 · 15 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Family

2007-04-17 10:16:46 · 6 answers · asked by Luigi 1 in Family

2007-04-17 10:16:17 · 44 answers · asked by sporty spotlight 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-17 10:15:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We get along great sober, but everytime we get drunk we fight. The fighting gets worse everytime and we even hit each other. We are currently trying to get over a fight from last weekend, should we even try.

2007-04-17 10:13:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But i dont like it and what should i do

2007-04-17 10:11:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-17 10:10:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

kids everything was fine and seems fine except he is acting different. I have asked him whats wrong he says nothing. ( he usually talks to me when something is bothering him). He seems to be very distant off in lala land. Plus he is moody lately. Finally after a few weeks of this he told me he was stressed about money. My job only pays for my car so he has to pay for everything else. Before he told me he wanted me to focus on school and if my job payed my payment it would be enough. Well i guess now its not ok, we had a huge fight (which we have never raised our voices and we have had plenty of disagreements) and he thinks i should get a second job. I dont think thats fair to me. he also tells me he is affraid i will change my mind about what i want when i get older (Im 20) and that i will want to be single and party. Ive already done that got tired of it then found him. How do i reassure him im not going to leave? And could these be reasons hes acting weird i would like a guys voice

2007-04-17 10:08:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can those who cheat truly be excused for cheating?

Is it possible to forgive the cheater and move on?

Even when you know the cheater may cheat again.

2007-04-17 09:54:47 · 20 answers · asked by Dead 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Dated a woman for 14 mos.-Were friends for yrs-Older brother s3xually abused her during childhood. She’s 45 & lives at home (where the abuse took place) with her mom-in same room she had when she was 9. She’s attractive, had abusive relationships, but no friends. She has plenty of $ and could easily move out. As we dated, she would get weird—accusing me of saying things that are s3xually inappropriate. I never tried to do this, & we NEVER HAD S3X. I actually liked her. I was always sensitive about the abuse, but she has called me names, hit me & been emotionally abusive. After 14 mos., I decided to bring this up. When I tried, she lost it & accused me of s3xually inappropriate behavior 0VER 1 YR AGO. She even accused me of being s3xually inappropriate around her niece-24 & dating a meth addict. Only been around niece 2X. Anyway, she stopped talking in Jan.-crossed paths with her 2X since. She was uncomfortable-acting like she would like to talk, but I’m nervous. Hey, I tried.

2007-04-17 09:52:24 · 14 answers · asked by dantiuspalaptine 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to know what is it like to be a dad? Do you love your children the same even if you are remarried?My husband has this idea that once I'm used he can run to somebody else when she's the used tampon...

2007-04-17 09:51:03 · 2 answers · asked by Apples69 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It has been 5 days now, and he has tried everything but I am not budging.

2007-04-17 09:47:05 · 10 answers · asked by Kendra J 3 in Singles & Dating

Yummy creamy chocolates or men?lol

2007-04-17 09:44:45 · 8 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

I am a virgin myself...and I have always wondered what men really think on this issue. I have heard that men like to have women who are "experienced" so they know what they're doing. Is that really true? Do men prefer women who are more sexually advanced, to those who wait until they're married?
And i'm asking this in context to people who are interested in SERIOUS relationships. (I already have an idea of what people who are just "playing around" are going to say...)

2007-04-17 09:36:13 · 8 answers · asked by Belle 3 in Singles & Dating

I lost my dad back in 2003. Since that day I have been wondering who I should have walk me down the aisle, and now that it ha come up I am in a dilema. I have 3 people in mind. My mom, my dad's mom and my best friend (who is a male and was there for me when I lost my father). I am leaning more towards my best friend, but The other 2 are actually family....I am so confused...

2007-04-17 09:27:36 · 8 answers · asked by Chrissy 3 in Weddings

There is this guy, i met him once through a friend and we got on really well. We swopped mobile numbers and emails and have been talking a lot on instant messenger... he seemed really sweet and lovely and i thought we were good friends! Now more recently he told me that talking to me turns him on and i make him really horny! I dont no how to react cos i was only looking to be his friend!! Its going to really awkward next time we bump into each other...

2007-04-17 09:27:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok..so heres the deal..i wanna no wat kinda girl guys are lukin fer when they wanna go fer a committed relationship( what characteristics)..coz i don get the principle of guys choosing girls they wanna respect while showing disrespect to others..they tend to a be total sweetheart to their girl..n asses to others n talk nonsense bt every other girl behind her back except that one girl...y do they do this...how do they choose what girl will they disrespect and make fun of while what girl they will respect n love!!..please answer!!...all kinda opinions will be appreciated..

2007-04-17 09:26:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-17 09:23:57 · 25 answers · asked by anne_9268 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a full time worker, so is my fiancee, shes almost done with school, and I have NO time to go to school, between keeping the house up, driving son to school and back, I just cant find time to make any money! We want to live comfortably. But its tough. Any ideas?... NOT LOOKING FOR GET RICH QUICK sites, just good carrer ideas, inspirations...self stories, I know youguys can help!

2007-04-17 09:23:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm really scared to admit it to my mother because she is so in love with my dad. My dad is always really annoyed of my mom, for the stupidest things. Then I found a few emails (when he was using my laptop) from a couple of women...and they were unrepeatable. My sister claims that the emails are probably spam, but I am not so sure. I never really trusted my dad because he is always away over the weekend while my mom is at work, and he makes me promise not to tell her. What should I do?

2007-04-17 09:22:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have sought a /teen/teen mom 16-26,am single never married,and felt a younger would be more apt to want children,or already have children,as i yearn for fatherhood,i have come to know s closer my age are either beyond the wanton for childrenor can no longer concieve,what does everyone else feel bout this?

2007-04-17 09:22:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships