2007-04-17 10:27:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if it makes you that uncomfortable ask him this question and tell him how it makes you feel
2007-04-17 10:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend you let him do what he wants and spend more time talking to your guy friends. That's the only thing which will snap him around, guys can get pretty jealous and will often straighten up if you know how to play the game.
His talking to girls doesn't necessarilly reflect that he has intentions of cheating on you. But if you can influence him to back off a bit, even if just out of respect for you. That would be best.
If you really like this guy, don't bark at him or try to force his hand. Let him feel it is his idea to back off.
As with any situation like this, the more slack you give combined with doing other things with other people, he'll wake up, I assure you.
Other scenario, concerning him just being a player, a cheater, etc; If you can't get over the feeling that this could be him, you guys already have problems whether he is or not. Plus, he is creating stress for you and him, angst for you, and opening up the possibility to mess up the more he talks with other girls.
It's really a tricky question. I hope the advice you get will help.
Good Luck
2007-04-17 10:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by blphnx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as for the female friend thing, you should get over that. Just because it has a vagina doesnt make it an enemy. The ex thing however is a touchy subject. Depending on his maturity level and past occurences, this could be a very dangerous situation.
If he loves you he wont cheat on you, instead of freaking out, put your trust in him. If he blows it, get rid of him. But don't put him on trail before he does something.
2007-04-17 10:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by John S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you discussed this with him before? Has it always been a problem with you or is it something that has recently started bothering you. Many men are friends with females, as is my husband, but that is all they are friends. I am very good friends with my ex-boyfriends, too. This is something we knew about each other early in the relationship, though. I think it is something you should have already addressed with each other. If he has always had contact with these women I don't see it as a problem. If this is all new and he has started calling women all of a sudden, maybe you have something to worry about.
2007-04-17 10:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by lysistrata411 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that doesn't mean anything. I have a boyfriiend and I really truly love him but I talk to other dudes and my ex. Half the time we talk about him and the other half we just talk about things that happend. If he truly loves you he is probably just talkin about you and he wouldnt do anythning to hurt you. He can also get advive from them. So dont worry about it. And if it keeps on bothering you tell him how you feel. If he loves you like he says he does he will understand and quit it.
2007-04-17 10:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by Dat Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys have girl friends. I have guy friends but it certainly doesn't mean anything would happen with them. It's a matter of trust. I would be slightly more concerned about exes than girl friends. Talk about it until you feel secure in your relationship.
2007-04-17 10:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by tatertotlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its maybe he is not completely gay. Some people have attraction in both male and female. Their sexual orientation is besexual. Though they are few in number. I think you should discuss the matter with your boyfriend. But man and woman can also be just friends.
2007-04-17 10:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by Reza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have "boys" and exes talk to them . Sometimes men really do love the one that they are with. They just like to test the water. Drown him. If he doesn't care then the relationship is one sided and walk away.
2007-04-17 10:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by LOLO W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the type of behavior that makes me want to call him a douche bag. I can't explain his behavior and nor can anyone else. Confront him about it and ask him if he still has feelings for them. Then find out where his heart truely belongs. If its not you, leave him.
2007-04-17 10:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he won't stop taking to them because they are his friends. After all most women think men and women can be just friends, so there is nothing wrong with this.
2007-04-17 10:30:54 · answer #10 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him to stop talking to them? If not maybe you should. If he knows how you feel about this, if he loves you, I'm sure he'll stop. If not, maybe you two are better off just being friends.
2007-04-17 10:32:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋