I am a virgin myself...and I have always wondered what men really think on this issue. I have heard that men like to have women who are "experienced" so they know what they're doing. Is that really true? Do men prefer women who are more sexually advanced, to those who wait until they're married?
And i'm asking this in context to people who are interested in SERIOUS relationships. (I already have an idea of what people who are just "playing around" are going to say...)
2007-04-17 09:36:13 · 8 answers · asked by Belle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm, to SOME of you...I did not use this question as an attack on anyone, so I do not expect to be attacked by you. AND, whether YOU accept me as dateable is not an issue. I don't even know you, and honestly I don't care...so calm down.
2007-04-17 09:50:54 · update #1
Yes & no. It is nice to know that you are a virgin, and I respect that; you are waiting until marriage.
Honestly, for me; it doesn't matter if you are a virgin or have experience in the bedroom, to teach a virgin about sex of what I like and don't like & vise versea and you will know each other personaliy, but it also takes time to be a great lover, but if she is experience, she'll know what she likes and how to get it and more willing to try new ideas and still being able to know each other personaliy
But sex is only one part of a relationship/marriage
To have a person:
who wants to know you
who wants to be with you
who wants to care for you and be cared for
the list can go on, but relationships are test and trials before making a desion on Marriage, and love is for who you are and it has nothing to do with prematerial sex partners nor virginity, though it can be a good surprize ethier way.
So, for me, it doesn't matter, I will love that person for who that person really is.
Well hope this helps.
2007-04-17 10:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many different types of men in the world. Some men will tell you to kick rocks if you don't put out. Other men (while not the majority) will love you and appreciate you for who you are and all you have to offer. Don't base what you do with your body on anyone else. It does not matter what they think. It matters how you live your life, Because think about it you have to wake up and look at yourself in the mirror every morning. And there are enough girls out there that will give it up to any tom dick and Tyrone. also Just be careful, I know from experience when you tell guys your a Virgin they may pretend to really be into you and take advantage of you just to get in your pants.
2007-04-17 09:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by angieward_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i think it is actually sexier to be a virgin up to the marriage. That is one thing that attracted me to my girlfriend now wife. I can see the argument on the other side, but for me personally, I was going into the marriage a virgin and so was my wife. What better way to learn than with the person you truly love and will be with for the rest of your natural lives. What a great way to learn even more about your mate. It's especially great when both people have this in common. You are wise to wait. It will make it all the more special for you both.
2007-04-17 09:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by bookworm019 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't marry such a girl. Not even date.
As far as I'm concerned, you can't truly appreciate the good if you haven't experienced the bad. I want a girl who knows what's what. And, I need to know how the sex is before marriage. What if it turned out to suck, that'd be horrible.
And if you want a non sexual relationship, well that's fine and dandy. You'd be a friend, not marriage material.
2007-04-17 09:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would never marry a woman that I had not slept with, otherwise how would I know if our sex drives are compatible? The last thing I want is to spend the rest of my life without someone that can satisfy my needs or that I do the same with her.
If you want to be a virgin, more power to you. However I wouldn't date you as you are a waste of time. I don't want to go without sex for a couple of years before getting married just to make you happy. Just as there is nothing wrong with what you want, there is nothing wrong with a guy wanting sex. Even if that means that he need to take a pass on you.
2007-04-17 09:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
this would possibly not be a society wherein a lot of human beings prize virginity. it is not like it could get you a job or something and we don't stay interior the situations the place women human beings are stoned for having lost it in the previous their wedding ceremony-night. in spite of the shown fact that some human beings in different societies do stay in one in all those time. some women human beings and adult males might prize virginity, yet they're easily few comparing to something of the inhabitants.
2016-12-29 05:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men would totally respect that..if she is loved then that person wouldnt for her to have sex or even ask her to if they know her rules about sex before marriage!!
2007-04-17 09:41:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are always looking for virgins..and if their your first ..that gives them something to party about..so becareful!!!!
2007-04-17 09:40:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋