2007-04-17 10:10:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe he is worried about money or the fact you have lack of things to talk about. Im sure he loves you and that his reasons are he just wants the best. Sit down and talk find out where he is coming from. If there is no problem just explain to him that you are happy
2007-04-17 11:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by mudfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking this question my suggestion is you and your H really need to sit down and have a talk about goals and stuff. If your choice is to be a domestic engineer and he wants you to work outside the home, then you have a problem. Of course there are jobs that you can perform without leaving your own home but mostly they don't bring in a lot of money. Also, when a mother and father are both working, usually someone has to be paid to sit with the kid(s). And sitters are frequently more expensive than whatever mom may make...unless mom has special skills. So talk about what your goals are and how you both want to reach them.
2007-04-17 17:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no single correct answer for that. You may want to ask HIM that question directly. I feel I'm quite qualified to answer this question because my wife was a housewife for 7 years.
I wanted her to get a job outside the house for several reasons: A) We discussed it and I told her the additional income would be necessary to pay for the kind of house we wanted to live in. B) I thought it would benefit us both if she would make friends with people. C) I thought that being in the workforce for a while would remind her how to work more efficiently. D) I figured having to go to work would make her drink less.
These are memories that immediately come to mind of the thoughts I had at the time.
'Hope it helps.
2007-04-17 17:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly he wants you to have a life outside the home or increase your earning potential. Did you discuss these roles before you got married? Women in this era, for the most part, have many goals that go beyond having children, cooking, cleaning, and leisure activities. I know I could NEVER be a stay at home mom. Ask him if you are fulfilling your end of the bargain and see if maybe he is feeling resentful.
2007-04-17 17:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need the money.if you have gotten to stay home at all your one of the lucky few.millions of ppl handle a job and being a wife and your kids dont suffer or not develop properly just cause your not one caring for them all the time.actually they are usually more independent cause they learn mommy not always gonna be there at every tiny whhimper.by the way im a mom,have grown children and grand children,worked for yrs until recently.besides your husband may want you to have a life besides the house and kids
2007-04-17 17:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by mamanana9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my wife was my girlfriend, she worked. When deciding to have kids, the deal was that she would give up work to be a housewife and mother (two jobs in their own rights). She would only go back to work when the kids were at school full-time, she would then only have a job during schooling hours. Although she does not get paid much, every little helps. It was also her decision to go back to work, as she was bored at home.
2007-04-17 17:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by sledge250672 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, The more right is given to women the more diffiuclt it becomes for a women to stay at home. It is really hard for one person to pay all the daily cost, rent, bills, blah, blah blah. .
Another reason could be, that while she is working and you are not, your minds are in different frames.
2007-04-17 17:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ramesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the ideal world men work and bring home the money. women stay at home to care for the children.in the real world men bring home some money, women work, clean the house do the shopping etc and the children get dumped any where safe. mum should be with the children. not out working.
2007-04-17 17:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by kati 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am a housewife and mother,and I work a damn sight harder than my husband.
If he had to pay someone to do all the jobs I do,it would probably cost more than I could earn.Point this fact out to yours that you don't just sit on your butt all day.
2007-04-17 17:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by lynn j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you choose to be a housewife, i think your husband should respect this choice as it is the one that makes you happy.
Well, it's not about men it's about him and sit to talk about this to him, he is the one who's got the right answer.
Cheers
2007-04-18 04:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by eddylanappe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋