The thing I go to school and work from 8-5pm my daughter's father picks our daughter up at 1:00pm from catholic school and takes her to my place I give him the key because he lives 20 miles out of town. He likes to stay with our daughter at my place since its her home. He then locks my door meets me and hands me my keys and goes to work at 5pm in the same town, does this sound weird do you think he is taking advantage of my home? We are really good friends and can talk civil I don't like him he has cheated numerous of times in the past so there is no relationship between us nomore.
2007-04-17 10:17:44 · 15 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You can both talk civil, despite the hurt, he locks your home up afterwards, and is saving your daughter a long trip back and forth each day to his place.
Your daughter is seeing both parents regular, in a familiar environment, and you have the benefit of knowing she is safe, with her dad while you work.
All seems perfectly fine and a very good way for you to both maintain your daughters feeling of security and being loved by you both.
2007-04-17 10:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Teacher, and my first reaction was that this seems to be a good idea. It shows that you guys are great parents who put your daughter first..My only concern is that he doesnt make copies of your keys one day--do you think he could do that? Other than that, its good that you are putting your daughter first--thats excellent.
Its good that she's able to be home and not outisde shuffling back & forth--and you dont have to worry about your daughter being around strange women that he might be messing around with--since you know he's a player and he probably has different women in his life. (if he cheated on you, the he cheats on ALL the women he deals with).
Put it this way--he's like having a babysitter at your home waiting for you. As long as he doesnt make copies of your keys--its sounds good. Ask the locksmith to make your keys "un-copiable" if that possible.
2007-04-17 11:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what the question is. Your relationship with your ex H is whatever you decide to make it. Remember, both of you are parents of your daughter and will continue to be parents as long as you all are alive. Don't do anything that will harm the relationship between father and daughter. Is he doing his best to keep a good relationship with his daughter? If so, then support him. And, ask for his support for your relationship with your daughter. Anything else really isn't important.
2007-04-17 10:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think of this is that weird and wonderful, I actual have the same relationship with my mom, different than she does not watch porn and that i'm no longer on the pill!! I actual have an open relationship with my mom, i check together with her approximately my intercourse existence, drug existence and existence existence. i think of this is wholesome. saying that i substitute into extremely shocked that my Ex female buddy nonetheless held her dads hand while they went for a walk, at like 22, yet then she substitute into from Norfolk. i think of this is reliable to have that open form of relationship, retains each little thing above board, i think of as quickly as there are dark aspects, issues get complicated.
2016-11-25 01:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your daughter? Is she old enough to stay home alone for the 3 hours until you get there? I would never let my ex have access to my home without me being there..If its time with her is uses this as an excuse for I would ask him to take her to the ice cream shop or somewhere were they can still talk and visit.
2007-04-17 10:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're making the best of a bad situation. Its good for your daughter. If he's making a mess, politely ask him to clean it up, but otherwise things sound pretty normal for the year 2007.
2007-04-17 10:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Nels N 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a pretty good set up, but if it bothers you, ask him if he wants to move closer in town, thats where his daughter and job is so why not.
2007-04-17 10:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by Chaun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you made a mature choice one that is healthy for your daughter. congrats most broken relationships end up so bitter the poor kids don't stand a chance.
i like the show reba and the new adventures of old christine. they have done good with their parenting too.
2007-04-17 10:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't understand how he is using your house, if he is picking up your daughter and bringing her home and staying with her until you get there.
2007-04-17 10:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably lonely and likes seeing you. i know someone else who was in a similar situation and the guy was just doing it to see his daughter's mother. he was waiting for his chance to try to get her back.
2007-04-17 10:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋