Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

Okay, my ex and I are in love but we had to break up because my mom didn't want us to be together because she doesn't like him. That's the ONLY reason why we broke up. We want to get back together, but we're not sure how my mom will take the news. We plan on moving in together when I turn 18 in a year and a half. He's already 18. What do you think I should do? Get back with him or get over him?

Thank You,
Brystle

2007-03-28 07:28:25 · 25 answers · asked by Brystle 1 in Singles & Dating

should i buy panties at the store for my friend and what should i tell the cashier to know that im giving it to my friend

2007-03-28 07:28:24 · 15 answers · asked by kawer34 1 in Friends

I KNOW I LOVE MY BF BUT I HAVE A GREAT DEAL FEELINGS FOR MY NOW EX-HUSBAND, THEY ARE BOTH TWO VERY DIFFERENT INDIVIDUALS BUT WITH GREAT QUALITIES .....I LOVE MY BF BUT I MISS MY EX SO MUCH!!!...

2007-03-28 07:27:41 · 19 answers · asked by nica mami74 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 07:27:39 · 11 answers · asked by noel z 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a stay at home mom to three kids ages 8, 2 and 6 months. My husband works shift work. On three days and off four, for 12 hours. I do all of the laundry, cleaning, pet care, meals and the majority of the kids care. I am exhausted. My 6 month old still wakes up at least 2x's per night and I haven't slept forever. I need help. My husband does not get up at night to help with the kids even one his off days. He keep telling me that things will get better when they are older and I can get some sleep, but I don't get why he can't just help me. I am starting to hate and resent him. I love my husband, but I am so tired. I will do what I have to for the kids, but once they are grown will I still have it in me to love him or will it have faded?

2007-03-28 07:27:25 · 35 answers · asked by Mom23 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I already know I am crazy for this man. He is always on my mind, I just don't know if I am always on his. Short of asking him, what do you suggest I do to find out?

2007-03-28 07:27:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 07:26:51 · 5 answers · asked by indngirl31 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had an altercation with my husbands family back in February over something that happened at my son's birthday party. We discussed it and I thought we had moved on. We ended up going to visit his family early this month and we all hung out, went to the beach, and had a great time.

About a week ago, his cousin emails me and sends me a salty message and also deleted me from being her friend on 'myspace'. I could care less about her deleting me because myspace is like whatever. But my question is, how do I handle being around his cousin or family the next time he decides he wants to go visit? Should I not go? Or should I just ignore her?
please help....

2007-03-28 07:26:48 · 12 answers · asked by Jacinda 2 in Family

all of my friends turn to me for advice and i am really flattered that they like me but it is getting to much. i enjoy giving them advice as they say it works. But i just want to tell them that i need a break. How can i tell them so they dont get i a mood with me?

2007-03-28 07:26:16 · 6 answers · asked by hayley s 2 in Friends

i'mthat i have been in love with for about 9 months - he left me after we had a short relationship- (but i was the happiest time of me life - i literally fell in love with him the second i met him) and it has been kinda on and off for about 2 months (just friends with benefits) but i am still madly in love with him (the ridiculous kind of love) and now i'm 3 months pregnant with his baby - he didnt believe me and didnt want to talk to me about it for awhile cause he thought that i was doing it to keep him around and trap him - but now he does (and he has treated me like crap for about 3 months even though i still am here for him (what can i say i'm in love) )and he doesnt want it - i'm getting rid of it sadily - but now he is saying that he wants us to start over and wants me to be the woman he wants (which i will do) i just think he is saying all these nice things so that i will feel better about the abortion. what do you all think? i am 21

2007-03-28 07:25:43 · 23 answers · asked by Aldabella 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i'm in high skol
and i fnc this guy hu is like in all my class's i really fnc him i dont want to ask him out coz i want him to
i need some help
and if there are any guys hu r 13-16 years old let me know
love
"lookin 4 love"

2007-03-28 07:25:08 · 9 answers · asked by zoe c the sexy 1 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 07:25:07 · 3 answers · asked by Sface 2 in Singles & Dating

I was strong and feel like I have coped well, but now summers coming and yesterday was the first HOT sunny day... It really brought back the feeling of her... so i visited her grave for the first time, realising i had been saving it for when i really needed.. it was nice to go there but today i've been getting seriously overwhelmed with emotion for everthing and just crying, i feel just sh!t and really depressed. i'm not really one to ask for help, and i don't really know what i'm asking for but i thought that by writing this maybe some of you out there will know what i need to hear or what to say to me???

2007-03-28 07:23:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When I was little my dad beat me up he would hit me all the time now I have flash backs of him hitting me and they come at werid times like this one time in class I had a flash back of my dad beating me with his belt and I started crying and ran out of the room I really need help because they are coming back to me more and more offen do I need pills or something or have I not forgave my dad for what he did anyone that can help please do

2007-03-28 07:22:48 · 14 answers · asked by So... Kiss Me! 3 in Family

2007-03-28 07:22:47 · 23 answers · asked by AMBER B 1 in Singles & Dating

How upset should I be?

My fiance lied and said he payed $190 in rent and he only paid $100 (bi-weekly rent) I found the reciept in his wallet. He said he did it so we had spending money for the weekend. I'm taking this very seriously because I never expected him to lie to me and now I'm shocked and very pissed and I'm even thinking of telling him I want to rethink marraige. The guy is really sweet and completly head over heels for me, I don't want to be too mean or harsh to him but I've never been good at sugar coating things when I'm upset, I'm very very blunt, but I don't want to hurt him, he's the sensitive type. Am I making too big of deal of this? Should I not tell him I want to rethink the marraige?

2007-03-28 07:22:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need to know

2007-03-28 07:21:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 07:21:37 · 26 answers · asked by milky_cali_one 2 in Marriage & Divorce

they always around and say stuff and start rumors! how to over come this ? and they think i am a single mother! why is that?

2007-03-28 07:21:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend's wife's name is on switchboard, and hers isn't. I don't want to call and find out that they are divorced or something. He isn't found anywhere in the phone bk.
So, how do I find him? I am not going to ask her.

2007-03-28 07:21:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a quiet-stay home girl.. dont drink, dont party, dont take drugs, dont smoke, dont have many friends, dont go out a lot.. just an innocent mommie's girl.

i've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months and he is the total opposite, drinks, parties, has so many friends, goes to clubs all the time..

i cant keep up with him?! when im out with him on a WEEKDAY.. he has a few ppl calling him to hit the bars and clubs already.. i always end the night early cos i get annoyed.. even tho its a lil thing..

maybe jealousy is hitting me, cos he's ex was very much popular and parties, clubs, drinks etc as much as he does.. is he the right one for me? i feel very much left out as my life revolves around uni, work and the rest of my free time- my bf..

i feel so alone =[ is he the right one for me?

trust issues?

2007-03-28 07:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am going to my friend's wedding in may and she and her fiancee are registered at places that i cannot afford. what should i get them for their wedding? i bought a really fancy picture frame that "symbolizes" their special day (has mini wedding bells and a little bouquet attached to it). it was about $30. is that okay? my friend knows that i am in school full-time (college) and work part-time and don't get paid to much.

2007-03-28 07:20:44 · 8 answers · asked by Laura 4 in Weddings

actually its my grandparents. i have lived with them my whole life and they are practically my parents. i am 18 years old, and i have been accepted to college, and i take care of myself, but my grandparents still treat me like a kid. i told my grandmother that i wanted to go to a show tomorow night at a club called blue cats here in tn and when they found out it was a club they freaked an said i shouldnt be there, that it was nota place for a "christian girl" to be. and that it is in a bad area of town and all this. i am supposed to go with a bunch of friends most of which are guys, and its not like it would be dangerous. i dont know what to do to change their mind, or convince them to let me go and grow up. what should i do? then they get mad when i do what i want. its not illegal, so why cant i do it?

2007-03-28 07:20:31 · 5 answers · asked by **ChArOlEnO** 2 in Family

were u in love with all of them? how many times have u really been in love?

2007-03-28 07:20:02 · 30 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I've liked this guy for some time now. We have flirted and I found out that he liked me. A Month ago, I told him through the phone to his sister that I didnt like him anymore(Hey I was very sick that my mind was confused!) After that, he kept looking at me like "Why did you say that! I liked YOU!"

Well I Told his little sister that I really didn't stop liking him. The next time I saw him, It looked like he had some ray of hope. The advice I really need is that what should I say to him that would make him sure that I really do like him and to get him to forgive me and ask me out?

One thing. In my culture, girls can tell guys things but cannot ask them out, let alone ask them to marry them(I'm not ready for that yet....Maybe...)

Thanks for all your help!!!

2007-03-28 07:19:48 · 5 answers · asked by Tammy 2 in Singles & Dating

I think it is important to have boundaries, principle, ethics without them we become less of human being. Does anyone else agree with me that living by some rules in life is important?

2007-03-28 07:19:06 · 15 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Singles & Dating

im a white 18 year old male and my girl friend is a half white half korean 22 year old and her fantasy is to sleep with a black guy. what should i do about this how should i react?

2007-03-28 07:18:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I know tells me that he was in past relationships where the women pretended to be something they weren't. He's naturally hesitant because of those experiences. Lately, he's backed off. It's been about 3 weeks since he and I have really talked. The "real me" would call him and try to meet with him just to get us on the same page. Because, well if he doesn't want to pursue anything then I would want to know up front. People tell me to wait it out. The waiting is kicking my butt. If he wants the real me, wouldn't it be better if I acted like I normally would - even if it was the wrong thing to do? What do you think?

2007-03-28 07:18:52 · 3 answers · asked by Gatekeeper 4 in Singles & Dating

Are you for or against it? Please explain.

2007-03-28 07:18:45 · 3 answers · asked by Truth Hurts 5 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl and every time i see her i have this felling but then i stop talking to her because she is very childish.
but for some reason i catch her looking at me and i get wet but iam not gay am i confuse

2007-03-28 07:18:31 · 5 answers · asked by sheila p 1 in Friends