im a quiet-stay home girl.. dont drink, dont party, dont take drugs, dont smoke, dont have many friends, dont go out a lot.. just an innocent mommie's girl.
i've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months and he is the total opposite, drinks, parties, has so many friends, goes to clubs all the time..
i cant keep up with him?! when im out with him on a WEEKDAY.. he has a few ppl calling him to hit the bars and clubs already.. i always end the night early cos i get annoyed.. even tho its a lil thing..
maybe jealousy is hitting me, cos he's ex was very much popular and parties, clubs, drinks etc as much as he does.. is he the right one for me? i feel very much left out as my life revolves around uni, work and the rest of my free time- my bf..
i feel so alone =[ is he the right one for me?
trust issues?
2007-03-28 07:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you know what they say, oppisites attrack, but maybe you should find someone less wild. he`ll probably end up pulling you into one of his schemes and getting you in trouble. so you might as well find someone better who will include you in their life more, and treat you right. also, you`ll be able to keep up with their lifestyle, unlike this bf you have now. good luck!!
2007-03-28 07:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Early on in relationships, people are often fascinated by people who have opposite traits. Some shy people look for more outgoing types to break them out of their shells, or an outgoing type may look for a reserved type to add stability to their lives. But as the relationship continues, the fact that two opposite personalities have very little in common becomes impossible to ignore. And people who are more similar usually have better long term relationships. So maybe you are know at the point of realizing how little you and your boyfriend have in common. Unless you are willing to become a partying socialite or he is willing to become more of a homebody, then this probably isn't the guy for you.
2007-03-28 07:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Me and my boyfriend are the comparable way. Hes form of introverted and anti social mutually as i'm outgoing and have lots of acquaintances. the only actual concern we've with that's that he would not truly comprehend the fee in my different friendships, yet our very almost opposite personalities supplement and finished one yet another okay.
2016-10-01 21:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
opposites do attract but in the long run that's why there called opposites because they oppose each other. If your already having issues with it what do you think its going to be like after your married. If he was the right guy for you, you would not want to change a thing about him.
2007-03-28 07:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel. im a little country girl, enjoys staying at home, has people call me once or twice a month. my boyfriend is in a rock band, loves going to parties, has people calling him 5 times a week. we are completely in love <3
the question is, does this just bother you? or do you feel like he doesnt love you? if this just bothers you, you have to get over it. i did. i go out with my boyfriend once in awhile. it might be trust issues if you had bad relationships in the past. because when my bf and i started dating, i was very jealous when he went out without me or even talk to another girl because i was scared he'd cheat...like my ex. now that i went out to the bars a with him a few times, and i know he loves me...i trust him. he is not my ex. you should go out with your bf!! i got annoyed a few times when i went out with my bf too. i used to always rush him to leave, and he got very annoyed... i just got over it....cuz like you said...its getting mad/jealous over something stupid.
maybe you could bring some of your friends with you while you go out with him and his buddies, then you have someone else to talk to besides him and his friends. cuz i know how guys can get... ha.
i hope i helped a little
2007-03-28 07:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's attracted to you for a reason. me and my boyfriend are similar. i'm the party girl and he's very serious... trying to become a cop! maybe you can be the one to tame his wild ways and he can be the one to help you have a good time. talk to him about it and tell him you want to find a good medium between going out and staying home.
2007-03-28 07:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by socal_rachel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is not the right one for you, move on and find someone new.
Just because you two have a history, doesn't mean it will work out if you keep at it.
There is a reason it's called dating.
2007-03-28 07:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LEt go it time. Dont change you for him. Find someone who enjoys alot of the things you do
2007-03-28 07:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
illl stay at home with ya
2007-03-28 07:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by CaptainObvious 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋