When I was little my dad beat me up he would hit me all the time now I have flash backs of him hitting me and they come at werid times like this one time in class I had a flash back of my dad beating me with his belt and I started crying and ran out of the room I really need help because they are coming back to me more and more offen do I need pills or something or have I not forgave my dad for what he did anyone that can help please do
2007-03-28 07:22:48 · 14 answers · asked by So... Kiss Me! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm sorry you're going through this. You absolutely need to get help from a therapist. It can do wonders in terms of helping you deal with these difficult memories (with or without medicine). Just know that you're not crazy, and that what you're going through is normal considering what you endured. Please talk to your mom or someone who can help you find a therapist. Good luck.
2007-03-28 07:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by Katiecat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should really try talking to your dad about it ...does he know how bad he hurt you? Or do you even know? It's time to face it. Mental health is so important.....and right now you need some help dealing with this problem. Try a counselor at your local health dept. (try the phone book)....
~Hope this is helpful sweetie and I'll pray for you~
2007-03-28 15:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need pills unless a licensed therapist says you do. What you need to do is talk to an abuse counselor. They can help you work through the trauma that your father put you through and help you to lead a happy, healthy life. Please find someone soon, I'm so sorry your dad did this to you. You didn't deserve it at all.
2007-03-28 14:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Aiden 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need therapy. I mean, I use to get beat but for disciplinary actions and it was never gruesome or "too much" and I'm fine. I don't resent my dad. Your situation goes deeper. You need to let it out...with a professional.
2007-03-28 14:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by batchick5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't get over your dad he did something really shady!!!! never forgive even if he says a bunch a crap!!!! did your mom do anything about what he did!! she should have do you have a counsler at your school?? go talk to that person and they WILL help you or maybe you should talk to one of your teachers,hundreds of kids die from those kinds of parents, good luck, Miley Cyrus
2007-03-28 14:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak to a mental health professional.
2007-03-28 14:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by lovesunflowers78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UR going to have to see a doctor sweetie, there is nothing over the counter that is going to help. he may prescribe you thing, and he'll want you to talk it out.. but it's something your going to have to do.
good luck.
2007-03-28 14:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is your Dad still around? Why not confront him with some other family members around?
Judgement day has arrived for pops...
2007-03-28 14:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional help.
2007-03-28 14:26:15 · answer #9 · answered by Why I oughtta... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to someone and tell them about these flash backs sometimes it helps just to talk about what happened.
2007-03-28 14:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by ali03 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋