im a white 18 year old male and my girl friend is a half white half korean 22 year old and her fantasy is to sleep with a black guy. what should i do about this how should i react?
2007-03-28 07:18:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You both are young and she is not ready to be with one guy. Let her go. I am sure there are some things you want to do and see before you commit.
2007-03-28 07:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by Why I oughtta... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely not honor that - so her fantasy is to cheat on your relationship? I don't see what a guy's color would do for her, but it would be like you telling her that your fantasy was to sleep with a full asian, a redhead, or any other than her, take your pick. Find out what she really finds enticing about it and try to maybe role play w/it if you plan on staying w/her, but if you really don't care, then just get rid of her - 'cause for some weird reason, your color or whatever is not enough for her.
2007-03-28 07:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has fantasys after time so let it go after all don't most people have fantasys like that? If she doesnt take it further like doing no need to worry about it
2007-03-28 07:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Cherryade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be it's just a fantasy but you should talk to her and ask her if when she's wit you does she think of her fantasy? If she's constantly thinking of her fantasy you should let her go. I know that my boyfriend had a fantasy about being with a certain type of girl but he didn't constantly bring it up If she is constantly bringing it up you should talk to her about it. Because you're just wasting you time with her.
2007-03-28 07:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by aquarius2389 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there is nothing wrong with a fantasy!!! Are you willing to help her act upon is what you should be asking yourself. I don't think you have anything to worry about because all the stories told about blcak men aren't true. I know that you want to please your women but how far are you willing to go? Do you trust her? Do you love her enough to do that with her?
2007-03-28 07:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it's your fantasy to sleep with a black women. See what she says then.
2007-03-28 07:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by landersonjr1958 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY? Is it becasue she's attracted to black men, or what? STD's are at a very high rate among blacks, so tell her to be extremely careful if she does.
I dated a black guy once. His mouth was the only thing big on him.
2007-03-28 07:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by beingbad67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that no matter what her race, she isn't allowed to have another boyfriend. You can't tell me that you'd seriously indulge your girlfriend in this so-called fantasy of hers. She's asking your permission to cheat. Hello!
2007-03-28 07:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by Aiden 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should react very badly...
Tell her she needs to make a choice right now
because you are not going to compete with her
fantasy nor are you going to allow her to make
it a reality...
2007-03-28 07:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and if you let her do it you're a punk and she'll drop you like a hot rock
2007-03-28 07:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by awsmgman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋