Why is no one answering my question? I asked it 3 times please help!?

Question

How upset should I be?

My fiance lied and said he payed $190 in rent and he only paid $100 (bi-weekly rent) I found the reciept in his wallet. He said he did it so we had spending money for the weekend. I'm taking this very seriously because I never expected him to lie to me and now I'm shocked and very pissed and I'm even thinking of telling him I want to rethink marraige. The guy is really sweet and completly head over heels for me, I don't want to be too mean or harsh to him but I've never been good at sugar coating things when I'm upset, I'm very very blunt, but I don't want to hurt him, he's the sensitive type. Am I making too big of deal of this? Should I not tell him I want to rethink the marraige?

Answer 1

Tell him how you feel about him lying and that you can't start a marriage off by having secrets and lies between the two of you. Ask him if there is anything else he is keeping from you and if so, you need to know before you get married. Don't let this break up your engagement. Try to work on it and see if he is keeping anything else from you. Tell him that you want to marry him but if you find him to be dishonest you won't be able to go through with it. You should make this very clear. Marriage is for a life time and you need to spend it with someone that you can trust in every way. Don't be afraid to let him know how you feel even if it might hurt him because this is an issue you need to deal with before you commit yourself to someone.

Answer 2

confident, yet start up out sluggish.. experience the situation on a similar time as on the date she would be waiting to instruct you indicators that she is interested in better than a Platonic courting. Get on the brink of her yet do no longer attempt to kiss her enable her make the 1st circulate or take the communication to the subsequent point on the 1st 2 dates. If she would not after the 2nd then deliver it up lower back approximately quite feeling her. Then that is going to likely be on - save me as much as date.