2007-03-28 07:21:37 · 26 answers · asked by milky_cali_one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Without trust you really have nothing. You will argue and always be questioning everything in a relationship. Whether your suspicions are founded or unfounded..
Some people have no reason to question but have been burnt by others and take that out on new relationships.. That is unfair to the new people and will also kill the relationship.
If jealousy and trust issues are unfounded, best to get some sort of counseling before you drive everyone around you away and never get the chance to have a happy and healthy relationship.
If you do not trust because you have a valid reason from your current significant other.. then you either have to move on and leave or work hard to forget about it.
Trust and jealousy destroy ... Even the strongest of relationships cannot survive that type of strain.
2007-03-28 07:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by Steffi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should find out the reason why you can't trust your partner. If you feel it is something important to you and your other person betrayed you, it is all up to you if you are willing to let go and move on. If you are going to keep holding it over the other person's head, than yes, end the relationship... But you got to at least try to resolve your issues first so you feel that you tried everything that you could do to make it work...
2007-03-28 07:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by WOOOOO Whooo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Trust is one of the number one factors in an an relationship. If you cannot trust your mate, you have nothing to build on, grow with or develop into. You will end up driving yourself and your mate crazy and the realtionship will end regardless. You will become emotional isolated, frustrated and confused. Don't do it to yourself! YOU always deserve better. If your mate loves you or cares a lot about you he/she will not allow you to feel like he/she cannot be trusted. They will do everything they can to make sure you trust them.
2007-03-28 08:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by sunshoni 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That's a tough one. I guess it depends. If you don't trust that person because of your OWN reasons, and not anything they have done, you should probably seek some counseling to figure out why you are feeling that way.
However, if your partner has done something to warrant your mistrust, it takes time to gain it back. If your partner has cheated on you, and you just can't let it go, then I would say you probably do need to end it.
2007-03-28 07:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! A million time over! My sister in law and her husband started a relationship based on dishonesty. He cheated on his girlfriend with her. From then on their entire relationship has been built on a foundation of distrust and dishonesty. She struggles daily with trusting that he wont cheat on HER this time. They have only been married a year and are already going to counseling. When I last spoke to her she said she wished she had never married him at all because she agonizes about whether or not he will cheat on her one day. It is NOT worth it! If you can't trust your partner end it. Trust is TOO huge and too vital to have it on shaky ground.
2007-03-28 07:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! Trust is the key to all things in a relationship. Without trust, you have NOTHING.
2007-03-28 07:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If trust is important to you, then yes, you should probably consider ending the relationship.
2007-03-28 07:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you trust them? Have they given you a reason not to?
If there is no logical reason for your mistrust, I'd say you have the issue and not them. If there is a logical reason for the mistrust, talk it over with your partner and tell them how you feel. Don't start the conversation with the word "you"...start it with "I feel". As long as you're not accusing, your partner should be receptive. If they're not and they act an ***, move on.
2007-03-28 07:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the foundation of any relationship. A relationship built without a foundation will crumble and fall.
2007-03-28 07:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your married you shouldn't end your relationship, even if your not married you should not end your relationship. just sit down with your partner and tell him what bothers you. that you find it hard to trust him. communication is also an imporatant thing in a relationship. so just talk to him
2007-03-28 07:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by <3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋