Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

I just found out that my ex-wife was pregnant at the time of our divorce. I now have a 24 yr old daughter I need to get to know. When we were married I told her that I didn't want kids so I got a vasectomy but it didn't take for some reason. She claimes that she didn't tell me because she didn't want to screw up my life. Is this proper?

2007-03-22 02:41:24 · 28 answers · asked by davidaronis2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Since my wedding and reception will be held in the same place and the wedding doesn't start until 4:30, I'm thinking about having the rehearsal the morning of the wedding and having breakfast served directly after (the caterer I'm using has his own banquet hall and could easily prepare breakfast for the 19 of us in the wedding party). I'm just wondering if that will be pushing it since everyone will need to go home and change and then come back. However there are very nice rooms - with bathrooms - upstairs, I could invite everyone to get dressed there. Do you think that's "too much" on one day?

2007-03-22 02:40:54 · 12 answers · asked by Brandy 6 in Weddings

I have two nieces 11 and 12 I am trying to teach them some rhymes other little girls sang when they was younger. i grew up in the 80's and we use to do jump rope songs and hand clapping songs. Is there any you remember that you can share with us? Thanks

2007-03-22 02:40:35 · 11 answers · asked by Nevada 2 in Friends

Friends I`m in a very embarassing situation and your advice would be most welcome....

I`m shy and very afraid to be nude in front of my guy (my future husband)...I just cannot.. I`m more afraid than shy....(I think sometimes it may be if he will like my body and stuff like that)Sometimes i feel so helpless that i may burst into tears....He showed me himself nude but when he asks to see me naked i always post it to later and he is dissapointed....I really want to please him...

Many years ago i went nude in front of my ex without shyness and fear but we got separated and he is now married.... And Each time when i begin to undress infront of my boyfriend ,I think of my ex....like a flashback of me going nude infront of my ex (married) which makes me feel very bad..

Please, Please, Please Help me out I love him..but i just cannot be nude infront of him... Genuine answers please

2007-03-22 02:40:07 · 23 answers · asked by Kathelyn 1 in Singles & Dating

why would a guy read my email 11 times before responding? why not read it once, and say what you want to say? Or if he does not care for me, then don't reply to my email at all, right? what is going on with this guy?I told this old friend from high school that i would be in his area and let's meet for drinks, and he came up with so many excuses as to why he could not see me. Mind you, he has told me that i was the love of his and we should have gotten married but now he is living with this woman who he says he is not really in love with but does not want to her hurt her feelings because he has been hurt before and does not want to do the same. Then when i told him that i loved him too, he said all we can be friends. but he goes back and forth with clues as to how he screwed up as a kid with me but then says he is getting married again to this woman. I don't think he is getting married again. I think he is making this all up. But why?

2007-03-22 02:40:05 · 7 answers · asked by monalisa79 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been hanging out with a girl a lot lately. and i know she has a boyfriend but he is emotionally and mentally abusive. To a certain degree at least. he degrades her and tells her she needs to lose weight, etc..
Anyway, she knows i like her and we talk a lot and we are basically best friends. but then when i go to visit her she seems to ignore me unless i am doing something for her or buying her something.
The last time i went there she spent more time talking to all sorts of people on the phone , one of them some guy out of town that likes her, and i ended up hooking up my mp3 player and listening to it because i had nothing to do.
she knew something was worng but i lied and just said i was thinking about a test i had the next day because i know she doesnt do it on purpose and i dont want to hurt her feelings because i like her a lot.
is she leading me on? i like her and i buy her lots of stuff and i think she may be taking advantage of the fact that she knows thats how i am.

2007-03-22 02:39:51 · 7 answers · asked by djacobh 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my gf are together for 2 years. We already finished studying and currently looking for a job. the thing there is that she's living far away in my place. the last time that we saw each other was 1 month ago. we both afraid that sometime we would fall out of love. do you think it's worthy if we finally tie the knot?

2007-03-22 02:39:33 · 20 answers · asked by jedd1216 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-22 02:39:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a ffriend that is nice to my face but slags me off behind my back what can i do?

2007-03-22 02:39:07 · 8 answers · asked by Alexa 1 in Friends

2007-03-22 02:38:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've liked this guy for a while now and I talk to him everyday after school. We use to not talk much, I would be the one that went up to him and talked, but after he found out that I liked him, he has been coming up to me more instead of me cominmg up to him. Prom is coming up and I know he would go w/ me if I asked him, but I would rather him ask me. What can I do to get him to ask me w/o me being too obvious.

2007-03-22 02:38:06 · 14 answers · asked by Leslie M 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that i like but he likes this real slut and him and her will sit there and call me a ***** when their the ones being bitchs...she comes and brags about him all the time...

2007-03-22 02:36:29 · 21 answers · asked by <3[D@ViDs]_{Qt}<3 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm married to a women that i thought was just everything. One day i was getting rid of some stuff after we moved in our home i found some of her old cell bills.And what i saw was shocking. I saw this same # listede several times,so i did a call and acted like i dailed the wrong # just to see who is was and he told me who he was, and i asked a mutual friend of ours to check it out and come to find out is that she was talking and supposelty see him. I confronted her about this and she just flat out lied about and continued to lie for about 3 months. They talked for 5 months about 900-1000 mins a month. So finally after i stayed on her for the truth se said it was nothing seriuos.. She claimed she never met him ect. I still didn't feel right and finally broke down and told her that i think kthat she was still lying, and then she said i met him only once " he came by my work" unannounced, which to me was creepy. Now my problem is i still feel that there was more to it. y did she hide it

2007-03-22 02:35:57 · 23 answers · asked by sullierodgers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I sway more towards nice but i think a balance of naughty and nice is healthy ;) What do you prefer, what's in this season? lol

2007-03-22 02:35:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 02:34:57 · 2 answers · asked by D 2 in Family

Please inform me of everything I need for our wedding ceremony? I mean when it comes to the arch, candlelabra & etc. Also tell me the quantity I need. I need to know everything I need to rent out? Thanks.

2007-03-22 02:34:55 · 5 answers · asked by me 1 in Weddings

I am newly married, and my husband is the greatest man a woman could ever wish for, we click on just about every level. I have a 9 year old daughter that we are raising together. He is a great step-father to her, and loves her so much, and she loves him. Her natual father is an irresponsible, alcoholic, that is very selfish and immature, that visits with her on holidays, or once in a blue moon. He claims to love her, but he does not support her financially or emtionally, nor is he active in her daily life. She is very nervous around him, but she loves his family, aunts, uncles, and gramdma, etc. My question is if I were to die, would my present husband be able to keep her as his daughter, or would the courts hand her over to her biological father, who has been absent all these years. I was never married to her biological father. Do you know of anyone that this has happened to, should I get a lawyer?, or would having a living will help? I am looking for serious advice.

2007-03-22 02:34:32 · 12 answers · asked by Maria A. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love with a woman, we have been friends for many years and in the last two years have developed feelings for one another. We want to get married but the problem is she is already married, She had an arranged marriage and they basically have a loveless marraige. He tells her if she leaves he will do something drastic, he is very dependent on her. We love each other beyond belief but she also does not want him to hurt himself. Her husband also knows she loves someone else but refuses to leave her. Any suggestions?

2007-03-22 02:34:18 · 22 answers · asked by JOHN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My EX really confuses me... We split up 6 months ago, the other week she emailed me with a requst to join her myspace page, i accepted, to keep in touch with some of our mutual friends..! Why is she doing this, is it to keep tabs on me..??? i know that she talks to my house mate / mates, and she was trying to get info, on the girl im seeing naw..? i dont get her, she dumped me, we were together for 4 years..!!!
I aint spoke to her in 5 months...?

2007-03-22 02:33:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 32 yr 0ld man being sexual relation with a guy of 30 from last 7 years. He got married 18 months before and little bit i dissappointed and again i controlled myself thats his life let him go. after days mentally i flustrated because i cant call him . i cant meet him i dont want to disturb him. because of lonlyness i also decided to get maried . i did makeup my mind and i married. But still im thinking and want him too much. I have doubt that can i love my wife honestly sincierly heartly.

2007-03-22 02:33:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-22 02:32:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a 16 year old junior and next year when i graduate i want to join the mariens but there's this girl and I have been waiting a long time for her to move down and she finally is this summer to go to college not to far from here. Should I go ahead and join the mariens if we do start dating again or should i check into something else? i luv her to death and want to make her happy but i've also always wanted to join, and if it takes doing something else with my life then thats what i'll do. What would you want your b/f to do?

2007-03-22 02:31:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Because usally i go speechless!!

2007-03-22 02:31:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfrnd of 7 mnths told me I can't meet his 5 yr old daughter until his baby momma gets a man. He pays child support but not through the court. Him and his ex agreed he would pay a certain amount. He told his ex about three months ago that he had a girlfrnd and she was "hurt." Even though she was the one that broke up with him and it had been a year since. It infuriates me that we cant incorporate his child into our relationship. It is a serious relationship and I believe him when he says he's in love with me but he's scared that his ex will not let him to see the kid. I think he's letting her play a bigger part in his life than she should. I already told him that I do not agree with it and it bothers me and he said he loves me and it does not matter how long it takes for me to meet his son, eventually things will work out. It's something I think about b/c what if it's a year into our relationship and I still have not met the most important person in his life? What do I do now?

2007-03-22 02:31:07 · 9 answers · asked by mandysmith789 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you see favortism, once you have a child with that person

2007-03-22 02:31:00 · 7 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Family

I enjoy sex so much but I don't want to be in a relationship. I enjoy having sex with different women because each woman is different and is good at different things. Is there anything wrong with that?

2007-03-22 02:30:40 · 7 answers · asked by mskman 1 in Singles & Dating

what would make a guy want you?

2007-03-22 02:30:13 · 16 answers · asked by tony r 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is jealous about me dating a girl. He says she is immature and ugly. And tells me not to speak about her with him. Also, he is her friend too. What should i do?

2007-03-22 02:28:02 · 23 answers · asked by Mark A 1 in Singles & Dating

My Ex-boyfriend was abusive verbally and phisicaly but other times he was good to me and i know that deep down inside he loves me but he told me other wise when i went to give him theDr. statement (read Previous questions) he told me that he doesnt hate me that eventually he will apologize when he's ready and that he doesntlove me! i cant believe that in two weeks he completelly lost his love for me after 1yr. & 1/2 is just driving me crazy and i cant get over him i dont know what to do im already making appointments to get psycological help but it hurts me so much i wanna die...

2007-03-22 02:27:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have already asked about my ex here once and got some very good detailed replies. I was unfaithful and he found out and left me (not right away though, took him a while). 5 months later, we are still spending time together, I find it extremely painful and keep trying to make him come back. He keeps saying he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me because he does not love me. However, we have made love several times since the break up, a couple of times while he was drunk (he's a lovely drunk) and several times sober. When we do it, it feels like he's in love with me... he kisses and touches me only like a man in love would... like he used to when we were a couple. Once sex is over, he clams up again and denies any emotional attachment, only admits that he "cares" about me but wants us to "just be friends"... When I ask what kind of "just friends" make love, he says nothing. What should I do? Should I hang around and wait for him to one day change his mind and fall for me again?

2007-03-22 02:26:52 · 14 answers · asked by ozkiska2love 2 in Other - Family & Relationships