Me and my gf are together for 2 years. We already finished studying and currently looking for a job. the thing there is that she's living far away in my place. the last time that we saw each other was 1 month ago. we both afraid that sometime we would fall out of love. do you think it's worthy if we finally tie the knot?
2007-03-22 02:39:33 · 20 answers · asked by jedd1216 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO!
If this was a true love, and she's really the girl that you want to spend your life with, you wouldn't be asking this question.
You would know!
2007-03-22 02:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by meow_bi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's an ol' ladies opinion: If you are under 30 don't be in a rush. You have doubts, she has doubts, so don't marry right now. How often are you together? Is there a possibility of living in the same place for a while? Find good jobs first, save some money for your future, either together or apart, it doesn't matter as money will earn interest while your interest in each other may wane. Long distance relationships rarely work out, if you have any doubts just look at the divorce rate in the military or the god forsaken hollywood A list. My first thought is to live together for a few years first, that will definitely give you the answer you seek. If you are still in love with each other after a few years, chances are you will be walking down the aisle. In the meantime, enjoy life, make the most of it, follow your heart as that gives you the best advice.
2007-03-22 09:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by nancy w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. the feeling of getting married.. has to be come from both party.. if you both are worried that you would fall out of love due to distance.. chance are high - you will divorce soon after tied the knot. There is nothing call worthy or not. you both are young.
2007-03-26 09:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by TO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job and from there you will see if you are able to support her for life. Having doubts mean you need to give yourself and her time to assess where the relationship is heading to. Whether it is gettin better or worse once both of you started work, from there you can tell. Remember time changes everything, including you. Marriage is not an answer to keep the both of you physically together. It is more than that. Just wait and see. Buy yourself sometime to get your career launched.
2007-03-22 09:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by shida2606 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes distance in a relationship is good and gives you two a chance to collect yourselves, but the important thing is that loving someone does not stop because of separation for a short time apart, I think its time to sit and talk and make sure you both are ready for marriage...
2007-03-22 10:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely love each other, then don't worry about losing your love for each other. I didn't see my boyfriend for 3 months once, and it only brought us closer together. it's complet;y normal to be nervous about marriage, but you need to be completly sure that's what you want. Are you willing to spend the rest of your life with this girl? Do you care about her that much? You don't want to rush into things. Take it slow. Make sure it's the right decision. Follow your heart. Trust in yourself. You'll make the right choice. :)
2007-03-22 09:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you move closer. You also need to find out if you similar life goals. Like.... children-how many and when, religion-practising?, how to mangae money, if you have children will she stay home or work........that kind of stuff. Love just isn't enough without being on the same page.
2007-03-22 09:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should evaluate the relationship....why do you want to marry?? are you really ready?? why not date for a couple of more months and see how thins go...I personally think your not ready...and why rush? So take your time and see where things lead you guys...Good Luck!!!
2007-03-22 09:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These are not good reasons to marry. You need to just get a job and see where life takes you two.
2007-03-22 09:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not the two of you should marry is a decision only you can make. Don't expect others to do this for you.
2007-03-22 09:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋