I enjoy sex so much but I don't want to be in a relationship. I enjoy having sex with different women because each woman is different and is good at different things. Is there anything wrong with that?
2007-03-22 02:30:40 · 7 answers · asked by mskman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as noone is getting hurt I think it's okay!!
2007-03-22 02:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the individuals involved. Most men (and many women) are capable of having sex without emotional attachment. Clearly, you fall into this category. But then again, not everybody does, because some women (and some men) can't separate sex from emotion, and that's where things get sticky.
So long as you are (a) up-front about where it's all going, i.e., you're not leading any of these women on (even indirectly) about a relationship, the future, etc; and (b) practicing safe sex . . . it's not "wrong" per se. Your call, but just stop and think about what you're doing with your life.
Time is the most precious commodity we have, and you'll be wasting yours on meaningless, hollow, purely physical gratification, when you should have been pursuing a more fulfilling type of relationship.
Personally, I don't see emotionless sex as a good thing. I've had my share, and it will (probably years down the road) leave you feeling empty and regretful. And BELIEVE me: the sex is never - EVER - better than when you're with somebody you really love.
2007-03-22 09:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by Humberto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The danger in having "friends who ****" is that at some point one of the friends wants to be more than friends. It'll happen sooner or later, no matter what you do. I, myself, always thought it was okay. Until I called a "friend" who is now driving me nuts, even though I made it perfectly clear what my intentions were, and were not. Keep it clean and your motives obvious. Regardless, there is nothing you can do about what other people feel.
2007-03-22 09:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by liebchen2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with having f***buddies. In fact it is actually good for you if you care to look up the stats.
My wife and I have been non-monogamous since we were married. We are also polyamourus as well.
Stats show that the divorce rate among the very religious is 35% while among swingers and non-monogamous is 5%.
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2007-03-22 10:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it's just sex with no strings attached, because if you or one of those women get attached your screwed. Make sure the women your having sex with know that your only having sex nothing else.
2007-03-22 09:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie's Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as everyone is in agreement I don't see the problem.
2007-03-22 09:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as no one gets attached to you...and ur being safe...
2007-03-22 09:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋