My friend is jealous about me dating a girl. He says she is immature and ugly. And tells me not to speak about her with him. Also, he is her friend too. What should i do?
2007-03-22 02:28:02 · 23 answers · asked by Mark A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are very serious about each other, i mean, we are planning to get engaged soon
2007-03-22 02:34:40 · update #1
I would ask him to be more respectful to your girlfriend. Ask him why he talks about her like that when he is friends with her as well. You can ask him honestly about this as a buddy! Tell him that it bothers you that he can't be happy for you and her. Good luck.
2007-03-22 02:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Ambre B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something weird is going on here. Be cautious and careful. Doesn't sound like much of a friend to be saying this to you. He could be jealous and maybe he has feelings for her too. The question is, who has really made the greatest impact to her. I also suggest that you have a serious conflict of interest which needs to be dealt with. What happens if she cheats on you and has the baby you think is yours but is his. This type of thing happens all the time. The best advise would be to leave them both. Don't risk the future in not knowing if the child is really yours and the possibility that she might sleep with him when you guys are married. You have a difficult situation. If he gets mad, you and her could lose him. How devistating could this be for either one of you? Consider all of the options here and be cautious and careful. You wouldn't want him to act out and kill you and your girlfriend. It might be best to live life and get away from both before you end up dead. Jealous people tend to perform acts of physical violence against those they're jealous against.
2007-03-29 19:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by scottsorgent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have an immature so-called friend.
Not only that, if people look at the outside of a person
without considering the inside then they only want one thing
any way.
You've heard the old saying - Beauty is only skin deep or
A wolf in sheeps clothing.
Good Luck
2007-03-30 01:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he claims to be her friend, he would not call her immature and ugly.He is jealous because he has unrequited love for her and is mad that you get the prize. If you do get engaged to her, be prepared to lose him as a friend because he will do what he can to mess things up between you and her.
2007-03-29 20:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell the girl ur dating that her "friend" isn't really her friend. Friends get jealous all the time but I think he's taking it too far. I don't think u should talk to him anymore
2007-03-22 02:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore your mate, he is just jealous, i know he is your friend but you gotta let him know that if he was a true mate he would be happy for you! He may even fancy her himself! I have been out with a guy before whos mate liked me, And his mate was always nasty to me!!! So be careful! If he can't get over it it's not your fault! you be happy with the one you love!! Its not fair the way he is treating your girlfriend so make sure you stick up for her, Because if you don't she will not be happy!
2007-03-30 02:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by xStacex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend why he gets jealous, because there's nothing with you dating a girl.
2007-03-22 02:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by Dora the Exploiter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be jealous that you have someone and he doesn't, or most likely he doesn't like that girl has "come between" he and you. guys never like that. so, tell him that he means the world to you and you don't mean to ignore him, and ask him what you can do to make him feel like he's still a major part of your life. go have some brewskies hahahahhaa
2007-03-28 18:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is her friend, too, how good a friend is he? He may like her himself. If that is not the case, then he just doesn't see the good things that you see in her. But they are there, at least you see them. So go with that. Trust that eventually, he will come to see those good things in her too.
2007-03-30 01:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a friend of this girl too I suggest to remain friends as it causes problems for all three of you...you all are friends, try to maintain that....
2007-03-22 02:31:00 · answer #10 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋