I sway more towards nice but i think a balance of naughty and nice is healthy ;) What do you prefer, what's in this season? lol
2007-03-22 02:35:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The key feature I find attractive is self confidence. Not egotism. Just healthy confidence. Sense of humor. Good hygiene. Mature and in charge of his life. Not trying to impress me with how "bad" or how "cool" he is. Sensual. Comfortable in his own skin.
Of course, he has to treat a woman nicely. Disrespect, abuse, rudeness, or selfishness are all major turnoffs. Women don't have to settle for that anymore.
The allure of the "bad boy" is so temporary. When a woman matures, she wants a partner she can be herself with and who can carry his own share of the relationship, not someone she has to worry over and babysit.
Hope this answers your question. If you are a nice guy, you just stay that way. The other kind usually come to a bad end and leave a trail of broken hearts and sorrow in their wake. A nice guy, by the way, can be very sexy. A mature confident decent man is the sexiest thing there is.
2007-03-22 02:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think any girl would want a nice guy, But I know of girls that hook up with mean guys that slap them around and treat them bad. While nice guys stay lonely. So go figure,
Shows what I know.
2007-03-22 08:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets put it this way. the nice guys always finish last. it sucks. i know im a nice guy. i have a girl i really like but some a hole did some crappy things and now she is scared of all guys. but yet she is attracted to a bad boy that will do her wrong again. so we just have to be patient until they learn were better.
2007-03-22 02:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by midnight78dhs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it goes with the generation, most teens go for bad boys, they want to be popular. they want people to know im going out with a thug, touch me and you'll get what u deserve. its all about popularity. then there are those who wud go for the nice sweet guy, its either they know what they want or they dont have the looks bad guys are looking for. then the mature girls who are done with fooling around go for the nice guy coz they want sumthing serious, they know what they want in life and are already searching for "the 1". so its not about seasons.
2007-03-22 02:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by wa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a guy who is sweet to me in front of my family and friends but naughty later when we are alone
2007-03-22 02:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by spawnof_thedevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its simply a matter of psychology. women usually find bad boys irresistable and can be attracted to them as moths to light.its something about their attitude.maybe its becos they can be so unpredictable.but nice guys are the winners cos after the woman's heart gets broken by the bad guy, she goes running back to the nice guy. Personally, i like nice guys but careful! not too nice now.u dont want to bore me to death.
2007-03-22 02:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by kikky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys who are a bit rough around the edges. So they won't let you down or intentionally hurt u but they also stick up for you and make u feel protected......
Aka, good guys who are misunderstood as bad guys!!! Corny i no!!
xxxxxxx
2007-03-22 02:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by Whisper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what the girl is looking for..... If she wants a real relationship, then she'll go w/ the nice guy. But is she wants a fling..... who knows ;-)
2007-03-22 02:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by April 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A healthy mix of both - the key though is maturity and respect.
2007-03-22 02:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by maybelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice. Nice guys stay around
2007-03-22 02:39:24 · answer #10 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋