My EX really confuses me... We split up 6 months ago, the other week she emailed me with a requst to join her myspace page, i accepted, to keep in touch with some of our mutual friends..! Why is she doing this, is it to keep tabs on me..??? i know that she talks to my house mate / mates, and she was trying to get info, on the girl im seeing naw..? i dont get her, she dumped me, we were together for 4 years..!!!
I aint spoke to her in 5 months...?
2007-03-22 02:33:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls are like that. Even though she broke up with you, she still wants to know what you are up to. On some level we want to believe that you can never live without us. If we leave you, you are supposed to pine away for us forever. You will be ruined for all other women because they will never compare to us. It's just one of the many psychological games we do to men. If I was you, I would just continue to live my life without her.
2007-03-22 02:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...she still has real feelings for you partner...but I'm not thinking they're the kinda feelings you really need to be responding to with her accordingly. It is her way of keeping tabs and up on the stuff of you for certain my friend. She wants to know how well you're faring after the instances of her relationship with you for sure. I'd simply remind my close mutual personal friends that YOUR business right now?... is YOUR business...not hers! She dumped you dude...and that was her mistake unfortunately. Fortunately for you?...you've moved on with your life and away from her surely. Leave her to her own devices dude...you have no power in her crap otherwise. She's feeling a little bit guilty and shameful about having dumped you without much thought processes...and now she's feeling her own personal regrets certainly. The grass ain't always greener folks! She might be a good lay possibly partner?...but she ain't that great a lay obviously. She'd still be with you if she was. Let her play her childish games with herself and your mutual friends dude. She's only making herself look a little bit silly...not you unreasonably. Stay true to your new girl here my friend...and don't waiver over your ex's silliness here otherwise. She's simply trying to muck up your water for you and your new gal here truly. It's kinda what some immature people occasionally do unfortunately! Let that old one go dude...she ain't worth the air you breath into your lungs otherwise......agreed? Good luck with your new gal partner...seriously! That's where your most intense importance and priorities should be right now anyways my friend.
2007-03-22 09:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are reading too much into it. Being a myspace friend doens't exactly equate to her wanting to meddle. She probably just saw your profile and wanted to add another friend. Or perhaps she is interested in being your friend now that things have cooled off. 4 years is a long time to be in someone's life and them completely cut ties. Just because she didn't want to be with you doesn't mean she doesn't care about you as a person.
2007-03-22 09:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she still likes you......and i think if you try to talk to her as a normal friend... and see whats going on with her....she obviously wants to be with you again.....and if you 2 have been goin out for 4 years....she must have been mad about something but she probably was planning to get back with you until she herd you had a new g/f
2007-03-22 09:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by babi gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun.My bf is going threw the same thing she cheatd on him she calls nd texts him wenever she wants jst dont keep in touch with her.my bf regrets it for keepn in touch with her
2007-03-22 09:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by Cailin Deas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she's fooling with you cause she still wants a grip on you which you shouldn't let. Or she's regreting what she has done and she just realized that and thats up to you to decide wether you'll let her back in your life.
2007-03-22 09:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by princetongrl949 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares bro go on with your life.. let her wonder and find out whatever she wants...ur not tied down with her anymore move on..she sounds a little crazy to me..id stay away
2007-03-22 09:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ermm....maybe she's just trying to be friends with you?
She didn't ask you out or anything, don't read too much into it
2007-03-22 09:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block her from my space
2007-03-22 09:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mark A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her confuse you, you know where you stand with her.
http://www.relationship-affairs.com/your-ex.html
2007-03-22 09:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋